Could emphasise so much in respect of how able bodied people view us disabled people. I cannot state that my disability is the same, again we are all unique and there is no norm. I had polio when I was three years of age, I do remember some fleeting moments of that time believe it or not. I was totally struck down to begin with, but within a period of time only my left leg was affected...making it shorter and little to no muscle. Eventually I wore steel calipars on my affected leg. Surgery intervention to fix foot and ankle.
I met with the bullying, name calling and not belonging as she did. Unfortunately being one of 4 and having problems at home I was sent to an "open air school" for most of my childhood.
I like the one girl thought I'd be "normal" when I was an adult.
I too had the strange weirdo men very attracted to me and with their attitude that I should be grateful, but having met and knowing that I was able to distinguish the ones who genuinely liked me for me.
One thing as you mature you find that you can love who you are and realise that being different is great.
I'm now in my 70s and have had a good life, worked all my years, have a loving hubby and although I am suffering pain more now due to over exerting my body I do not regret anything but wish I could tell my younger teenage self not to let others judge or upset me.
Please watch this programme it delves into a lot of what disability can mean. We are stronger individuals than the able bodied can ever know.