Showing posts with label divorce. Show all posts
Showing posts with label divorce. Show all posts

Writing for Kids and Teens: Overdone Themes that Can Still Be Published

Thursday, January 12, 2017
Recently, our beloved blogger, Beth Harar, wrote a post titled, "Putting a Twist on a Classic," which made me think of overdone themes, which I've discussed with my novel-writing students and writers at conferences before: What do you do if the children’s or YA book you’re writing contains an already overdone theme or plot? Some people would tell you to scrap it. But as Beth pointed out in her post, there are very few, if any, stories that have never been written. For example, if you Google “kids’ books on divorce, bullying or drugs,” you’re sure to come up with hundreds of choices already published. But what if this book you’re working on is the one in your heart? What if you can’t let it go? Then you should definitely write it!

If you hope to get it published, then you need to make it original and reader-worthy somehow. For example, if you write a book about a teen addicted to drugs, your book has to stand up against the already popular and beautifully written (and often banned) books by Ellen Hopkins—Crank and Glass. How do you do this? Writing about a girl going through puberty? You are joining Judy Blume. But I think you can do it, as long as you're aware of your competition and market.

The best way is with hard work—writing the best prose you can and a character that people cannot stop reading about. A few years back, I took part in a blog tour for the book, Divorce Girlby Carryn Mirriam-Goldberg. At first, I was skeptical. I didn’t need to read another book about dealing with a parents’ divorce for teens. But I was hooked from the first page, and it became one of the best books I read that year. Why?

The author wrote the book well—it’s a work of art. She crafted sentences like an expert and built her plot and character flawlessly. She didn’t set out to just tell the story of a girl, Deborah, whose parents are getting a divorce and how it’s awful for her. She set out to tell the story of Deborah, and in the meantime, that girl’s story included the fact that her parents divorce.

That’s the key—I learned this when I wrote Finding My Place: One Girl’s Strength at Vicksburg, my first stab at historical fiction, set during the Civil War—a subject that’s been written about many times. In the beginning, I focused on the Siege of Vicksburg and plopped my character down in the middle of the battle, instead of writing about my character—her hopes, dreams, and struggles—inside the setting of the Civil War. Once I stopped focusing on trying to write a book about the Siege of Vicksburg and wrote a book about 13-year-old Anna Green, I received a publishing contract.

Take the subject of bullying. We need books about this topic because the problem is worse than ever. What children and teens need to read about is a character who is being bullied—but that’s not the only part of the story. Debbie Manber Kupfer manages to do this in her book, P.A.W.S. Miri, a teenager at a boarding school, is bullied and miserable until she realizes that she can change into a cat. Then she’s taken into a world with animagi, werewolves, and shapeshifters, where there’s danger and new lessons to learn. Debbie puts bullying in her book, but her story focuses on a fun and sometimes dangerous, fantastical plot.

Very few kids will stand in line and anxiously await the next big book on self-esteem or neglect. But they will come out in droves for Harry Potter, which contains these themes in an original and entertaining way.

Don’t focus on the “issue” you want kids and teens to learn from your book, or you feel compelled to write about. Focus on your characters and plot; write the best sentences, dialogue, and description you can; and then send it out into the world. That book has not been overdone a hundred times, and it’s sure to touch children and teens who read it.

Margo L. Dill is a published author, blogger, writing coach, teacher, and editor, living in St. Louis, MO. Find out more at http://www.margoldill.com 
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An Honest Look at When Life Gets in the Way of Creativity

Thursday, June 16, 2016
This blog post is published a little later than I like when it is my WOW! blogging day, and I'm going to be honest why. I was constructing a post about "5 Tips for Writing Dialogue in Your Fiction" (or maybe even 6!), but I could not bring myself to get it finished. And I had just done a presentation on this, so it is fresh in my mind.

What's the problem?

Life is the problem. As I've discussed before on this blog, this past year, my husband and I have been going through a divorce, and this is the absolute hardest thing that has ever happened to me. If you are divorced, then at this time you are probably nodding your head. It has completely changed my writing and reading life, and I have been slowly trying to find my way back.

So as I was constructing this "helpful" post on dialogue last night and earlier today, I was thinking: maybe it would be better just to be honest with WOW! readers. When I am honest on Facebook about my life and feelings (without oversharing--of course--or being vague--which everyone hates), a lot of people respond. Why not try it on the Muffin?

How do we as creative people, as writers, get through emotional times? Some of you probably write and journal. Journal writing doesn't work for me. Yes, I write down what I am going through in messages, emails, and texts to my friends. This form of communication actually works quite well for me. It is much easier for me to have an instant message conversation with my best friends than sometimes to have an actual conversation. It's a form of writing, and I'm sure since I am a writer, this is why I find IM so helpful.

I also have plans to start a blog full of non-fiction, self-help, memoir-type posts, but finding the time and energy to do that has so far eluded me.

I am tired, fellow writers. I am full of anxiety and angst. I feel I have little direction. I thought I was out of "survival mode," and recently, tried to do some things to work toward a better future, but I'm not there. I am still in survival mode--just getting by day by day as best I can.

I can't think about finishing my middle-grade novel still. I can barely pick up a book to read. At night, I have all sorts of books on my nightstand calling out to me, and I feel like I don't even have the energy to invest in someone's wonderful story.

Don't get me wrong. I am functioning. Every day is not terrible. I have a beautiful, smart, funny 5-year-old daughter whom I love spending time with. I have amazing friends and parents. I love teaching my WOW! Women On Writing novel classes, and I LOVE helping my editing clients--so I am going to keep doing these things, while I also try with baby steps to get back to what my true passion is--writing and reading. I also like my full-time job, which has to do with proofreading, graphic design, and marketing. So yeah, the left side of my brain is doing all right. It's the right side that needs some time and TLC, I guess.

So I have no idea if anyone reading this who is also a writer, painter, illustrator, sculptor, musician, etc feels this way or has ever felt this way. But you are not alone. And if you've already been through a journey like mine and you are on the other side, I would love to hear about things that helped you.

Next time, I will try to get those 5 tips posted--I know some of you are on the edge of your seat, waiting for those.

Margo L. Dill is a writer, editor, and teacher, living in St. Louis, MO. Find out more in the WOW! classroom or on her website. 




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Book Review – Allen Long’s “Less Than Human” by Crystal J. Casavant-Otto

Sunday, May 22, 2016
Review:
Allen Long’s writing style is unique in that in draws the reader in, tells of sadness experienced by the author, but has an undertone of triumph and joy. Even as you read the chapters outlining Long’s abuse at the hands of his parents, you still know there will be a triumphant ending. I enjoyed this memoir much more than most memoirs telling of abuse. This was a quick read and the pace of the book is excellent. I had no idea what to expect next.

Each individual story is told with such imagery it’s as if the author himself is having a glass of scotch and reminiscing with a kindred soul or old friend. I feel as if Allen and Elizabeth are friends I would enjoy having over for a dinner party. I also am reconsidering how I ask for “mom time” as I hope there’s no “Linda” creeping into our lives. (you’ll have to read Less Than Human for yourself if you want more details about that…).

Thank you Allen Long for sharing your life with readers. Less Than Human is well written, well edited, and I certainly enjoyed the short glimpses into your interesting life. The triumphant tone of the book really speaks volume about your resilient character.

Official Book Blurb: In Less than Human, Allen Long tells the story of his often nightmarish childhood in the wealthy suburbs of D.C., the wonders and mysteries of teenage love, his ill-advised journeys into corporate America and a hellish marriage, and ultimate breakdown. And yet, his story is mostly one of triumph. He draws strength from the joys of fatherhood, he finds true love in his second marriage, and through working with psychotherapists and leading a life rich in self-examination, he overcomes both child abuse and the resulting PTSD, finally learning that instead of being less than... he is, indeed... human. Less than Human follows an unconventional path, arranged as much by theme and association as by chronology. These stories take many forms, from driving narrative to lyrical reverie, at times evoking mythic overtones, and this variety, along with an unflinching confrontation with the conditions and consequences of childhood abuse, creates its own form of suspense-in what direction will this book take us next?

• Paperback: 120 pages
• Publisher: Black Rose Writing; First Printing ed. edition (January 14, 2016)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1612966381
• ISBN-13: 978-1612966380

About the Author: Allen Long was born in New York City and grew up in Arlington, Virginia. He holds a B.A. in journalism from Virginia Tech, an M.A. in fiction writing from Hollins University, and an M.F.A. in fiction writing from the University of Arizona. He has been an assistant editor at Narrative Magazine since 2007, and his fiction and memoirs have appeared in a wide variety of literary magazines. He lives with his wife near San Francisco.


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