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Every Friday night Shirley invites another "perfect" woman to Shabbat dinner in hopes that her son Nelson will marry a nice Jewish girl. But Nelson has news for her: he's gay.Every Friday night Shirley invites another "perfect" woman to Shabbat dinner in hopes that her son Nelson will marry a nice Jewish girl. But Nelson has news for her: he's gay.Every Friday night Shirley invites another "perfect" woman to Shabbat dinner in hopes that her son Nelson will marry a nice Jewish girl. But Nelson has news for her: he's gay.
- Awards
- 19 wins & 1 nomination total
Stanislav 'Slava' Medvedenko
- Russian Host
- (as Slava Medvedenko)
Alexandra Mamaliger
- Andrea Hirsch
- (as Alex Mamaliger)
Heiko Obermöller
- Nudelman
- (as Heiko Obermoeller)
Tom Fridley
- Nick
- (as Tommy Fridley)
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This is a very poorly made film, one that is filled with all the Gay, Jewish and Italian stereotypes you can imagine. The acting is poor, with the actors delivering their lines like they are reading them from a teleprompter. There is no chemistry between the two actors portraying the gay son and his partner so that becomes unbelievable. Low budget doesn't always have to mean a poor production but it certainly does in this case! Just not worth watching at all.
I saw the world premiere at the World Film Festival(FFM) in Montreal. The film is hilarious, and will appeal to a wide range of communities - gays, Jews (of course!), Italians (a surprise), mothers who lay awake at night worrying about their unmarried sons, etc. The film explores a sensitive issue with humour and passion. The acting is quite good, and the cinematography is colourful. I liked the pace of this film - it definitely does not plod along! Filmed in Seattle (of all places), the setting is quintessential NYC. I found the ending a bit strange and perhaps out of sync with the rest of the film. I definitely recommend this film, and hope it gets a commercial release.
Worth watching simply to see how far public attitudes have (or in some cases, haven't) changed regarding gay marriage and adoption. It's not a very good movie, although its heart is in the right place. The performances are good-natured and you can predict the happy outcomes. Suspend disbelief as the family is shocked to discover Bruce Vilanch is gay. To me, the oddest thing is the casting of John Lloyd Young as the gay son. At the time, Young was hot off his Tony winning role in Jersey Boys. He doesn't sing in this movie and the relationship with his boyfriend is tepid at best with a few kisses on the cheek. Both actors seem far too old for their stereotypical coming out roles. If the title makes you laugh, then you'll enjoy the movie.
This movie really surprised me, It is definitely one of the best independent films i seen this year. I have to admit some of the dialog was cheese ball and sometimes the storyline feels like it was written for a different time. But the cast of this movie really makes this movie believable especially the parents played by Lainie Kazaan and Saul Rubinek.
The movie put simply is just funny. It has so many very awkward moments that make you cringe because you have been in that situation.
I related to this movie because I grew up in a very conservative family that valued there traditions. The family in this movie just reminds me so much of my family.
I would definitely recommend seeing Oy Vey! Cheers!
The movie put simply is just funny. It has so many very awkward moments that make you cringe because you have been in that situation.
I related to this movie because I grew up in a very conservative family that valued there traditions. The family in this movie just reminds me so much of my family.
I would definitely recommend seeing Oy Vey! Cheers!
OY VEY MY SON IS GAY recently had its world premier at the Montreal International Film Festival, opening to a little too enthusiastic audience. It is nothing more than a schmaltzy stereotypical Hollywood film about a New York Jewish family trying to accept their son who just came out of the closet.
Despite the lineup of famous names including Lanie Kazan, Vincent Pastore (Pussy from The Sopranos) and Carmen Electra (of Baywatch fame), OY VEY was badly acted and edited with a weak story line incorporating every ethnic cliché in the book and making this movie very painful to watch. And with its cast of shallow characters, this film fails to deliver any real message.
OY VEY opens up with a cartoon sketch introducing the characters and would have made a really cute film as an animation. It would have also been better suited for television and really should have been made into a play first in order to be adapted for the big screen.
OY VEY MY SON IS GAY was written, directed and produced by Evgeny Efineevsky, who has a few films under his belt from Israel, yet it seems like it could have been made by any film student.
Despite the lineup of famous names including Lanie Kazan, Vincent Pastore (Pussy from The Sopranos) and Carmen Electra (of Baywatch fame), OY VEY was badly acted and edited with a weak story line incorporating every ethnic cliché in the book and making this movie very painful to watch. And with its cast of shallow characters, this film fails to deliver any real message.
OY VEY opens up with a cartoon sketch introducing the characters and would have made a really cute film as an animation. It would have also been better suited for television and really should have been made into a play first in order to be adapted for the big screen.
OY VEY MY SON IS GAY was written, directed and produced by Evgeny Efineevsky, who has a few films under his belt from Israel, yet it seems like it could have been made by any film student.
Did you know
- TriviaFilming started the day before Thanksgiving, making those working on the film unable to return home for the holiday, so the cast and crew had Thanksgiving dinner in the home where the interiors were shot.
- GoofsThere's much discussion about being in the Jacuzzi, but the tub Sybil gets into is a claw-foot tub that clearly has no whirlpool feature.
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Box office
- Gross US & Canada
- $89,507
- Opening weekend US & Canada
- $4,042
- Dec 26, 2010
- Gross worldwide
- $89,507
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