Stop Bullying : cause it hurt’s
Nowadays, bullying is one of the major problems around our society, in schools, and
even in whole world. Bullying its affect everyone. So, what is bullying? Bullying is defined as
unwanted and had aggressive behavior among school aged children even adults that involves a
real or perceived power imbalance. Bullying includes a different actions like spreading rumors,
or fake news, attacking someone physically or verbally and emotionally. There is a lot of victims
of this violence bullying, where the victims mostly are kids until age are around the age of 10 to
18 years old. And there are over 3.2 millions of victims of bullying each year. And
approximately 160,000 of students skip to school every day just to avoid the bullies.
There are four types of bullying which can occur separately. First, is physical bullying,
which involves the use of physical action to intimidate someone and gain a control to him or her.
Some common types of violence on physical bullying are hitting Or kicking, shoving or pushing,
Tripping, & even Damage of property and pinching. Second, is Verbal bullying, it is often and
considered less dangerous than physical bullying. It involves mainly Insult, taunts, name
calling, and other types of verbal abuse. And now in present, it usually occurs via social media
like commenting harsh and mean words on Facebook, twitter, and etc. Verbal bullying is not
limited to children, but usually adults are often committed vicious verbal bullying to their fellow
adults. Third, is Relational Bullying, such as name calling or yelling. It is a different way of
bullying, it because the actions are usually quiet and hidden from others and particularly it
happens between friends and family. Other example is mean letters, slam books, silent
treatment, eye rolling, withdrawing a friendship, threatening to end friendship & to tell others her/
his secrets. Lastly, is Cyberbullying, which this bullying takes place over digital devices such as
computers, laptops, tablets, and cell phones. And can occur through SMS, text, and other online
platforms on social media like Facebook, Instagram, twitter, Tiktoks, & many more.
Cyberbullying involves sending, sharing or posting negative, harmful, false and mean contents
of someone, which can cause a humiliation and embarrassment.
In short, this four different types of bullying can affects and destroy someone’s life. All
young people in our society are in danger of being bullied. Youth who are bullied can
experience and suffer to depression, anxiety, eating disorders, and even thoughts of suicide,
can go to health issues like, abdominal pains, headaches, sleep problems, fatigue, trauma and
many more. It can also result to low self esteem which falls out to academic issues including
poor attendance, low test scores, failing to finish studies, and mostly increases dropouts rates.
So to conclude, we should stop this what we called Bullying cause it has a lot of
negativity and disadvantages that brings and affects many lives in certain ways. And it also
affects people of all ages, in numbers of different ways through physical, mental, verbal and
social. Bullying doesn’t solve anything and other wrong doings & happenings. Bullying is
personal. It’s in your face. Bullying intimidates, & promotes powerlessness. Bullying has no
respect for person. Socio-economic status, race or gender does not matter. What’s matters is
we should learn to respect and give importance to peoples feelings. Even if it doesn’t mean to
you. It could be mean everything to them. We should minimize and eradicate the bullying in our
society cause it has no good effect to someone’s life. We are born to be real, and not to be
perfect. So, STOP bullying cause no one deserves to feel worthless. It is important for people to
understand when they are bullying or being bullied. So, it couldn’t lead to serious, life
threatening and deaths. Bullying should be stop cause it hurt’s.
