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50 Ways to Leave Your Lover

  • 2004
  • R
  • 1h 35m
IMDb RATING
5.7/10
1.1K
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Tori Spelling, Poppy Montgomery, Paul Schneider, and Jennifer Westfeldt in 50 Ways to Leave Your Lover (2004)
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A writer decides to leave Los Angeles to restart his life but before leaving, he meets the woman of his dreams and his plans quickly go awry.A writer decides to leave Los Angeles to restart his life but before leaving, he meets the woman of his dreams and his plans quickly go awry.A writer decides to leave Los Angeles to restart his life but before leaving, he meets the woman of his dreams and his plans quickly go awry.

  • Director
    • Jordan Hawley
  • Writer
    • Jordan Hawley
  • Stars
    • Ashley Ummel
    • Sarah Ummel
    • Jack Jozefson
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  • IMDb RATING
    5.7/10
    1.1K
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Jordan Hawley
    • Writer
      • Jordan Hawley
    • Stars
      • Ashley Ummel
      • Sarah Ummel
      • Jack Jozefson
    • 15User reviews
    • 6Critic reviews
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 1 win total

    Videos1

    How To Lose Your Lover
    Trailer 0:43
    How To Lose Your Lover

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    Ashley Ummel
    • Homicidal Twin
    Sarah Ummel
    • Homicidal Twin
    Jack Jozefson
    • Porn Star
    • (as Jack Jozephson)
    Mary Audrey Kneipp
    • Grandmother
    Fred Willard
    Fred Willard
    • Bucky Brandt
    Paul Schneider
    Paul Schneider
    • Owen McCabe
    Jenn Page
    Jenn Page
    • Nature Girl
    Marion Kerr
    Marion Kerr
    • Perky Girl
    Sarah Mahoney
    • Nervous Girl
    Dorian Missick
    Dorian Missick
    • Rob
    Poppy Montgomery
    Poppy Montgomery
    • Allison
    G.O. Parsons
    G.O. Parsons
    • Donnie
    Kaarina Aufranc
    Kaarina Aufranc
    • Eileen
    Jim Zulevic
    Jim Zulevic
    • Jack
    Kelly Lynn Warren
    Kelly Lynn Warren
    • Joan
    Jonathan Sweet
    • Grant
    Tiffany Harrison Sweet
    • Nancy
    Scott Nankivel
    Scott Nankivel
    • Blaine
    • Director
      • Jordan Hawley
    • Writer
      • Jordan Hawley
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    10aparkinson-1

    Very Funny. Really enjoyed it!

    I loved the movie! My wife, a friend and I watched it together and found ourselves laughing really hard. We particularly liked the scenes where the main character did his best to alienate all of his "friends". I'm sure all of us have had similar urges with people we have met either socially or at work, but would never act on them the way he does. The dialogue and reactions really are brilliantly written and cast.

    We also loved the relationships and character development throughout the move, as well as the ending twist.

    A definite must for anyone who loves a good movie and loves to laugh!
    8dmasursky

    Witty and fun

    I've had this movie on my radar for awhile, because it has Jennifer Westfeldt in it and I'm a huge fan of hers and want to make sure I see everything she's ever done (I know, I'm a pathetic groupie). Somewhat surprisingly, she's actually not the best thing about this film, and I think she's a little wasted in it (like they told her not to overdo it and she's a little muted). But Paul Schneider is terrific, and overall it's a really funny, charming movie. It's definitely low budget, which is not a problem at all for me, because the writing is sharp and the actors do a great job. I've always thought that independently-produced romantic comedies are always better than the Hollywood ones, because they're always funnier and more romantic. This film is more evidence for my theory. The idea of being totally honest to run someone off is reminiscent of How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days, but the concept is used to better effect in this movie and doesn't feel nearly as stilted as it did in Kate Hudson's film. The movie doesn't go quite where you think it's going either (at least not where I thought it was going) which is a bonus, and it has great kissing, another bonus. Definitely worth watching if you like movies that are smart and a little offbeat.
    9peterje98

    It's all in here...

    Jordan Hawley's 'How to Lose Your Lover' is my kind of movie – all about brainy self-examination, funny, and full of twists.

    For me it's genuinely original – goodbyes are always about fake warm feelings, not burning bridges.

    Enjoy the psychosis, the antics, the irreverence and the decadence - but when it counts there is real heart in here, too.

    Setting this sort of thing in LA is something I've never seen.

    I want to call Hawley 'West Coast Woody'.

    Has any movie celebrated the buildings and landmarks of LA in the same way?
    8magnumco

    A heart warming love story

    Beautiful and well worth watching. A successful biographer wonders where his future lies and soon begins to tire of his supposedly shallow life in Los Angeles. When an offer for work on the East Coast comes along he seriously considers burning all his bridges and leave Los Angeles forever. All goes according to plan until a chance encounter at the airport delays his departure.

    I found it funny and enjoyable to watch. Of course it will appeal most to LA residents for the the subtle humor "I like the bus", but any one who has transplanted to a big city will enjoy the movie. It's a very well made movie with Fred Willard providing his usual impeccable humor.
    8ccw1138

    Great dialog and a nice love/hate movie about LA

    I thought this was a very well-written, funny and interesting comedy about how people can both love and hate LA, while also finding love for themselves. It's true the movie does look low budget at times. But, the cast does such a fine job (Tori Spelling was even a pleasant surprise), and there is an honesty about Paul Schnedier's character. He starts off as a cynical, "I don't care about this town, or anyone in it" type of guy. But, he gradually grows to recognize what's important about LA is not his perception and bias, but the friends in his life, people he took for granted for far too long. The audience I saw it with at Tribeca really loved it. This film is worth checking out.

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    • Trivia
      50 Ways to Leave Your Lover is a song by Paul Simon, released in December 1975.
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      Referenced in Dawson's Creek: The Scare (1998)

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    • Release date
      • September 10, 2004 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • How to Lose Your Lover
    • Filming locations
      • Los Angeles, California, USA
    • Production companies
      • Davis Entertainment Filmworks
      • March 7th Productions Limited
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    • Runtime
      • 1h 35m(95 min)
    • Color
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