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Mentors: How to Help and Be Helped
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Aug 26, 2019
bookshelves: cultural-commentary, favorites, high-impact-reads, self-improvement
Russell brand is actually really insightful. He seems like a greaseball but he’s more insightful than one might think. This book was concise and really really down to earth. There something that I love about his honesty and his self awareness. He highlights the importance of looking inward and analyzing the reasons why you might find yourself downward spiralling with this openness that acknowledges and tries to make peace with the ugliness within. He simultaneously guides you towards the reasons why you should look outside yourself when you feel lost and seek assistance from people who are capable and in the right space/frame of mind to help provide it to you.
This book made me think about the great things about some of the different mentors I’ve had in my life. Mentors also made me realize that the times where mentorship was not successful with me, and that has happened, it was because I wasn’t ready and that’s OK. When I was ready, I really did benefit from a non-judgmental approach and the knowledge of somebody who had experience of what I was going through. This book is special.
Highlights also include: his approach surrounding cutting people the fuck off and eliminating the toxicity from your life. Especially when you’re the one who put them folks and that toxicity there. It’s a great read.
This book made me think about the great things about some of the different mentors I’ve had in my life. Mentors also made me realize that the times where mentorship was not successful with me, and that has happened, it was because I wasn’t ready and that’s OK. When I was ready, I really did benefit from a non-judgmental approach and the knowledge of somebody who had experience of what I was going through. This book is special.
Highlights also include: his approach surrounding cutting people the fuck off and eliminating the toxicity from your life. Especially when you’re the one who put them folks and that toxicity there. It’s a great read.
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August 18, 2019
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"“We live in lonely and polarized times, where many of us feel lost and fractured.”"
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"“I’ve been watching for a long time and I knew before Trump, Brexit, radicalism and the ‘new right’ that something serious was up. You know it too. Sometimes we despair and sometimes we distract because it seems like too much for one person to tackle and we’ve forgotten how to collude. Yet alone I am nothing.”"
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"“Honesty is non-negotiable in a relationship of this nature because you need to trust someone if you’re going to allow them to help you, and they of course need to be dealing with the truth of who you are, not the Facebook, press-release version of yourself you’ve been fobbing the world off with up till now.”"
August 18, 2019
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"“We who look for god in romance are doomed. Your idol will fall and you will be too bereft to pick up the pieces.”"
August 22, 2019
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"“the short history of our tiny kind has shown again and again that the limits of our knowledge are not the limits of knowledge itself. Neither do we possess the instruments to assess what true knowledge may entail. Therefore Faith. Therefore Acceptance. Therefore Love.”"
August 22, 2019
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"“Where your attention goes, so shall you become. As you intend to be, so shall you be.”"
August 22, 2019
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August 26, 2019
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