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430 pages, Hardcover
First published September 13, 2022
‘I have seen many people quick to become defensive against the suggestion that gendered violence exists in places like the oil sands. They may either work there and are proud of the work they do and the livelihoods they support with it, or they know and love men there, and are insulted by the insinuation of being lumped in with anything to do with something as abhorrent as sexual assault.’
‘I need to tell you this--there is no knowing Cape Breton without knowing how deeply ingrained two diametrically opposed experiences are: A deep love for home, and the knowledge of how frequently we have to leave it to find work somewhere else.’
The worst part for me about being harassed here isn’t that people say shitty things. It’s when they say them and they sound like me, in the accent that I dropped when I went to university. That they look like my cousins and uncle, you know, even though they’re from all over the country…that they are familiar. And that this place creates that where it didn’t exist before. This place. It’s not an excuse, it’s just…The worst thing is that your heart breaks.But Beaton also acknowledged that many men ignored her (not that they weren’t harassing anyone, cheating, or both, however); it’s just that the abusive men so dominated her life that it was easy to forget about the ones who didn’t abuse her.
. . . work camps are a uniquely capsuled-off society, a liminal space, and analogue for so many other male-dominated spaces. Gendered violence does happen when men outnumber women by as much as fifty to one, as they can in the camps or [at] work sites. Of course it does. Of course this happens when men are in isolation for long stretches of time, away from their families and relationships and communities, and completely resocialized in a camp and work environment like that of the oil sands.That’s recognition of a disturbing reality, not an excuse. Beaton’s memoir won’t allow dysfunction to be swept under the rug.