Yes, Ally and Paul are highly imperfect as parents, that is one of the main thrusts of the show, and what make it so real for those who relate to feelings of inadequacy, joy, frustration and even regret. As someone who grew up with a father who had significant anger problems, I've never seen parental anger and the associated guilt (and eventual growth!) portrayed in such a realistic manner. Is that part hard to watch sometimes? Absolutely, that is what makes it so cathartic and real. Not to mention that the many "funny" parts, which are character driven rather than cheap one liners, give true balance to the heart and depth that this gem of a series successfully pulls off. I understand that it may not be for everyone, but the plot lines are often profound, the family bonds are beautiful and real, the angst is truly reflective of life, and the ultimate perfection of imperfections made this a very fulfilling experience for me.
