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Cake day: August 17th, 2023

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  • I wholly don’t understand it. If one brings up an issue it kind of is up to the person to explain why it is an issue, no? I’d just tell ya I’m part of a marginalised group? Like, I’m the US version of “white”, rich enough to afford a vacation a year and a house, cishet. My marginalization is not brought up on those bullet points so you’d have to go digging down my comments to find it. Like, how often do these issues get brought up?

    Like, the person exists allright if they’re in front of me but if they have an active problem they do have to make a case among the group, as otherwise it seems very easily weaponized.

    As for the reason I’m a marginalised group, I got falsely accused of raping someone and that wholly destroyed my social life. I hope you have an understanding of why I’m very weary of these kind of systems.









  • Gonzakoto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonerule 🫣
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    Oh, gotcha! For me it’s something I caught up because my cuties loved it and it meshed really well in the D/s dynamic we had going on.

    I’m certain I’d enjoy some praise and attention too but I still haven’t really gotten into a relationship where that happens


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    There seems to be a bit of a distinction between the sycophantic behaviour of chat gpt and a praiser. I really can’t remember exactly what would be different as I don’t interact with cGPT and it’s been a while since I’ve gotten to be in a relationship that got that deep.




  • Gonzakoto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEpstein didn't rule himself
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    For certain! Both my life and that of 3 other guys would have been ruined if the judge chose to just believe the first girl I was with.

    They would later go on to say that they lied on every single one of them. Tho, it didn’t help the youngest one and latest they accused. He still got bullied out of the school they were in.