I'm a male virgin in his 30s. My loneliness is unbearable.
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30 Jul 2018 8:33AM
Get a hooker pronto. What you need is most likely confidence. That confidence will come when you begin to exert your manhood by fucking girls. Best way to start is to go with professionals. Once you see that you can use that piece dangling between your legs, you will feel much better about yourself. Now don't go banging streetwalking, drug addict whores. I'm talking hot ass high end escorts. Will cost you probably minimum three hundred or more per pop, but it will change your life.
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07 Aug 2018 3:10PM
I want someone to want to do it with me. I would just feel bad for stooping so low to get physical intimacy.
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07 Aug 2018 10:46PM
Dude, you are way over-thinking it and clearly that approach hasn't worked to well for you to this point. It's about building confidence, not about finding the love of your life. Beyond that, what is your physical appearance? Are you in shape? If not, put the effort in to get in shape. Not saying you need to be a meathead, but getting fit and somewhat muscular will help your confidence in yourself and your attractiveness to women. Clearly if you have no social skills then you probably have the time on your hands to go to a gym for an hour or so 5 days a week. What do you do with your time? If you spend it playing video games and coming to porn sites to jerk off, well, you aren't going to increase your social skills or opportunity to meet girls. What about other appearances? Do you dress well? Haircut is fresh and in style? If not, get yourself a makeover. If you have no social skills is it because you have social anxiety? If so, make the effort to go talk to a therapist to dig into that deeper and see if you can work on that. There are many people in that same boat, look for meetup groups for similar people to help conquer that fear and meet others with similar fears. There is a comfort in groups that help people open up.
The key here is that you have opportunities to change your life in this respect, you just need the willpower to say enough is enough and you want to have a life....oh, and back to the beginning, seriously, get the hooker and pop your cherry and don't over think it!!
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08 Aug 2018 11:37PM
Just be kind, and be ok with rejection. Even the guys you think are getting laid left and right strike out 90% of the time. Don't be afraid to ask someone to grab a drink sometime, low pressure environment, and accept it, smile, and move on if they dodge. I've actually had girls text me back after initially rejecting me, a day or two later, and say their circumstances changed, and I chalk it up to having the confidence to gracefully walk away. There's nothing worse than the creeps who get frustrated when they're turned down, as though they're owed something for mustering the courage to ask in the first place.
It's a tough environment out there sometimes, but just remember that women are people too. Don't get too caught up in trying to have sex, just try to get to know them, see if they're someone you'd want to spend time with. The rest will fall into place eventually. Good luck!