Till you defend cock of any size over those who never had one then cock is not all powerful and you even look down on your own...
Shame any and questions about how much it matters....
Many such things fall due to not backing all those who need backing as who you see as the other side seeks to down them as some way to get even with you. All sizes need to be given power or there will always be a weakness others use to forward their own cause against you leaving those in the middle to see your cause as useless and even push back against it.
History is the true guide on why all or none is how one should think....