Here's the scene at the cafe on the corner. Very Christmasy! I really should go out after work and take some pictures of holiday lights. That's perhaps the one good thing about darkness falling at 4:30 p.m. -- we have lots of time in the evening to enjoy light displays!
Yesterday was World AIDS Day, despite the refusal of the Trump Administration to recognize it. I've written before about AIDS and the impact it had on my life as a young gay man. Men of my generation, even if we didn't catch the virus, were indelibly scarred by it. (Men just a couple of years older bore the brunt of the plague, with huge numbers of them dying young.) So yesterday...
...I wore my red ribbon on my lanyard at work, as I always do on December 1. I wonder if the kids even know what it means. I did hear one student talking to the head librarian about a project she's doing on HIV and AIDS, so there is still awareness out there, for which I'm thankful.
Last night I re-read the Barbara Kingsolver essay about the Canary Islands that I saved many years ago, from her book "High Tide in Tucson." It was much as I remembered it -- a very evocative depiction of the landscape and the flora and fauna. But she didn't mention those spiny cacti once, and that was my clearest memory of the whole piece! She focused on the moister, more fog-bound environment of the laurel forests on La Gomera. Funny how the brain deceives. (I have since learned those "cacti" are actually a type of Euphorbia, and thus not cacti at all.)
I applaud your wearing of the red ribbon but not that shirt! Yesterday, on Radio 4, I heard the story of a woman who contracted HIV/AIDS through sexual contact when she was at university and just 21 years old. I was impressed by how she seems to be coping with her situation - loud and proud and grateful for life saving medication that of course was not around in the early eighties.
ReplyDeleteMy sister and I have lost several friends to AIDS, the youngest was 32 when he died, and we'd been close friends since our teens. Some of our friends have been living with the disease for decades now; so much progress has been made with medication in that area. One died of COVID three years ago; he would have turned 60 last year. Another one is in his early sixties now and his health is better than it was ten years or so ago.
ReplyDeleteIt is good to know that students still learn about this important subject.
Numbers are climbing again eventhough there's less testing. Africa is particularly affected.
ReplyDeleteLike Christmas lights look forward to those pics.
I regularly refer to euphorbias as cacti. And I’m regularly corrected. As far as I’m concerned, you can call them whatever you want. The image is the same. And we (at least I) know exactly what you’re talking about.
ReplyDeleteI’m enough older than you to have been in my late 20s when the AIDS crisis hit and Ronald Reagan wouldn’t even say the word. Lost some wonderful friends and watched cities get decimated. I don’t know how or why SG and I survived it. So glad people now have the potential to live good, healthy, long lives despite the diagnosis.
That is a very festive café. I like to see all the light displays that are now appearing everywhere here, but my goodness, some are really over the top tacky!
ReplyDeleteThat was such a hard time, early 1980s, especially in catholic Ireland. When in 1987, the first Irish celebrity, Vincent Hanley aka Fab Vinny (at the time a very popular tv presenter and host at MTV USA) died of AIDS, the country went into full denial just as it had been when first rumours of Fab Vinny being gay started to circulate - homosexuality was illegal in Ireland until 1993. A small local group of gay rights activists who later set up the first AIDS helpline went to his funeral, together with hundreds of fans, but the family refused them entry to the service.
ReplyDeleteI remember the fear then, particularly before anyone understood how AIDS was transmitted. I knew men who died that I didn't know were gay, so carefully concealed at work. There was such prejudice and fear together, one fuelling the other. I'm so thankful for the friends who survived.
ReplyDeleteI am I guess considered an older adult these days and I had no idea that it was World Aids Day. Though not gay, it made an impact on my life and I knew people who died from it.
ReplyDeleteI graduated as a nurse in 1986, just as AIDS was roaring through Alberta. I worked on a pulmonary unit and we got so many men with AIDS, it was heartbreaking. I still remember some of the young men, all long dead now.
ReplyDeleteWe have one very close friend who is gay and those were horrible times. He's still with us but many of his friends died. The refusal to recognise it and deal with it because it affected only gay men predominately was, you know, justified because of that. God's punishment and all. Despicable.
ReplyDeleteThe only thing I enjoy about the lead up to actual christmas day is all the outdoor lights.
I've seen a few London Christmas lights pictured on different Instagram accounts. It does look like the city is dressed up in its holiday attire.
ReplyDeleteI knew someone who died from complications of AIDS back some 25 years ago now. He was the partner of someone I worked with in Chicago. This administration is hell bent on killing us all.
I think all of us who are old enough, had a friend or a loved one who died of AIDS but most of us cannot imagine losing our entire community, our extended family of choice. The grief and the pain and the suffering and the courage should never be forgotten. That's what I think, anyway.
ReplyDeleteEven though what tRump does on a daily basis astounds me, I cannot for the life of me believe that the administration refused to recognize it. It is depressing. On a different note, your photos from Tenerife were amazing!
ReplyDeleteGood on you for recognizing World AIDS Day!
ReplyDeleteI wore my red ribbon, and made sure that people knew about the Cankles' decision to no longer recognize the day!
I remember the horrible discrimination surrounding the AIDS epidemic back in the day and wonder how many didn't have to die if help and research had been allowed back then.
ReplyDeleteYour murmuration shirt is stunning! I had forgotten Aids day, glad i did, I lost so many friends back then. Breaks my heart with every thought. Terrifying times.
ReplyDeleteWell done you for wearing your ribbon and badges. World AIDS Day is an important day to remember. It was a scary time for so many people.
ReplyDeleteOne of my close friends from church died of AIDS. His dad was our minister and his parents never admitted that he died of AIDS or even that he was gay. He was smart, funny and deserved so much more than to be erased.
ReplyDeleteI have a friend from Ohio who has been living with AIDs for many years - he takes many medications and is so gaunt, but still kicking. And I have a high school classmate that I'm pretty sure died of AIDs in California in the 80s. So sad - he was such a fun guy.
ReplyDeleteI like your shirt, the cafe looks festive. Nobody discusses aids any longer but I remember in my younger days working in gay nightclubs that it was something every young man feared. Im glad the fear has gone and medication is available.
ReplyDeleteAIDS really hit the consciousness of a nation here in NZ when a girl, born infected, died in childhood. She had lived a very public life, raised awareness so effectively and was widely mourned.
ReplyDeleteI love the Christmas light display in this post. Blue lights on the tree are brilliant.
ReplyDeleteAids in the 80's was terrifying. So many lives were lost. Thankfully medical science has lifesaving medications today and aids is no longer the killer it once was.
Remembering World Aids Day is important.
Dig That Corner Cafe For Sure - And Just Check Out That Shirt There Mr Reed - Like WoW
ReplyDeleteStay Groovy ,
Cheers
That café is a very festive... lovely.
ReplyDeleteAll the best Jan
I remember the horrors of AIDS quite well. I have/had a number of gay friends and knew several people who died from it. There was a woman in my church at the time whose son died of it and she started a non-profit in his memory that is still going strong all these years later! Btw... are those little swallows on your shirt?
ReplyDeleteThe cafe looks great! I'd love to see more decorations in London so I hope you take lots of photos. You know how I feel about the orange felon. He has no compassion for anyone who suffers.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Janie
Good for you with the red ribbon. I love your corner cafe.
ReplyDeleteA gorgeous opening photo. I love the lights. I lost many friends to AIDS a number of years ago. I'm so mad that DT does not choose to recognize this day of memory and awareness.
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