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SECOND PRELIMINARY EXAMINATION PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT (Grade 11-ICT)
I. STATEMENTS ON RELATIONSHIPS: State whether these statements are True or False.
__________ 1. It is important to work on communicating our feelings in relationships.
__________ 2. To love someone, we must love our self first.
__________ 3. Trying to understand where other people are coming from rather than judging them helps
us build and maintain relationships.
__________ 4. Having a good relationship does not contribute anything to us having good health.
__________ 5. When people listen deeply and let us know that they recognize the feeling behind our
words, more likely than not, our relationship is doing good.
__________ 6. In our relationships, it is vital that we practice forgiveness when a loved one has hurt us.
__________ 7. Our loved ones cannot help us when we deal with stress.
__________ 8. Using positive methods to resolve conflict will more likely help us maintain good
relationships.
__________ 9. Expressing gratitude to our friends and family help us maintain good relationships.
__________ 10. Significant differences in core values and beliefs never create a problem in relationships.
__________ 11. We are happy in our relationships when our loved ones stay connected by spending time
with us and letting us know that they love us.
__________ 12. Excessive reliance on social media can be a cause of tension in relationships.
__________ 13. Relationships are static; they are unchangeable.
__________ 14. Being compassionate, forgiving and grateful contribute to healthy relationships.
__________ 15. To fully enjoy and benefit from relationships we need skills, information, inspiration,
practice, and social support.
II. SIGNS OF A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP: Draw a HEART before each statement that you think is a sign of a
healthy relationship; put an X on each statement that you think is a sign of an unhealthy relationship.
__________ 1. You can express your opinion without fear or dread.
__________ 2. You and your partner can make decisions together and fairly.
__________ 3. Each person takes responsibility for their own actions.
__________ 4. Your partner respects your feelings about sex.
__________ 5. Your partner supports you and your choices—even when they disagree with you.
__________ 6. You respect and encourage each other.
__________ 7. You give each other space to study or hang out with friends or family.
__________ 8. You are able to make your own decisions about spending your money without worrying
about your partner’s reaction.
__________ 9. You can discuss pregnancy and parenting decisions and your view is respected.
__________ 10. You feel isolated from friends and family.
__________ 11. Your partner tries to control how you spend time and who you hang out with.
__________ 12. Your partner tries to control how you spend money.
__________ 13. Your partner doesn’t support your decisions.
__________ 14. You are sometimes forced to do something that you’re not comfortable with.
__________ 15. Your partner threatens, insults, or humiliates you.
III. CONSTRUCTED RESPONSE. Answer the following questions briefly and comprehensively.(5 points each)
A. In your own words, what are the different ways to keep your relationship healthy?
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B. As a teenager, what are the advantages and disadvantages of belonging into a certain social group?
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C. In your own understanding, how do you define the word “family?”
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D. Enumerate 5 kinds of family structures.
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Prepared by:
KIMBERLY ANN ASUNCION
SHS Teacher I