People pleasers

"People pleasers aren't trying to please other people. They're trying to avoid their own feelings of shame when they disappoint someone. Every people pleaser has one core goal: control how another person views them." / Dr. Nicole LePera

And how to stop.

Agreeing to things just to keep the peace is actually a trauma response. When you do this, you're disrespecting your boundaries. No more making yourself uncomfortable for others to feel comfortable. You have control now. You run your life. Take up space and use your voice. Unknown Author

Gentle Reminder for recovering people pleasers: sometimes, the best decisions for yourself will bother other people. Make them anyway. You are not responsible for their happiness, reactions, or perceptions of you.

If you want to get better at pleasing people, check out these people-pleasing tips and learn how to get the least out of your life.

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People pleasers

People pleasers tend to feel an emotional need to put other people’s wants and needs above their own. If you people please, you might think things like, “my needs aren’t as important,” “I have to make a sacrifice for this person,” or “they might leave me if I don’t prioritize them.” You might struggle with conflict and hate it when someone’s mad at you. In general, you feel a lot of responsibility for other people’s feelings. #lifestrategist #lifecoach #therapist #peoplepleasing #…

People pleasers self-abandon. This is done thanks to conditioned patterns that teach a people pleaser it is safer this way. You might get… | Instagram

I've always struggled with people pleasing. But when I see it as a bad habit to break, it makes me feel ashamed when I try to please. Instead of seeing it as a horrible habit to break, I've changed my mindset toward focusing on loving myself more. And it totally helps! Here are 3 self-love tips for people pleasers. #peoplepleasing #peoplepleasers

Empath Refuge on Instagram: “Something I had to come to terms with as a former people pleaser, was that it’s OK if people don’t like me. It’s OK if they create a false…”

Christina Campbell | LETTERING on Instagram: “Comment your fav color variation 😋 where are my fellow people pleasers at?!? You have to do what’s best for you! Don’t feel bad for doing…”

Looking for inspirational quotes about people pleasing? We have rounded up the best collection of people pleaser quotes, sayings, captions, and status, (with images and pictures) to break free from your people pleasing ways and start giving importance to yourself. Who is called a people pleaser? A people pleaser is someone who everyone considers kind […]

Hannah Rand | Illustrator on Instagram: “✨And I’m not sorry if that bothers you ✨ This is my first piece messing around with @procreate 🌈 it’s really hard learning a new program 😅…”