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The Boyfriend School

Original title: Don't Tell Her It's Me
  • 1990
  • PG-13
  • 1h 41m
IMDb RATING
5.7/10
3.5K
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Jami Gertz, Steve Guttenberg, Shelley Long, and Kyle MacLachlan in The Boyfriend School (1990)
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Cartoonist Gus has survived cancer treatment and now his romance novelist sister tries to find him a woman and guide him. Will they succeed?Cartoonist Gus has survived cancer treatment and now his romance novelist sister tries to find him a woman and guide him. Will they succeed?Cartoonist Gus has survived cancer treatment and now his romance novelist sister tries to find him a woman and guide him. Will they succeed?

  • Director
    • Malcolm Mowbray
  • Writer
    • Sarah Bird
  • Stars
    • Steve Guttenberg
    • Jami Gertz
    • Shelley Long
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • IMDb RATING
    5.7/10
    3.5K
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Malcolm Mowbray
    • Writer
      • Sarah Bird
    • Stars
      • Steve Guttenberg
      • Jami Gertz
      • Shelley Long
    • 36User reviews
    • 6Critic reviews
  • See production info at IMDbPro
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    Steve Guttenberg
    Steve Guttenberg
    • Gus Kubicek
    Jami Gertz
    Jami Gertz
    • Emily Pear
    Shelley Long
    Shelley Long
    • Lizzie Potts
    Kyle MacLachlan
    Kyle MacLachlan
    • Trout
    Mädchen Amick
    Mädchen Amick
    • Mandy
    Kevin Scannell
    Kevin Scannell
    • Mitchell Potts
    Perry Anzilotti
    Perry Anzilotti
    • Hairdresser
    Nada Despotovich
    • Receptionist
    Beth Grant
    Beth Grant
    • Babette
    Don Hood
    Don Hood
    • Deputy
    Bill Applebaum
    Bill Applebaum
    • Man in Bar
    O'Neal Compton
    O'Neal Compton
    • Gas Station Attendant
    Ron Orbach
    Ron Orbach
    • Bobbi
    Stacy Areheart
    • Teenage Girl
    Bert Hogue
    • Airport Security Guard
    Michelle Torres
    • Ticket Agent
    William 'Birdman' Thomas
    • Man in Line #1
    Sam Youngblood
    • Man in Line #2
    • Director
      • Malcolm Mowbray
    • Writer
      • Sarah Bird
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    User reviews36

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    7steven-112

    Funny Face

    Absolutely charming, an old school romance that would never see the light of day in the noughties.

    Full of genuinely funny moments, particularly from Shelley Long chastising her infant on the dangers of sticking fingers in sockets or eating oil covered bolts in a non-chalont manner. Leads look great and have the timing for comedy. Jamie Gertz never fails to charm.

    Funny, romantic, inspiring and beautiful, says this soppy old romantic.
    anton2101

    I would say it's cute.

    Not being a native speaker it is sometimes hard for me to understand what is the meaning of some words because we don't have an equivalent in my language. One of such words is cute, neither beautiful nor attractive. I was explained it's like somehow good or beautiful but not enough. This movie is just like that. Unless you are totally romantic you gonna hate this film. I mean predictable story, lots of overused moments and twists, classical ending... I loved it! The thing is the film is good at it's main purpose, it is romantically charming. And that means a lot, at least to me. It's a good-natured film about good-natured people for the good-natured viewers.
    tfrizzell

    Wanting to See What You See.......And What You Don't See.

    An overweight cartoonist (Steve Guttenberg) who has just finished with chemotherapy after almost dying of cancer quickly falls in love with Jami Gertz. Gertz is dating super-jerk Kyle MacLachlan though and honestly she has no attraction to Guttenberg. Guttenberg is the best person you can find though and unfortunately his inward beauty is not matched by his physical appearance. Older sister/novelist Shelley Long looks to change that though by turning Guttenberg literally into someone else physically and proving that Gertz is as superficial as she appears. This will of course give inspiration for a new book, but what happens when Gertz falls for Guttenberg? And does she fall for him because of his outward appearance, his inner-beauty or both? For the genre not bad at all, but still unremarkable all the same. The performers are all basically more at home with slapstick comedy or television sitcoms. Though kind of dumb and never too intelligent, the movie still has an admirable heart. Fair little date night movie, but once again nothing overwhelming. 2.5 out of 5 stars.
    xxballisticxx

    Don't Tell Her It's Me

    The Boyfriend School? This movie was originally titled Don't Tell Her It's Me. It was a better title and for the movie better, I don't know why they changed it.
    MBHenderson00

    My favorite book turned upside down.

    The Boyfriend School has to be my favorite comic novel of all time, followed closely by Kotzwinkle's Midnight Examiner. I was disappointed that the screenplay told the story from Gus's point of view, which removed the element of surprise that made the novel so wonderful. Gretchen got turned into an "Emily," when one of her self-esteem issues had to do with her name.

    And what happened to Juanita? I loved Juanita! I can't bear to talk about what was done to the character of Trout. However, the casting of the main characters, Lizzie, Gus, and the newly christened "Emily," was excellent. I'm waiting for a remake from the point of view of Gretchen. The novel is still at the top of my list and lying in permanent repose on my nightstand, with a "loaner" copy available for my friends.

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    • Trivia
      "The Boyfriend School" was the film's working title until the marketing department at Hemdale, its studio, learned that the title tested poorly in its surveys. Alternative titles considered included: "Two of Gus", "What She Knew", and "Don't Tell Her It's Me", with the final title finally making the cut. However, the film was retitled "The Boyfriend School" for cable television airings, as well as the DVD release.
    • Goofs
      Gus's "Maori" pendant bears no resemblance to actual Maori artwork.
    • Quotes

      Gus Kubicek: I am Lobo. I hunt alone. I need no one.

    • Connections
      Features Narc (1988)
    • Soundtracks
      Don't Tell Her It's Me
      Performed by Michael Ruff

      Written by David Batteau (ASCAP) & Andre Fischer (ASCAP)

      Published by Stickystamp Music (ASCAP), Xayas Songs (ASCAP), Le Grande Fromage Music (ASCAP)

      Produced by Andre Fischer

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    • Release date
      • September 21, 1990 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United Kingdom
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • Busco una novia
    • Filming locations
      • Charleston, South Carolina, USA
    • Production companies
      • Hemdale
      • Sovereign Pictures
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    • Budget
      • $6,700,000 (estimated)
    • Gross US & Canada
      • $1,171,762
    • Opening weekend US & Canada
      • $531,714
      • Sep 23, 1990
    • Gross worldwide
      • $1,171,762
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    Tech specs

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    • Runtime
      • 1h 41m(101 min)
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Ultra Stereo
    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.85 : 1

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