What To Write On Funeral Flowers | Funeral Card Etiquette

Sending funeral flowers is a common way to express sympathy. But knowing what to say doesn’t come naturally to everyone. So here are some heartfelt ideas for what to write on funeral flowers. Keep your words short, comforting, and meaningful, so the family feels your love and support.

What To Write On Funeral Flowers

A few short words that convey your sympathy are perfect for funeral flower cards. Sending flowers shows that you care, so the card is like the icing on the cake. If you’re unsure what to say, I’ve got you covered! Below you’ll find lots of ideas for short sympathy messages for flowers.

The two most common options for a sympathy card for funeral flowers are to either address the message to the deceased or the family members left behind. Both are acceptable, so the choice is yours.

Short Messages To The Deceased

Notes on funeral flowers to the person who died are your way of saying a final goodbye. The family will likely find comfort in your words, but they are mainly for your deceased loved one. Here are some wording ideas for messages to the deceased.

  • I will miss your smile and your kindness.
  • We will greatly miss you.
  • My heart feels heavy without your friendship.
  • May you be at peace now.
  • You are gone from our sight but not from our hearts.
  • We are thinking of you always.
  • I love you. I miss you. I feel sad without you.
  • I think of you with fond memories and love.
  • My days are quieter and lonelier without your laughter.
  • I will treasure our friendship always.
  • My heart is broken. But I wish you eternal peace.
  • Till we meet again
  • You are heaven’s brightest star.
  • Rest peacefully, friend.
  • Forever loved, never forgotten.
  • Your light is gone. But you live on in our hearts.
  • I will carry your memory in my heart.

What To Write On Funeral Flowers For Family

When you don’t know what to write on funeral flowers, these short sympathy quotes might help. Use them just as they are, or let them inspire your words.

  • With much love to your family
  • Our hearts are with you all at this sad time.
  • We will remember (Name) with great fondness.
  • We are sending our deepest condolences.
  • With love and fond memories
  • May God’s peace comfort your family.
  • Sending thoughts of love and sympathy
  • (Name) always made us smile. We’re sending our love to your family.
  • May your sadness be replaced with favorite memories of (Name).
  • With the hope that it helps you know that we care.
  • May these flowers express what our words cannot. Sending our love.

What To Write On Funeral Flowers For Dad Or Mom

Losing a parent is so difficult. So when you send flowers to a friend who lost their mom or dad, you want to acknowledge their pain. Here is some funeral flower wording for dad or mom to help you know what to say.

  • May her legacy live on through the beautiful memories she left you.
  • Your father was like a Dad to me. I will miss him for the rest of my life.
  • Sending love to (Name’s) family. She was always kind to me.
  • Yours was the most incredible house on the block, with the best parents. I’m sorry your Dad is gone.
  • Fathers shelter us from storms. We are so very sorry to hear of your Dad’s passing.
  • Your mother raised our whole neighborhood. I dearly loved her.
  • Your father was a great family man. He often talked about each of you. We wish you peace during this difficult time.
  • May she rejoice with the angels. And may your family find comfort in God’s love during this loss of your mother.
  • Dad, I can’t believe you’re gone. I love you.
  • Mom, you are my world and my rock. Rest in peace.
  • Mom, you taught me to be the best person I can be. Thank you for your living example.
  • You are my sunshine, Dad. And my world will never be as bright again.
  • Life won’t be the same without you.
  • I already miss you more than I thought possible.
  • My heart aches at the thought of never hearing your voice again.

What To Write On Flower Messages For Husband Or Wife

A widow’s grief breaks the heart of everyone around her. Often she can’t imagine life without her “better half.” Or he may be uncertain how to move forward without his beloved wife. So these words offer support for the widows and widowers.

  • You and (Name) have shown us what true love means. We strive to have a marriage like yours.
  • (Name) loved you with all his heart. I know because he talked so warmly about you.
  • May your dear wife go in peace. We are sorry for your loss.
  • We are so sorry that you’ve lost your soul mate. He was a good man.
  • Your example of a loving marriage still shines even though her light is now gone.
  • Your wife was a treasure. I’m sure the angels are rejoicing at her arrival, but I’m sorry for the loneliness her passing will cause you.
  • A new saint arrived at heaven’s gate. May you find peace in your sorrow.
  • Go with the angels to that better place. I will see you again, husband.
  • Best friends now and forever. I love you, my wife.
  • Love never dies; it endures forever.
  • My wife, you were always the most beautiful flower in the garden.

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Comforting Words For Flowers For A Coworker’s Death

Losing a coworker is hard because they are often the family members we choose. You may not know their extended family members. But your condolences and funeral flowers are appreciated.

  • From all of (Name’s) coworkers, we send our condolences.
  • Our workplace mourns the loss of our dear (Name.)
  • You were my favorite lunch date. Work won’t be near as fun without you.
  • We’ll miss your team spirit.
  • Working overtime will be dull without you.
  • You were my coworker and my family. I miss you.
  • (Name) made coworkers feel like family members.
  • We will miss you being part of our work family.
  • I’m very sorry for your loss. I will miss (Name.)
  • In loving memory

Traditional Words Of Sympathy For A Funeral Card

Here are some ideas of what to write on a funeral condolence card where you have more room than on a smaller flower card.

  • Words can’t express our sorrow for your loss. But we want you to know we’re here for you. So we’ll drop off dinner on Thursday at 5:00 pm unless you text with a better day and time. Love.
  • I’m holding you close in my thoughts and prayers. I know what an extraordinary man your Grandfather was. And I’m sorry for your loss.
  • Do you remember when we went white water rafting with (Name of deceased)? That was one of the best experiences of my life. And I will forever remember the laughter and fun we all shared. I’m thinking of you during this difficult time.
  • Your nana was full of life, laughter, and hugs. She was a beautiful soul. And I am glad you shared her joy with me. She is already greatly missed.

Inspiring And Simple Messages For Funeral Flowers

Even if you don’t know the person well, you still want to convey your sympathy to your friend. In these cases, simple condolences for flower cards are perfect.

  • My condolences for your loss. May you find comfort alongside your pain.
  • I’m sorry to hear about your (brother’s) passing. I’m here for you.
  • Please know how sad we are about your loss. We are thinking about your family.
  • May God bless you and keep you in His care.
  • Sent with love and remembrance
  • Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
  • We are sorry for your family’s loss. Our condolences go out to each of you.
  • I am thinking of you in your time of sorrow.

Final Thoughts On Funeral Flower Wording

The words inside your card and your funeral notes for flowers don’t matter as much as the gesture. So don’t worry about getting the words perfect. It’s a hard time. But your friend or family member will be glad to hear from you.

Keep your condolences short and sweet. It’s okay to address sympathy notes on flower cards directly to the deceased. Or write a message for the loved ones left behind. Either sentimental gesture is appropriate.

If you’d like to add a cash gift to your envelope, learn when it’s appropriate.

Flowers at a funeral show grieving families your support for them, and they honor the deceased’s life. Bouquets and wreaths provide a straightforward expression of sympathy. And they remind guests of life’s beauty even during a sad time.

Noelle McGarvey

Noelle served in the funeral industry in Vancouver, Washington from 2005-2008. As a funeral director, she dealt with hundreds of families during their time of grief. In Noelle's opinion: "The best part was helping them send off their loved ones in respectful, and sometimes fun, ways." Currently, she's traveling throughout the United States in an Arctic Fox Truck Camper and blogging about it.

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