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  • Its corporate social media. They changed the algorithms so that you have “content” shoved down your throat as soon as you walk in the door. You are profiled, stalked, and they attempt to keep you scrolling as long as possible for ad revenue. Shit that barely passes as “content” by people with half a pulse that isn’t funny gets pushed on you.

    You’re tired of being used to generate money for someone else.









  • kinthertoADHDI guess my marriage is history
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    Check out the Fever app for local date night ideas. I have found a few fun things like candlelight music, dining in the dark, escape rooms, etc.

    Check out Everout for local things like comedy shows, book readings, events, night markets, and other things to do that sound interesting to you. Actually commit to going to one.

    Write notes. It sounds corny, but it takes 5 minutes and means a lot, even if you’re a rambling mess. Tell her how much she means to you in physical writing.

    Find a new meal recipe that sounds good to you. Make the food, get some wine, and ask her about something she is interested in. Listen attentively, and ask questions.

    I struggle with ADHD as well. I am always thinking about something else. I am not an extrovert. These ideas are things you can do with your partner, or any new partner/friend. When it comes to whether you should separate, that’s something only you can decide. If you want to make it work, it does take effort - a relationship is a two way street, or a dance you can’t do apart.