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Take Me as I Am, Whoever I Am

  • Episode aired Oct 18, 2019
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  • 34m
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Anne Hathaway and Gary Carr in Modern Love (2019)
ComedyDramaRomance

A woman reflects on how her experience with bipolar disorder has impacted her love life.A woman reflects on how her experience with bipolar disorder has impacted her love life.A woman reflects on how her experience with bipolar disorder has impacted her love life.

  • Director
    • John Carney
  • Writers
    • Terri Cheney
    • John Carney
  • Stars
    • Anne Hathaway
    • Gary Carr
    • Quincy Tyler Bernstine
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    8.3/10
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    • Director
      • John Carney
    • Writers
      • Terri Cheney
      • John Carney
    • Stars
      • Anne Hathaway
      • Gary Carr
      • Quincy Tyler Bernstine
    • 62User reviews
    • 1Critic review
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    Anne Hathaway
    Anne Hathaway
    • Lexi
    Gary Carr
    Gary Carr
    • Jeff
    Quincy Tyler Bernstine
    Quincy Tyler Bernstine
    • Sylvia
    Judd Hirsch
    Judd Hirsch
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    Jane Beaird
    • Adolescent Lexi
    Savvy Crawford
    Savvy Crawford
    • Young Lexi
    Delaney Moro
    • Roommate
    Daphne Zelle
    Daphne Zelle
    • Waitress
    Phillip James Griffith
    Phillip James Griffith
    • Dancer
    • (uncredited)
    Martin Harvey
    • Dancer
    • (uncredited)
    • Director
      • John Carney
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      • Terri Cheney
      • John Carney
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    10MozaikAngel

    The Best Depiction of Bipolar Disorder I've Yet Seen

    I was once married to a man with sever bipolar disorder although neither of us knew it at the time as he had yet to be diagnosed with it. It was only after I divorced him when he was diagnosed. But this episode displays both the charms and devastating effects of life with someone who is bipolar so beautifully. When my ex was "up," he was incredibly charming & lively. When he was "down," he was bedridden for days. Sullen, monosyllabic. Hathaway deserves a boatload of awards for her incredible portrayal of life with bipolar disorder.
    10Hope-Earl

    I had tears in my eyes !!

    This hit way too close to home. I didn't see it at first the highest high but once she got into that apartment everything became all too familiar.
    9SqueakyLovesGeorgeSpahn

    A taboo subject nicely done

    I didn't expect it like the very characters in this episode, Hathaway (haters look away now) is outstanding in a very difficult role. The references to Rita Hayworth, who struggled with mental illness and heartbreak, are also spot on,Great to see REAL people, with their struggles and not wankerish godlike folk pulIulating. Hope more like this to come!!!
    10MovieQween-33622

    Wow Anne...

    Within the first 2 minutes I figured out what the character was going through. This felt so real and raw and Anne's acting was truly amazing. I like her in most things but not a super fan. She really captured the raw emotion and moments. Really touching story.
    10nonagunnell

    So painfully beautiful

    There is so much to be said about this episode. Anne's performance is incredible. Her character's pain is palpable. I cried and cried. This episode was so moving. Mental illness is often, tragically, ignored because of the stigma that goes with it. Another brilliant performance by the beautiful Anne. Thank you for being so transparent and honest. I'm officially hooked on this show. Wow.

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    • Trivia
      Anne Hathaway (Lexi) and Quincy Tyler Bernstine (Sylvia), her colleague and confidante, previously appeared together in Rachel Getting Married (2008).
    • Connections
      Features Gilda (1946)
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      Setting Sail
      Written and Performed by Gary Clark & John Carney

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    • Release date
      • October 18, 2019 (United States)
    • Filming locations
      • Court Square Diner - 45-30 23rd St, Long Island City, New York, USA(Final scene)
    • Production companies
      • Amazon Studios
      • Storied Media Group
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