I am not convinced that there is an epidemic of low libido. Instead, women are exhausted, and invisible labor and a pay gap make 10 pm sex feel like another chore. There is a shortage of skilled partners, a century of missing anatomy, and a menu that was never designed for female biology. And there is definitely a culture that maligns female pleasure and forces you to swim upstream to get what you want and need.

Patriarchy looms over all things, like a haunting shadow. Biology and sexual wellness are no exception.