The first thing you gotta understand about the dead is that
even if they manage to cling to the afterlife and retain a
sense of themselves, they only have access to one verb, and
that verb is "haunt". Without a medium like me who knows how
to channel their voice and give them words, breaking all the
glass in the kitchen is the only way to get your attention and
making your friends foam at the mouth and chant gibberish is
their best attempt at speaking to you. It doesn't mean they
meant you or Samantha any harm. It's important that you
understand that.
When you said who you thought it was haunting you? You were
half right. The couple who sold you this house, the husband
said his mom died here? Well, that's not
strictly true. Turns out, it was his dad. And he has
unfinished business that he wants you to deal with.
The second thing you gotta understand about the dead is that
they don't really have the same concept of privacy that the
living do. Or, it's more accurate to say that they
can't. When that haunt a something, they more or less
become that thing. Its spirit. Technically, its primary
nooperceptual locus. Doesn't matter. Point is, if they're
haunting a house, they "see" whatever happens in it. They
don't even really understand anymore why that would be a
problem. It's not personal, just a side effect of the
consciousness shift.
So, when I tell you that your entity, the dad, saw you, um,
become... transgender? Transition. Right. When he saw you
transition, it's not like he was a living person looking in
your window while you changed. He just knows because the walls
and floors know. And apparently he didn't know,
before you arrived. That that was a thing. That people could
just... do that.
So. What he wants you to do is talk to his son and tell him
that his mom was actually his dad, and get him to update the
headstone. His name is Martin. Which, you know, it's hard for
the dead to convey specific words. It's mostly just emotions
and imagery, which is what makes my job so interesting. But
this came through really strong. "Martin".
He seems pretty confident that his son will be cool about
this, especially if someone who gets it talks him through what
it means. And if he doesn't? Well, the third thing you gotta
understand about the dead is that if you piss them off, they
get mean. So let's hope that this guy is just happy
to have gained a father from beyond the grave.