Discuss an accomplishment, event, or realization that sparked a period of personal
growth and a new understanding of yourself or others.
In the 21st century, teenagers are usually scrolling through social media at
any given moment. One time when I was scrolling through social media I came
across a post with a very strong message. The message I came across read as
follows, “If it will not matter in five years, do not worry about it for more than five
seconds.” As an adolescent, instinctively, I act on impulse based on current
emotions. However, as soon as I read that post I realized how much stress and
anger I could avoid in the present.
For the most part I am able to keep my emotions in check. I typically never
let them get the best of me, but there are some moments where I cannot hold them
back. Most of the time it is from unnecessary remarks from my little sister, and
although it will not matter after a few seconds, I would let it get to me. Although,
after reading the post above I began to change my way of thinking, and after
countless hours of mental toughness I was able to just let what my little sister said
to me slide. I no longer let my emotions run free and bash her right back. Now I sit
back and either stay silent or reply with a dry, “Okay.” No longer do I entertain or
fuel her remarks, they just flow right by me like a babbling stream in the spring.
After I realized that not every situation deserves a reaction, I have begun to
live much more peacefully than I did before. I do not stress as much, I am calmer,
and I can even laugh about things that I would not have laughed at before. I am so
grateful that I came across that post whilst scrolling through social media one day
because it has drastically improved my life.