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"At first, my parents chalked up our neighbors' peering eyes and hushed whispers to curiosity. But we soon learned there was something else going on."
“Some days, I felt euphoria, as if I’d finally found my true home. Others, I broke down.”
"Those articles I read about European parenting — they don’t mention how hard it is to be an outsider."
"All I knew was that when I yelled, people stopped what they were doing. When I broke things, people listened."
"Whether it’s five people or 50, my nervous system floods with adrenaline like I’m facing Hannibal Lecter instead of some barely interested coworkers."
"Nothing prepared me for the abusive process a widowed woman must endure while attempting to remove a hyphen."
"As someone who recently completed 15 years of training to become an infectious diseases physician-scientist, I can’t avoid these conversations."
“I wanted to understand how to help Millie — and how to help myself. Was this just a feeling? Or something deeper?”
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