I am not convinced that there is an epidemic of low libido. Instead, women are exhausted, and invisible labor and a pay gap make 10 pm sex feel like another chore. There is a shortage of skilled partners, a century of missing anatomy, and a menu that was never designed for female biology. And there is definitely a culture that maligns female pleasure and forces you to swim upstream to get what you want and need.

Patriarchy looms over all things, like a haunting shadow. Biology and sexual wellness are no exception.

Under the sterile blue lights of his studio, Fallon laughs endlessly at the same pseudo-jokes, rubs elbows with Trump and Sam Altman, and ushers in the death of culture.

What I now advocate and try to practice is slightly tangential to both of these (but probably a spiritual cousin to YAGNI): “Do it the dumb way first”. I mean, just get in there and write some terrible code that does the task in the most obvious way possible. Copy and paste little chunks. Have crappy function and variable names. Try to stick with it as long as you can bear.

• 20 most changed files in last year: git log --format=format: --name-only --since="1 year ago" | sort | uniq -c | sort -nr | head -20
• every contributor ranked by commit count: git shortlog -sn --no-merges

Watch someone backspace 40 characters instead of pressing CTRL W, and you’ll understand why this list exists.