“I’m Possible”
~ By Jett Black ~
The most personal and perspective changing answers to conundrums found in myself
occurring through self discovery and life changing advice from others.
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Basis:


This is your life, live it for yourself, not others, do what YOU need. Help others
along the way and with their journey, but do not live yours for them- you only have
one life. ❤️


The Love You Give:
If you mentally make someone your everything, and they leave, you are
psychologically left with nothing.
Loving someone comes from YOU. They did not make you capable of loving that much,
that love came from within you, they were just someone you wanted to share that
love with. Your love does not depend on someone else. 💞🫶🏼💐










Speech and Actions:
Speak so people listen. Don’t butt in so often. The more you speak, the less your
words are heard and the less they mean. The more you speak, the more likely you are
to say something that was not intended.
(Depends on context though)
Keep secrets… secrets. Otherwise you betray yourself and the person who trusted
you. The most important factor in relationships is trust- that means your
relationship with yourself too. 🫶🏼
Do not talk behind backs. Everyone is going through something, everyone has a past.
Forgive, love, move on, work on you. Do not bring others down, even if they deserve
it, karma will come around whether you, or they realize it. Spread only kindness
and love.❤️
True strength is forgiving others who may not even see the wrong in their actions.
❤️❤️❤️
Inner Peace; Finding Yourself:













Never heavily rely on one’s presence, rely on what’s present.
Procrastination:

Time will pass whether you want it to or not. You might as well spend it making
your future self proud!









Kindness:

No matter the argument: hate doesn’t get rid of hate, only love does! ❤️

EVERYONE, I mean EVERYONE has fucked up shit they’re dealing or have with dealt
with… so why make it harder on them by being mean? You are infinite- you can be
anything you want, so why not be kind? Why not help others? ❤️




Obsession and Control:

I used to believe: if you loved a flower, you would pick it, water it, take care of
it, and house it from the outside world and its harsh conditions. This is obsession
and control. 🥀
If you love a flower, you let it grow with others like it, they share nutrients and
thrive. When you wish for a flower to grow you can’t be surprised when rain comes.
There may be harsh conditions, so check up on it, and take care of it, but don’t
obsess over it. 🌹
Your relationship with Milana is a prime example. You needed to let her be her own
person apart from you- to grow with those like her without jealousy and obsession
interfering. If she still left like you feared that’s her choice, if she gets
feelings for someone else, that’s her choice. Let her be. You did your best, you
did what you thought was best at the time, I forgive you ❤️.


Simplification:
Understand that your partner is their own person and true love means respecting
each other's boundaries without needing to control each other. If things like
partying, vacation, having friends of the opposite gender or whatever tempts them
to be unfaithful or disrespectful behind your back, that's on them- you tried your
best and that’s what matters. Where there's a will, there's always a way, no matter
how much you try to limit or control. Let go. Love is appreciation.💓💐
Your Environment Forms You:
Listen to happier and freeing music. Music is extremely powerful and can change
your outlook and mood entirely. It may seem comforting to listen to sad music when
you’re sad, or vengeful music when you’re mad, but this only manipulates your
decisions and thoughts by enhancing and heightening your confused emotions.
Breathe… everything starts with the mind. 😊

Playlist that may help:
https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/no-enemies/pl.u-RRbVVKWs3X2r1KP
For those who have no will to change, you must move on. Love them, but do not let
the negative influence you. You can love an ocean- it doesn’t mean you need to
drown in it. ❤️
As the saying goes:
“You can lead a horse to water… but you can’t make it drink it.”
The people and places you surround yourself with have a greater influence on you
than you can imagine. Spread kindness and love, but do not sacrifice yourself to
change their perspective. Be the reason that people still believe in love and
kindness ❤️ so they can find peace too. We all deserve it.

The Law of Attraction
https://youtu.be/5zvnFM2BXqY?si=RS76LqSjxlkn-CQV
Remember, life is amazing, you are so lucky, and so important, whether you believe
it in the situation or not- it’s true. I love you ❤️

Gratefulness and Gratitude:
You’ll never be as young as you are today EVER again! ENJOY IT ❤️❤️❤️

Statistically, your birth was a one in a FOUR HUNDRED TRILLION chance! You beat the
99.99999999999% probability of not ever living! 🫶🏼 YOU ARE A MIRACLE!
Be grateful! 😁
LIFE REALLY IS ALL JUST SUNSHINE AND RAINBOWS BRO 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼 YOU JUST NEED TO CHANGE THE WAY
YOU PERCEIVE SITUATIONS ❤️ With practice you can do this, I believe in you. You
really are a good person. 🤝

Your mind is more powerful than you can comprehend. Perspective CAN change the
world.





The way you perceive the world is how the totality of life goes for you… because
life isn’t coming at you it’s coming from you. ❤️
Renewal and Rebirth:



You can’t please everyone. So stop living to please others. Just be happy and proud
with yourself. You deserve that peace of mind. ❤️❤️❤️
