THAT LITTLE FINGER

(Frieda Holler)
UNO: FROM GOOD MANNERS TO ETIQUETTE THERE IS MORE THAN ONE STEP.
GOOD MANNERS MEAN CONSIDERATION:
Good manners mean consideration, respect for the feelings and rights of others. Manners
They must be natural and will be used equally by all.

WHAT IS SOCIAL LABEL?

They are rules of decorum that govern and guide human behavior, as well as suggestions that contribute to
develop in us a sense of consideration and respect to live harmoniously.

EDUCATION IS BASED ON RESPECT:

Education is the set of attitudes and feelings that are difficult to separate from each other; it is the result of learning from the
cradle. The fundamental basis is self-respect, which is reflected indirectly in others. Education will open the
closer doors and will create sympathy around you.

COURTESY IS COMPLIMENT:
It is the demonstration of our consideration for others and can be manifested in a thousand different ways.
Words like 'Please' and 'Thank you' or a smile can be the most useful tools of courtesy.

GOLDEN RULES OF THE PERFECT GENTLEMAN:

A polite man should:
Open the door for any woman accompanying him.
Be on time and not keep her waiting.
Pull out the chair when arriving at the table so that he/she can sit down.

CHAPTER TWO: THE GREETING: TO KISS OR NOT TO KISS.

Courtesy and respect will be the instruments that will make us appreciated, as they are signs of a good
education.

REMEMBER THE NAMES:

The greeting is the most important of good manners. One should greet with a clear voice and with the complete greeting. In the
moment of the presentation, remember the names, it is very important.

KISS OR NOT TO KISS, THAT’S THE QUESTION:

One kisses in social interactions, depending on the relationship and eventually on affection. One must be prudent with social kissing and
One must consider that the woman decides how to be greeted.

THE PRESENTATION: BASIC RULES

A man always approaches a woman, a young person to someone much older of the same sex.
Avoid being funny when introducing two people.
Give strangers an idea of your activities before leaving them alone.

CHAPTER THREE: THE POWER OF SMILE.

The greeting and the introduction are very important manners, so we must perform them well, according to the
recommendations given to us in this chapter.

IT COSTS NOTHING AND PRODUCES A LOT:

Smiling is to act with charm and to show confidence, a desire to please, affection, indulgence, and simplicity.
The smile must be sincere, never forced or mocking, as it is an expression of kindness and good humor.
The smile inspires new life and to earn a countless number of loyal friends.

THANK WITH YOUR HEART:

Thanking adds a touch of elegance and respect. Give thanks without distinction when someone does you a favor or you receive.
attention or compliments.

Apologizing is also an art.

Apologizing is an act of honesty that will always be appreciated by the person to whom we offer it.
To err is human and it is a sign of courtesy to admit it.

SMOKING IS NOT A PLEASURE... BUT DO IT WITH DISTINCTION AND RESPECT:

Respect the 'No Smoking' signs.

Before smoking, ask or request permission.
Avoid smoking in front of children and pregnant women.
Don't smoke out your interlocutor.
Never throw a lit cigarette.

LET'S VALUE TIME:

Whatever value you assign to time, try to make the most of it, regardless of your age.

Punctuality is the courtesy of kings.

Punctuality is a true reflection of the degree of civilization and culture that humanity can achieve. It is
reflection of trust in someone's word.

CHAPTER FOUR: THE NEW IMAGE OF WOMEN.

Punctuality, gratitude, and knowing how to apologize are the important points in this chapter, and by the way,
important activities in our daily life.

TO THRIVE IN LIFE, WE NEED A GOOD PERSONAL IMAGE:

The woman is a social being and manifests it in multiple ways. Aesthetics, correctness, and the art of conversation are
fundamentals to improve the image.

Dare, showcase your beauty!

We all have something that favors us; we just need to highlight our natural qualities and disguise the defects.

FIND YOUR OWN STYLE:

This way, you will stand out from the others and look authentic.

TELL ME HOW YOU DRESS AND...

Clothing can indicate whether it is stable and the degree of its moral standards, it serves as an identification card, they produce
some impression and it influences how we are treated.
CHAPTER FIVE: SELF-ESTEEM, FOUNDATION OF A GOOD IMAGE.

The personal image and our appearance will serve as a reference for our personality, and they will depend on them.
the way people will treat us.

WE MUST START BY LOVING AND VALUING OURSELVES:

Self-esteem is the self-assessment of one's being, respecting oneself, valuing oneself, considering oneself, loving oneself, being sure of oneself.
All attitudes are the immediate reflection of this valuation and help us communicate with others.

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, ALWAYS BEAUTIFUL!

Beauty has no mold and every person is beautiful for their individuality and personality, which should be taken care of.
cultivate and develop.

CHAPTER SIX: THE ART OF DRESSING WELL.

Let's develop our financial intelligence because it improves any skill, and it helps us reduce risk.
to lose.

LOOK FOR THE GARMENT THAT SUITS YOU:

Only by improving the sense of proportion can one achieve perfection in appearance, choosing clothes wisely.
style is essential. Either way, let your personality shine through your clothing.

Is elegance quality?

A quality garment exudes elegance on its own and should not be overly embellished. Be more selective, because quality
Quality matters more than quantity.

DECALOGUE OF GOOD DRESSING:

Dress according to your age.

Quality is important.
The colors and style will define your garments and your personality.
The accessories must be properly matched.
The bag and the shoes must be of the same style and color.

CHAPTER SEVEN: THE CUNNING ART OF PLEASANT CONVERSATION.

Let's cultivate our minds and develop skills to improve our investments.
Let's reject the fear of failure and stop avoiding success.

INTEGRAL STYLE:

To consolidate a comprehensive style, it will be necessary:

Raise the intellectual level, this way you will conquer a high level in your self-realization.
Search for the best in you.
Express your criteria firmly.
She will also be recognized for her courtesy, urbanity, and good manners.

IMPORTANCE IN COMMUNICATION:
 Communication is important as a transmitter of customs, anecdotes, and traditions; it helps us to
to interrelate as human beings, and it is, ultimately, a necessity.

SOME UNFORGIVABLE FAULTS:

Do not touch another person's arm, except in extreme trust.

Never let it be known that you are bored in the company of someone.
Do not interrupt the conversation because you find it slow.
Do not praise or belittle.
Do not persist in an argument that annoys your interlocutor.
SECRETS OF THE GOOD CONSERVATOR:

To speak, one must have something important to say.

Pettiness is a terrible flaw in conversation.
Choose the right topic for the right person.

WHAT TO DO IF YOU HEAR A CURSE WORD?

If it bothers you, ask them not to do it, or if not, change your seat.

CHAPTER EIGHT: THE NEW IN TELEPHONE LABELING

The conversation is where you will show your manners and your culture, which is why cultivate yourself and learn the art of being a good conversationalist.

AVOID LEAVING A BAD IMPRESSION:

The telephone is a fast and practical means of communication because:

If you are the one calling, do not start the conversation by asking, 'Who am I speaking to?'
Speak concrete, cordial and direct.
The person who calls is the one who says goodbye first.
The person calling must identify themselves.
Do not hang up the phone in a moment of anger.

ABOUT THE USE AND MISUSE OF THE CELL PHONE:

Turn it off in meetings or public events.

Do not use it while driving.
If it rings in a social meeting, turn it off immediately.

IMPROVE THE SOUND OF YOUR VOICE:

Your voice should be strong and clear. You should save time on the phone: Talk about the specific point, always tell the truth,
answer between the second or third call, I have paper on hand, etc.

CHAPTER NINE: HOW TO BEHAVE IN SPECIAL SITUATIONS.

On the phone, one should speak concretely and quickly, and knowing where to answer it is the most important.

How to take the initiative to invite a man?

Women are already taking the initiative to invite men out, but it shouldn’t come across as rude or vulgar; it should be very
prudent and not overly liberal.
APPROPRIATE BEHAVIOR IN THE CINEMA AND THEATER:
One should not disturb others during a show by making noise or obstructing their view.
that are behind one.
IN THE STREET:
You must not spit.
If an elderly person comes in the opposite direction, space should be given to them.
Give way to people who are in a hurry.
You should not form groups and stay chatting in transit areas.

ON VISIT:
You should sit with an elegant posture, not slouch in the chair.
One should not meddle with objects found in the salt.
To enter, let the women and individuals of higher status go first.

CHAPTER TEN: WALKING ETIQUETTE.

In this chapter, we are given suggestions for appropriate behaviors in public places or social gatherings, so
also how to act when you are a visitor or just a person walking down the street.

PRUDENCE, COURTESY, AND KINDNESS:

As a car owner, you must take on new responsibilities and attitudes, as many gentlemen...
they turn into vulgar people within one.

HIS/HER BEHAVIOR IN A TAXI:

Greet upon entering, clearly state the destination you want to reach, pay the fare, if you have luggage the driver
you should download them.

HIS/HER BEHAVIOR IN A SUPERMARKET:

Be careful and do not damage the merchandise, avoid bringing children, if you have any complaints, present them to the appropriate person.

WHAT TO DO IN A STORE?
Be kind, do not ask for extreme discounts, show respect to the people who serve you from the beginning.

CHAPTER ELEVEN: ON THE ROAD.

The author recommends how we should behave in certain places and with the people who are there.

PRACTICAL TIPS:

When traveling, you should take the necessary precautions such as: Planning the trip and managing the house while you are away.
take care of your clothing and be tolerant if you are traveling with others.

AT THE AIRPORT:

You must show up at the designated time and without delay.

Respect the queue.
If an incident occurs, do not get hysterical, act with caution.
Do not carry excess baggage

ON THE PLANE:

Place yourself in your seat and place your luggage in the overhead compartment.
Respect the rules on the plane.
Go for a walk with the flight attendants.

Avoid getting out of your seat constantly.

IN HOTELS:

Preferably make a reservation.

The bellboy will carry your luggage and you should give him a tip.
Bring wear-wash clothes, it's more comfortable.
CHAPTER TWELVE: IN HOSPITALS AND TEMPLES, COURTESY IS SILENCE.

The author advises us on how we should behave in certain places and with the people who are there.

HIS/HER ATTITUDE IN HOSPITALS AND CLINICS:

You must respect the visiting hours of the hospital, visit for a reasonable time, and treat the patient with
consideration, walk and speak moderately.

IN CASE OF BEING HOSPITALIZED:

Be respectful with the nurses, cooperate with the treatment, do not dress in provocative clothing.
Makeup lightly, do not enter other rooms, be tidy.

IF YOU ARE IN A CONSULTING ROOM:

Greet upon entry, wait your turn, arrive on time, be polite and courteous to the nurses.

THE CHURCH, PLACE OF REFLECTION:

Do not show up in revealing clothing, be punctual, and do not make noise while walking, do not talk or make
presentations.

AN INCORRECT WAY OF LIVING:

Promoting disorder, being unpunctual, ignoring laws and regulations, not being orderly or
clean, spitting in public spaces, complaining about everything, etc.

CHAPTER THIRTEEN: TABLE ETIQUETTE.

The best way to behave is by respecting places where there is a lot of sensitivity.
by the people who are there and who can be easily offended.

The author recommends how we should behave in certain places and with the people around us.
they find there.

WHAT IT IS AND ITS IMPORTANCE:

These are the good manners that should be observed during a meal. A person who practices them never...
will go unnoticed.

WHAT DOES THE LABEL RECOMMEND?

You should be concerned about creating a pleasant environment around you and knowing the place of these, never
should enter a dining room late, should sit up straight and not slump, not
gesture with the cutlery in hand, you should not stir the food on your plate and never say
"Enjoy" or "served".

WHAT TO DO WITH THE CUTLERY?

The soup spoons will be placed to the right of the dinner plate, the knives are paired.
With the forks, the handles should extend beyond the plate.

And the thanks?

At the table, as in all places, it is important to be polite and eat well because that way you
determine what level of education he/she has.

CHAPTER FOURTEEN: GOOD MANNERS AND STYLE IN INVITATIONS.

Being the guest at a thank you meeting for that, these are details that will make him polite and
considered.

THE DINNER SET UP:

When dinner is served, it will be announced by the host, the place of honor is always at the
to the right of the host, it should be served from the left and received the plate from the right, it should
start with the place of honor and then continue with the others when serving.

WHAT NOT TO DO AT A TABLE:

Do not put them on the table when eating.

Do not use toothpicks.
Do not use cutlery or plastic containers.
Do not soak solid foods in liquids.
Do not push the plate into the table.

In this chapter, we are given recommendations on how to behave in dining invitations and
what should not be done in them.

Knowing how to dress according to the occasion is important if you want to be polite.
Being elegant is dressing well and looking good, but above all, being original.

HIGHLIGHTED WORDS IN THE WORK:

ABRUMAR: to overwhelm, to burden with

serious weight, causing great annoyance.

AUTHENTIC: Credited as certain, authorized or legalized; that provides public faith.

COURTESY: Act of attention, respect, or affection.

BEHAVIOR: Conduct, way of behaving

5) DISRESPECT: Disrespect, lack of due respect to superiors.

6) EQUILIBRIUM: State of rest of a body, equality, moderation, sensibility

The speaker demonstrated sensibility on the topic.
IDENTITY: Quality of being identical, the fact of being a person the same as one assumes or seeks.

IMAGE: A vivid and effective representation of a thing through language.

9) RESPETO: Reverencia, acatamiento. Miramiento, atención.

VALUE: Quality of things.

11) VULGARITY: Quality of being vulgar, a kind, saying, or action that is vulgar and lacks novelty.
importance, or truth or foundation.
12) DECALOGUE: Commandment of the law of God, rules or laws.

SECRET: What is reserved or hidden, ignored, quiet, silent, reserved.

14) ALVEO: Mother of the river or stream.

15) CARRILLO: Fleshy part of the face from the cheek to the lower part of the cheek. Garrucha or
pulley.

BEAUTY: The property of things that makes us love them, instilling delight in us.
spiritual.

17) EXCUSE: Reason or cause cited to excuse oneself from a blame.

STYLE: Manner, way, form, a characteristic and exclusive way of writing or speaking of a writer or
from a speaker.

19) DOLO: Deceit, fraud, simulation. In crimes, full deliberation and warning; in the
contracts and other actions, cunning and malicious intent with which they are executed.

20) COMMUNICATION: Action and effect of communicating. Interaction, correspondence between two or more.
people.