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Stoner
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I have very conflicting emotions regarding this novel so I decided not to rate it. For almost half of the novel I thought all the 5* reviews were right and I was listening to a literary masterpiece. Then, something happened and I started to get pissed of by the author and Stoner. I still very much enjoyed the subtle beautiful prose but I could not ignore some aspects that bothered me. I will explain in more detail what I mean but there will be spoilers. Because of that, I will start with a short spoiler free review and then get into more detail. Before everything, I state that I understand how most people read this novel and why they appreciate it and also what the intention of the author was. What follows is how I "felt" while reading, a mix of appreciating for the novel but also some indignation. Indignation might be good in some books but I am not sure this was the author's intention.
SPOILER FREE REVIEW.
William Stoner, the son of a farmer, is sent to University to study agriculture. There, he falls in love with the world of the written words and changes his major to literature. He abandons his family and their hope to improve their farm to follows his passion. Don’t worry, this is not a book about passion, it is more about the lack of it and about stoicism. He is told by his mentor that he should be professor so he decides to follow that path because he had no better plans anyway. He later marries the first girl he likes, a decision he will come to regret soon enough. The novel becomes a long succession of small bouts of restrained happiness and longer periods of extreme misery. Everyone seems to be against him and try to hurt hm. It is one of the finest examples of misery lit and stoicism again the hurts life throws at you. It was endearing and heart breaking for a while until it became too much. The stoicism became inaction/victimisation and a disappointment to me. The writing is beautiful, although detached it felt hypnotic and I had the compulsion to listen on and on. Although we are told about a series of events in the life of William Stoner I was not bored most of the time.
SOME SPOILERS FROM NOW ON
Alright, what went wrong? The magic started to dissipate after Edith came back from her father’s funeral reincarnated as Cruella, with revenge on her mind. I did not like the sudden transformation of Edith into a super villain who made every effort to make poor William’s life a living hell. She was a damaged woman from the beginning but this extra evilness/craziness felt artificial, like the author had someone in his past that he needed to take his revenge on. Stoner was the only victim, not once did the author consider Edith’s feelings and psychology. The marriage was arranged between his father and Stoner, she didn’t really have a say in the matter of her life. Her planned Holiday to Europe was cancelled and she became the wife of a stranger. It is suggested she also had some past trauma so that did not help either. Nevertheless, she was presented only as a perpetrator.
Secondly, the whole affair with the other two supper villains, the physically impaired duo, was also hard to stomach for me. I did not clearly understand the reasons behind their vendetta and their hate for the “hero”. What bothered me the most was his inaction to save his daughter, which is something I cannot forgive. I could have been lenient and take it as part of the story but the author considers Stoner a real hero, an example of resistance against the world who wants to harm him. He is the only victim, his wife and daughter are negligible. The writer does not see them as victims as well. So, yes a blame the author because I did not give this book 5 stars. The way the books started, I thought there was no way to give it less.
SPOILER FREE REVIEW.
William Stoner, the son of a farmer, is sent to University to study agriculture. There, he falls in love with the world of the written words and changes his major to literature. He abandons his family and their hope to improve their farm to follows his passion. Don’t worry, this is not a book about passion, it is more about the lack of it and about stoicism. He is told by his mentor that he should be professor so he decides to follow that path because he had no better plans anyway. He later marries the first girl he likes, a decision he will come to regret soon enough. The novel becomes a long succession of small bouts of restrained happiness and longer periods of extreme misery. Everyone seems to be against him and try to hurt hm. It is one of the finest examples of misery lit and stoicism again the hurts life throws at you. It was endearing and heart breaking for a while until it became too much. The stoicism became inaction/victimisation and a disappointment to me. The writing is beautiful, although detached it felt hypnotic and I had the compulsion to listen on and on. Although we are told about a series of events in the life of William Stoner I was not bored most of the time.
SOME SPOILERS FROM NOW ON
Alright, what went wrong? The magic started to dissipate after Edith came back from her father’s funeral reincarnated as Cruella, with revenge on her mind. I did not like the sudden transformation of Edith into a super villain who made every effort to make poor William’s life a living hell. She was a damaged woman from the beginning but this extra evilness/craziness felt artificial, like the author had someone in his past that he needed to take his revenge on. Stoner was the only victim, not once did the author consider Edith’s feelings and psychology. The marriage was arranged between his father and Stoner, she didn’t really have a say in the matter of her life. Her planned Holiday to Europe was cancelled and she became the wife of a stranger. It is suggested she also had some past trauma so that did not help either. Nevertheless, she was presented only as a perpetrator.
Secondly, the whole affair with the other two supper villains, the physically impaired duo, was also hard to stomach for me. I did not clearly understand the reasons behind their vendetta and their hate for the “hero”. What bothered me the most was his inaction to save his daughter, which is something I cannot forgive. I could have been lenient and take it as part of the story but the author considers Stoner a real hero, an example of resistance against the world who wants to harm him. He is the only victim, his wife and daughter are negligible. The writer does not see them as victims as well. So, yes a blame the author because I did not give this book 5 stars. The way the books started, I thought there was no way to give it less.
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March 8, 2018
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March 8, 2018
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October 10, 2018
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February 2, 2021
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May 25, 2021
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May 29, 2021
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June 3, 2021
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"The love Stoner has for his daughter breaks my heart. I just know this relationship will prove to be a failure and don't know if I can take it."
June 7, 2021
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Finished Reading
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You make perfect sense!
Also some of the reactions to your review were enlightening (E.g., but not limited to, Alvaro's and Manan's).
(And thanks for the reminder -- I found out that I had written a private draft note, but not published a review yet! Should still do that.)
Also some of the reac..." I read your review and made some comments there. Glad I made you write one.
Adina wrote: "I read your review and made some comments there. Glad I made you write one."
So am I; thanks again.
Myself, I always feel that I have to justify giving low(er) ratings -- especially if I can understand why (many) others have differing opinions. Sometimes it breaks my heart to not like a masterpiece (or I even feel vaguely ashamed, haha); and I find I'm bending over backwards to explain my reasons. Afraid that others think I'm a literary barbarian, LOL! (But I shouldn't care -- and don't want to. I'll get there.)
So in that light, I respect that your being just plain honest (as well), explaining your ideas wisely and in detail; seemingly also appreciating the generic consensus, but not letting it deter you from having your own opinion. I'm glad I'm not alone in that!
I agree with most, if not all of what you said there, Jonathan. I read it too long ago and during a very exciting trip, so I didn't remember everything. Also, I admit I didn't do any solid research to see what the author wanted to relay.
(I often first want to find my own value in what I read; next, I care more about specific individuals' ideas and findings, than about popular opinion or that of any establishment. That said, after I've made up my own mind, I do often do some research to find out if my perceptions, that of the general populace, and the author's intentions are aligned. But I didn't really do that in this case. Hmm, I guess I'm currently doing it right here. Adina's review and the subsequent comments make me learn more about the novel!)
However, I've found myself confused at Stoner being called or described as a 'hero of stoicism'. From my personal POV, his stoicism -- and that of others; and/or their passive-aggressiveness! -- ruined everybody's lives. Stoner, at least, doesn't go all-out passive-aggressive; he stops short of that. And for that, I could (and did) commend him. But yes, it was an age in which people couldn't speak (or act) out in order to strive for happiness; and conversely it is a novel about situations where people should've (been able to). And that, to me, made it a tragedy to plough through.
Thank you for the reminders and your thoughts.
I agree with most, if not all of what you said there, Jonathan. I read it too long ago and during a very exciting trip, so I didn't remember everyth..."Thanks for your input. The comments to my review added a lot of value to my reading.
Nobody can spin more thoughts - many - fast - valuable topics and themes - worthy to discuss than you.
On that not..."thank you again. I saw you are retiring from reviewing...for the nth time. :)) I am sure you wrote that before but I understand why you want to disconnect. Sometimes it becomes an obligation and we all have enough of those. Goodreads and reading should be fun.
I am very interested in this book, because I have planned to read it along the next months and so your review has been so suitable to me … I preferred not to read the version with spoilers and so I will go with a little less hype I had before.
Thank you for your review !!
Kind regards !!
I am very interested in this book, because I have planned to read it along the next months and so your review has been so suitable to me … I preferred not to read the version wi..." I think it is probably better to have less hype. You might like it more.
I also wished and hoped he had done more for his daughter and was curious how the relationship will develop in between them with time, however if you have paid attention to both Stoner's and his wife's families where they grew up in, both parents encountered communication and intimacy difficulties in their childhoods at home, parent towards child.
With this being said, the harm has been passed from one generation to the next one, but guess would take some psychology insight to notice this.
I absolutely loved the voice of the author and the great and subtle cognitive introspection it shows beginning until the end.
I also wished and hoped he had done more f..." i agree with your thoughts. This is why i could not rate the novel. One one hand
I appreciate it, on the other, it made me mad.