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The Lover by Marguerite Duras
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A world away from the intelligence insulting and glorified trash of E. L. James, Marguerite Duras has written a sparse, minimal and painfully sad erotic love story that never gets drawn into the realms of romantic fantasy.
And to deeply appreciate 'The Lover', it needs to be looked at from the perspective of Duras herself. Pen was put to paper when she was 70, it's predominantly all about looking back on memories past, and I say it's a painful read, painful in respects to nostalgia, as nostalgia forms the basis for the story that has origins from her actual youth while living in French Indochina, age fifteen she fell in love with a rich Chinese man. Duras takes this premise and places a white teenage girl in South Vietnam, into the arms of a wealthy older man who catches her eye while been driven in a limousine. But this is a forbidden love that was always doomed, trying to keep secret from her mother and two brothers she would regularly meet with her lover for moments of passionate bliss.

Duras stays away from any attention seeking sexual content, and never covers ground of what's right or wrong, just tells the simple tale of innocence lost. The narrative at times appears broken, and there is little in the way of dialogue, but his only helps to fortify the reading experience of it feeling like a distant dream.
After being Oscar nominated for her screenplay on the Alain Resnais film classic 'Hiroshima mon amour', Duras would rightly win Frances most prestigious literary prize, the Prix Goncourt, and she will always remains a significant French writer.
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December 23, 2016 – Shelved
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Alice Poon The movie is unforgettable! I look forward to reading this one. Hope you're liking it :)


Steven Godin Alice wrote: "The movie is unforgettable! I look forward to reading this one. Hope you're liking it :)"

Thanks Alice, I have not seen the film but reading this is definitely worth it.


Ilse Excellent and enticing review, Steven - another writing woman I want to read more by... I loved her Dix Heures et demie du soir en été.


Steven Godin Jean-Paul wrote: "Great review, Steven. I also highly recommend the film which, unlike many film adaptations, lives up to the quality and beauty of the book."

Thanks Jean-Paul, will have to track the film down.


Steven Godin Ilse wrote: "Excellent and enticing review, Steven - another writing woman I want to read more by... I loved her Dix Heures et demie du soir en été."

Thank you llse, I am going to get hold of "The Ravishing of Lol Stein" soon.


Dolors "Duras stays away from any attention seeking sexual content, and never covers ground of what's right or wrong, just tells the simple tale of innocence lost."
So perfectly put, Steven...
I fell under the spell of Duras' cinematic style myself and was drowning in the nostalgia of fiction blended with memories. I've been meaning to read more by her, thanks for this excellent reminder.


message 7: by Steven (last edited Jan 12, 2017 05:22AM) (new) - rated it 4 stars

Steven Godin Dolors wrote: ""Duras stays away from any attention seeking sexual content, and never covers ground of what's right or wrong, just tells the simple tale of innocence lost."
So perfectly put, Steven...
I fell unde..."


My pleasure Dolors, want to read more of her work myself, I have always felt drawn to fiction that blends memories and nostalgia. maybe because I spend too much time thinking about the past rather than the present.


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Fionnuala “Very early in my life it was too late.”

Thanks for including that great line, Steven. Yet, as you tell us, late in life, she still found a way to retell this early story. It sometimes seems to me from all the various bits of her writing I've read, though not this book, that she was always writing this story, that this story was the beginning and end of Marguerite Duras.


Jacob Sebæk Coming in from the left and joining the choir of praise, to your review, to Madame Duras in general and The Lover in particular. I remember the movie too, soft toned, misty and stripped of anything "sensational" you would have imagined, only telling a lovestory in retrospect.


Alice Poon Wonderful review Steven! I also saw the movie "Hiroshima Mon Amour", which I loved too.


Steven Godin Fionnuala wrote: "“Very early in my life it was too late.”

Thanks for including that great line, Steven. Yet, as you tell us, late in life, she still found a way to retell this early story. It sometimes seems to me..."


Thanks Fionnuala, this quote just struck a chord with me, and I look forward to reading more of her work.


Cecily I think you're right to point out the importance of seeing it from Duras' point of view, looking back from old age. It does make it less judgemental, but also more poignant.


Roxana Great review, thank you for sharing! :) I‘m just starting The Lover!


Steven Godin Roxana wrote: "Great review, thank you for sharing! :) I‘m just starting The Lover!"

Thank you Roxana. Hope you like it.


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