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In the Shadow of Young Girls in Flower by Marcel Proust
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It's brilliant; it's a bit boring; it's brilliant again; it's a bit boring again.

This book covers his initiation into sexual desire and romantic love, beginning with his obsession with Gilberte and ending with his summer sojourn on the Normandy coast where he falls for another unattainable girl. At times, because of the way he's mollycoddled by his family, it's hard to conceive of him as being much older than ten. It thus comes as a shock that he's capable of intellectual discourse and predatory sexual feeling. I enjoyed this volume less than the first. Maybe at the time some of his ideas about desire - of it being essentially projection - were novel but, though there are some gems of insight, I often found his formulations on the subject long-winded and even banal at times. And I've come to dread the advent of another set of brackets on his pages - I think I'm yet to find anything he puts in parentheses anything but an annoying distraction. Once or twice I found myself wishing Proust had lived an outwardly more interesting life - though there's no denying that he milked out every drop of nectar given to him.

I remember a startlingly brilliant passage about a sunrise seen from the sleeping car of a train. I remember a fantastic passage when he conceives of his feeling as being much grander and more momentous than the view of the sea and sky, as if there is more reality inside him than in the entire external universe. I remember a brilliant passage when he comes to conceive of desire as an inward journey with knowledge of self as the real and ultimate destination. And there's lots of great stuff about both the transfiguring and deluding powers of habit.

Onto volume three…
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Quotes Violet Liked

Marcel Proust
“No doubt very few people understand the purely subjective nature of the phenomenon that we call love, or how it creates, so to speak, a supplementary person, distinct from the person whom the world knows by the same name, a person most of whose constituent elements are derived from ourselves.”
Marcel Proust, Within a Budding Grove

Marcel Proust
“All our final decisions are made in a state of mind that is not going to last.”
Marcel Proust, In the Shadow of Young Girls in Flower

Marcel Proust
“The time which we have at our disposal every day is elastic; the passions that we feel expand it, those that we inspire contract it; and habit fills up what remains.”
Marcel Proust, In the Shadow of Young Girls in Flower

Marcel Proust
“Pleasures are like photographs: in the presence of the person we love, we take only negatives, which we develop later, at home, when we have at our disposal once more our inner dark room, the door of which it is strictly forbidden to open while others are present.”
Marcel Proust, In the Shadow of Young Girls in Flower

Marcel Proust
“Our desires cut across one another, and in this confused existence it is rare for happiness to coincide with the desire that clamoured for it.”
Marcel Proust, Within a Budding Grove

Marcel Proust
“We imagine always when we speak that it is our own ears, our own mind, that are listening.”
Marcel Proust, In the Shadow of Young Girls in Flower

Marcel Proust
“As a rule it is with our being reduced to a minimum that we live; most of our faculties lie dormant because they can rely upon Habit, which knows what there is to be done and has no need of their services. But on this morning of travel, the interruption of the routine of my existence, the unfamiliar place and time, had made their presence indispensable.”
Marcel Proust, Within a Budding Grove

Marcel Proust
“But one never finds a cathedral, a wave in a storm, a dancer's leap in the air quite as high as one has been expecting;”
Marcel Proust, In the Shadow of Young Girls in Flower

Marcel Proust
“...for each of us sees clarity only in those ideas which have the same degree of confusion as his own.”
Marcel Proust, In the Shadow of Young Girls in Flower

Marcel Proust
“As soon as one is unhappy one becomes moral.”
Marcel Proust, In the Shadow of Young Girls in Flower

Marcel Proust
“That is why the better part of our memories exists outside us, in a blatter of rain, in the smell of an unaired room or of the first crackling brushwood fire in a cold grate: wherever, in short, we happen upon what our mind, having no use for it, had rejected, the last treasure that the past has in store, the richest, that which, when all our flow of tears seems to have dried at the source, can make us weep again.”
Marcel Proust, In Search of Lost Time, Volume II: Within a Budding Grove

Marcel Proust
“With intelligent people, three-quarters of the things they suffer from come from their intelligence.”
Marcel Proust, In the Shadow of Young Girls in Flower


Reading Progress

September 7, 2020 – Started Reading
September 7, 2020 – Shelved
October 27, 2020 – Finished Reading

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Leonard Gaya Hey! Just only starting the Recherche myself. How is it going for you so far?


Violet wells Lots of highs but some lows too!


Leonard Gaya Haha, yes, I'm getting the same feeling here. Happy reading in any case!


Steven Godin Well, you might not have thought as much of this compared to the first one, but it sounds like a vast improvement to those Anthony Powell volumes.
Do you plan on reading all In Search of Lost Time volumes?


Violet wells Steven wrote: "Well, you might not have thought as much of this compared to the first one, but it sounds like a vast improvement to those Anthony Powell volumes.
Do you plan on reading all In Search of Lost Time ..."


Hopefully. Last time I didn't quite make it to the end.


Kamakana do not remember if this is the one i got used to his parenthetical clauses, but think i started to just replace his punctuation with commas... made it flow faster, read faster, but cannot say for sure it made total sense...


Ilse Your last para makes me long to find the time to read this again Violet, even if along the way I sometimes got lost in his asides, his long sentences taking away the air like a vine entangling one. I enjoyed being taken to the Normandy coast in this episode however - and the way the whole journey culminated into the last episode made it all worth it to me :-).


Violet wells Michael wrote: "do not remember if this is the one i got used to his parenthetical clauses, but think i started to just replace his punctuation with commas... made it flow faster, read faster, but cannot say for s..."

I'm beginning to get the hang of how to read him.


Violet wells Ilse wrote: "Your last para makes me long to find the time to read this again Violet, even if along the way I sometimes got lost in his asides, his long sentences taking away the air like a vine entangling one...."

It's the relentless intensity that can be exhausting, especially when certain ideas or observations don't warrant such intensity, Ilse. But then that's coupled with some of the best writing in the history of the novel.


message 10: by Noel (new) - rated it 5 stars

Noel Sometimes I would read over what he said in parentheses first then go over the sentences again mentally blocking them out. That would seem ridiculous if they weren’t sometimes paragraphs long!


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Fionnuala Love your list of highs, Violet. They brought back my own clearly, and, a further parallel, I found this volume, at least tge first half of it, had the longest list of lows of all the volumes—though there were no parentheses in my memory of it.


Violet wells Noel wrote: "Sometimes I would read over what he said in parentheses first then go over the sentences again mentally blocking them out. That would seem ridiculous if they weren’t sometimes paragraphs long!"

Thanks Noel.


Violet wells Fionnuala wrote: "Love your list of highs, Violet. They brought back my own clearly, and, a further parallel, I found this volume, at least tge first half of it, had the longest list of lows of all the volumes—thoug..."

I'm struggling with the next volume, Fi!


Warwick My feelings exactly. And I also noted the same passage of sunrise seen from a moving train – that was beautiful.


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