Slave-Applicant Questionnaire
With thanks to Jack Rinella’s Becoming a Slave
These questions and activities are intended to tell your Master-applicant important things about you. In the
process, you are likely to learn a lot about yourself. Some items require responses in separate documents.
# Question/Activity Your Response
1 What your first contact with the idea
of slavery. Was it in a book? A
movie? From a friend? How did you
feel about it then? How do you feel
about it now?
2 Why do you want to be a slave?
3 What myths and assumptions about
slavery do you think you have that
might not be based on reality?
4 Can you describe your greatest
obstacle to finding a dominant
partner?
5 What assets do you think you bring
to such a relationship?
6 Write a 1,000 (or more) word essay
describing your future life as a
slave. What do you do? Where do
you live? What do you say? What is
required of you? How does it feel?
Let your imagination go wild.
7 How do you have to change to be
what you want to become?
8 How will you be different when you
are a slave?
9 What things make you hesitate?
What are the doubts that you feel?
10 Write the names, e-mail addresses,
and phone numbers of possible
references. Contact them for
permission to use them as such.
Assure them of your discretion.
# Question/Activity Your Response
11 Pretend that you have received an
e-mail from an applicant-Master
who says that he has felt betrayed
by people he has met online and
would like some assurances that
you are a trustworthy person. Write
a letter that you think will allay his
fears by giving examples of
experiences that show you are
trustworthy.
12 Are you ready and able to
surrender, given the right
conditions? What are those
conditions?
13 How have you experienced
surrender, either on the giving or
the receiving end?
14 What factors in your everyday life
obstruct your ability to surrender or
to make a commitment? How can
you reduce or eliminate these
barriers to developing an M/s
relationship.
15 What special characteristics do you
think your ideal master ought to
have?
16 Are they reasonable and attainable?
17 How is your ideal different from the
masters you have met thus far?
18 What special characteristics do you
have that make you unique and
desirable as a slave?
19 Think about your friends and lovers
(past and present) and list the
things about them that you found
attractive. Why?
20 Make a list of things that you fear
can go wrong in your search for a
master or that might happen once
# Question/Activity Your Response
you are enslaved.
21 How realistic is your list? Rate each
fear as serious, only lingering, or
completely unrealistic. Label each
fear as controllable, not worth
thinking about, or needs to be
addressed.
How will you "control" the
controllable fears and what might
you do with the ones that need
work?
22 What experience do you lack in
various BDSM activities, such as
flogging, bondage, or protocols?
What skills might you need to learn
in order to become a better slave,
such as housekeeping or cooking?
How can you learn about these
household or kinky activities? Who
might teach you?
Develop a plan to improve yourself
by gaining experience/skills.
23 What things about your non-kink life
do you enjoy? E.g. meeting friends
for coffee. Are they things that are
compatible with life as a slave?
24 There are those who deceive
themselves into thinking that slavery
is for the weak, the inept, and those
who are prone to failure. What in
your life proves that you are strong,
capable, and successful?
25 Some seeking to own a slave, seek
those who are "worthless scum."
What do you think of this and how
would you respond to such an
opinion?
26 What is your self-image like? Does
it need some work? What might you
do to improve it?
# Question/Activity Your Response
27 Are you aware of any negative self-
talk? What might you do to remove
negative self-feelings or intrusive
self-talk?
28 When did you first experience
yourself as a sexual person?
29 Who have been your sexual
partners and in what kind of
relationships, and for how long?
30 What kind of sexual activities do
you most enjoy?
31 When, where, and how did you
learn about them and experience
them?
32 How often do you have an orgasm
and how?
33 What do you fantasize about when
you masturbate?
34 Libido varies greatly from person to
person. How do you describe
yours?
35 Have you ever experienced a time
of heightened sexual need? How
did you handle it?
36 Have you ever abstained from
sexual activity for an extended
period? How long was the
abstaining and why?
37 In general terms what do you earn
in a year? How large is your debt?
38 Do you have savings?
39 Can you afford to travel?
# Question/Activity Your Response
40 Describe your drug use, including
Alcohol, Dope, Poppers, Meth,
Speecl, Coke, Cigarettes, Coffee
41 What are your thoughts on control,
obedience, worship, and service?
42 What kind of a relationship are you
seeking in terms of: Length,
intensity, domestic activities, part-
time/full-time/occasional?
46 Describe your readiness or when
you think you will be ready to enter
into a contract.
44 Are you willing to consider
relocating?
45 Full Name
46 Address
47 Phone number
48 Age
49 Height
50 Weight
51 Waist size
52 Color and amount of hair
53 Education level
54 Occupation/Job Title
55 How long at your present job?
56 What do you like and dislike about
your job?
57 What are the implications on your
career of relocating?
58 Are you single, partnered, married,
divorced? For how long??
59 Describe your previous long-term
relationships. Why did each end?
60 List the lessons you have learned
from past relationships, especially
the early warning signs that things
are not going well.
# Question/Activity Your Response
61 What did you get out of staying in
relationships that were shaky or
unsatisfying?
62 How do you prefer your
relationships - open, monogamous,
polyamorous?
63 List any health conditions that you
have.
64 What medications do you take?
65 What are your personal guidelines
concerning safer sex?
66 Are your parents living? If so,
describe your relationships with
them.
67 How many brothers and sisters do
you have? Describe your
relationships with them.
68 To what extent do they know of your
participation in an alternate
lifestyle?
69 Read slave Patrick’s petition and
create one of your own.
70 Read the sample contracts and
compose one of your own that
speaks from your heart.
