Irresistible Texting

Table Of Contents

Introduction 4

Few Key Principles of Irresistible Texting 5

The Five Most Irresistible “First Messages” Ever 11

Don't Be An Easy To Get Guy... 17

Virtual Rewards And Punishments 19

Reversing The Innuendo 22

Giving The Permission To Make Her Do Naughty Things 24

Become The Unforgettable GuyIn Her Phone 25

Make Her Beg To Come Out Of The Friend-Zone 27

The “Bad In uence” Text 28

Tell Her, Don't Ask Her 29

How To Compliment Women The Right Way 31

The "Bollywood Crush" Trick 34

How To Make Sure She Wants To Hook Up With You... Even Before Going

For The Date... 37

How To Approach A Girl Who Has "Not Here For Hook" Up In Her Bio 40

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How To Get Her To Send You Her Pictures 42

How TO Get Her In The Mood To Send You Nudes 45

How 9/10 Girls Will Send You Nudes With This Message 48

A Tip On Ending Conversations First 51

How To Get Her To Come To Your Home Right Away 52

What To Do If She Stops Replying To Your Messages 55

Turn Her On With Cute+Kinky Combo 58

The Chase Charm 60

What To Do If You Want To Meet A Girl You Haven't Talked To Since A

Long Time 63

How To Make A Girl Feel Special And Compliment Her In A Way No Guy
Would Have Ever Done Before 64

How To Open Up A Shy Girl And Make Her Comfortable With You 66

Make Her Dream About You All Night 69

The Sensual Meme Technique 70

Prime Her For The First Kiss On The Date 72

How To Spice Up Boring Conversations 74

Blame The Autocorrect 76

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Conclusion 77

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Introduction
Look around yourself...

Look at every human being in the public...

Every person, including the women you are trying to date, is constantly

texting, reading messages, and engaging with their phone in some way.

Just a few years ago it would have been nearly impossible to irt with a

women unless you met her in person. But with the rise of social media and

dating apps like Instagram, Snapchat, Tinder, Bumble, etc, it's easier than

ever to get her attention and connect with her on an intimate level - even if

you're not a master at texting or don't speak English uently.

That is because, unlike in real life, you can take your time and carefully craft

your message to be as perfect and irresistible as possible.

Also, you don't have to look like Ranbir Kapoor or Shah Rukh Khan in order

to get a date with a beautiful girl. With the right techniques and approach,

you can easily charm women and get them to crave your attention and

a ection - even if you're a bit shy or awkward at dating.

That's the beauty of messaging...

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You can bypass all that and speak to the part of her that doesn't care about

surface-level stu ... her hormones and emotions.

Do the messaging right and by the time you meet her face to face, her

hormones will already be racing and she'll be ravenous for your attention.

She will literally be waiting for you to make your move, touch her, kiss her,

and take her to bed.

That's the magic of texting...

Send the right messages and that will literally change the way she thinks

about you and will make her see you as the man she wants to be with.

And that's where the Irresistible Texting approach comes in. Once you use

this approach, 90% of the "work" of seducing her will already be done for

you. So when you meet her for a date, she'll already be excited to see you

and will be itching to get closer.

Few Key Principles of

Irresistible Texting

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When you read this book and apply the principles, you will obviously be able

to text girls and get dates with ease. But there are a few key principles that

you must always remember when using the Irresistible Texting approach.

You want to understand what truly triggers attraction in women. It's not

looks, money, or status...it's something deeper and more primal. By tapping

into this desire and understanding how it works, you can create messages

that will immediately capture her attention and make her crave your

attention like nothing else ever could.

1 - Know when to stop

If you've just started talking to her, don't bombard her with messages. Let

the mystery build! Show your interest but not too much — less is more in

this case and will help keep things exciting. Find that delicate balance

between engaging conversation and occasional radio silence: it’s sure to

make them come back for more!

2 - Vary response times

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To make your game more exciting, keep her guessing! Keep it casual and

respond immediately sometimes but also take some time to reply. Don't let

the momentum of a conversation die out though - if you get engrossed in

talking, carry on without worrying too much about response times. Just

don’t wait longer than 24 hours when initiating contact afresh; interactions

are fresher that way!

3 - Do not double text

If she doesn't reply to you right away, don't stress. It's likely that she's just

testing how needy you are. The key is not to give her a reason to lose

interest. If she still hasn't responded after two or more days, shoot her

another text.

4 - Don't always respond

It may be tough to break the habit of always answering every text right away,

but trust me, it's worth it. This will also give her some time to miss you.

It is more impactful to leave her hanging when she asks you a question,

rather than during an lull in the conversation. This is because now she will

be expecting a response, rather than assuming that the conversation has

ended naturally. When you text back 1-2 days later, pick up where the

conversation left o as if nothing happened. Do not apologise for or explain

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5 - Avoid Boring questions

The key to an interesting conversation is, well, interesting topics. When

you're getting to know someone over text, avoid dry subjects like work or

news. Instead, focus on personal interests and stories. You may not be able

to totally avoid every dull topic, but that's okay as long as you don't make

them the main event of the discussion.

6 - Use emojis

Emojis are a great way to add more personality and color to your text

messages. While you don't want to overuse them, using a few here and there

can really help liven up the conversation. Just be sure that you're using them

for the right reason - adding an emoji because it's funny or clever is much

more e ective than simply throwing one in without any context.

7 - Mirror her levels of interest

When you're texting, it's important to watch her responses and limit your

conversations accordingly. If she seems disinterested or short with her

answers, move on to something else. On the other hand, if she is responding

positively and participating in the conversation, keep up the good work!

8 - Match her ratio

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In other words, don't text her nonstop if she doesn't respond. Try to keep a

1:1 ratio of texts. And, If she still hasn't replied after a couple of days, back o

and give her some space before trying again.

9 - Act cool if she says "no"

If you're outright rejected or she says she's busy, don't get mad at her! This

will only demonstrate that you want this more than she does, which will

make it less likely for her to see you again. If you're unsure what to say, "ok

cool x" is always a safe bet.

10 - Try a low commitment date irst

Getting a message from a girl is not a licence to have a date with her - so

don’t expect to get one easily, especially if you only met her brie y, or if she

seemed uncertain about giving you her number. Under these circumstances

choose a date that’s easy for her to commit to (like co ee) may be more likely

to get a positive response than asking for a full-on date that’s more time

consuming.

11 - Reward good behaviour and punish bad behaviour

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The goal is to get her used to responding the way you want, so that she is

compliant. Therefore, if she cooperates with your requests, then praise her

—but don’t go overboard—or express positive emotions. If she isn't

cooperating or is giving you trouble, then it's a good idea to tease her

playfully as punishment.

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The Five Most Irresistible

“First Messages” Ever
The irst texts you send to a girl are the most important, because they set the

tone for the rest of your conversation. If you start o with boring or generic

messages, she's going to lose interest fast. But if you send irty, engaging

messages that make her laugh and get her attention, she'll be more likely to

want to keep talking to you.

Chances are, you’ve got a handful of “matches” on several di erent dating

apps, or some of the girls you know from your contacts are patiently waiting

for you in your phone right now...

These opening texts work great for getting her attention and setting the

tone for playful, irty banter. They're short so that you can easily send them

from your phone, and they get to the point quickly - she'll be eager to

respond if she's even just a little bit interested in you!

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Good rules of thumb for a great irst message:

- Flirty, but not sexual

- Easy for her to respond without having to think too much

- Short and sweet (like a tweet, under 140 characters)

Here are 5 irresistible ways to start the conversation. Open your phone and

try them now:

"Hey JOURNALIST ANISHA, are you busy writing your next news article or
gossiping about the latest celebrity scandals? ;)"

Use what you know about her to assume what she’s up to when she receives

the text.

"And here was I thinking I was having a boring Sunday..."

Use this if you met her unexpectedly.

"Hey MUMBAIKAR Sneha, so how has your irst month been in BANDRA?
Hope you aren't frustrated with the TRAFFIC here lol (I know I am!)"

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Use this if you know she is new in the town, and tease her a little bit

"So from now on, every time I go to the GYM am I going to meet an interesting
girl, wearing a tight YOGA OUTFIT, and working on her GLUTES? ;)"

Use this if you noticed her at the gym - she'll de initely be intrigued to know

what you're up to!

"Hey Sapna, you seemed like a pretty interesting girl to meet in BOOK STORE.
Next time we speak should be over COFFEE, not your BOOK STORE, though ;)"

Use this if you met her at a bookstore - it's a subtle but irty way of

suggesting that you'd like to meet up in person.

"Hi Simran, always good meeting someone who’s into XXXX- you can’t have
everything in common with me though. Bet you don’t like XXX, XXXX, or
XXXXX"

Use this if you matched her or met her online and she has listed her

likes/dislikes in the bio. Give her a detailed list of likes/ dislikes and she’ll

have plenty to respond to.

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"Hey Sanvi, I like how we’ve upgraded from strangers to DMs: do you always
like to move fast? ;)"

Do a role reversal and make her feel that she’s the one pursuing you.

"Hey Divya, I don’t usually text girls irst but you looked like you had a lot to
say ... So what else don’t I know about you? :)"

Use this if she seems shy. It’s a irty way of suggesting that you want to get to

know her better, without being pushy. Use the winky emoji at the end to

balance out your forwardness.

"Hey! Here’s my number, keep it safe, don’t show it to your friends, or text it
100 times a day, and I think we could become good friends :P"

Use this if you know her from IG, Snapchat, etc. It’s a irty way of teasing

what she might be fearing, suggesting that you want to exchange phone

numbers and take things to the next level.

Note:

If you are matching with a girl on Tinder, and she has some interesting

things in the bio, use it to strike up a conversation. Here are some examples:

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A girl’s bio simply says “Please buy me food”

First message = “McDonald’s or KFC?” - she replied - “Dominoes, gotta keep it

cheesy.”

Here’s another one... this girl’s bio says “New to Delhi”

First message = “Hey, so what brought you to Delhi? Aside from your super

hot looks, of course!”

She replied with “lol” and then a long description of her job and why she

moved here... more than good enough to start the conversation.

One more example - a girl with a lengthy quote about what it means to be an

Gemini woman and a free spirit.

First message = “According to my horoscope, Gemini and Aquarius are

nothing but trouble together... but also a lot of fun. Think that’s true?”

She wrote back and started irting with me based on our “signs” (always a

fun conversation) and we ended up going on a date.

So remember - to start conversations with beautiful girls, use what you

know about them to ind common ground and start a irty, engaging

conversation
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And have fun with this! It’s dating, never take it too seriously.

Make it fun for you, and it will be fun for her ;-)

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Don't Be An Easy To Get Guy...

There is a psychological proven fact that, if something is easily available, it

isn’t seen as valuable or desirable anymore.

Same thing happens when you show yourself that you are not that easy to

get. It will make you a challenge, and girls love to chase after something that

is hard to have.

Women get turned on when they have to overcome obstacles in order to get

you.

And if you’re too easy and available, there are no obstacles to overcome,

and no reason to get turned on by you.

So give her some obstacles.

How? By reminding her, from time to time, that you are not that easy. You

are a challenge.

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Be careful though - you don’t want to come o as arrogant or defensive.

Instead, be playful and teasing, and let her know that you are not just

another guy who will be waiting with bated breath for her to text back.

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Virtual Rewards And

Punishments
This one is easy super fun.

If you want a girl chasing you harder, give her imaginary “points” for certain

positive behaviors, like replying to your texts in a timely manner, and taking

initiative.

And then playfully deduct points when she does something you don’t like,

like ignoring your texts for a long period of time or responding to you in a

cold and distant way.

For example, give her points for the following:

- Sending you a cute picture

- Sending a joke or meme that makes you laugh

- Flirting with you

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- Admitting she likes you

- Texting you irst (initiating the conversation)

Like when she sends you a cute pic, say this to her:

“Cute pic! You get 10 points for that.”

When she send you a funny joke or meme, saw this to her:

“You just made me laugh in the middle of work... +1 for you, Ms. Funny.”

When she responds positively to your irting, you can say this:

“You are getting good at this irting thing... +2 points.”

Then, playfully take them away if she ever does something that isn’t to your

liking.

Like if she is ignoring your text for a long period of time:

“Just checking in. Haven’t heard from you in a while. -2 points.”

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Or if she seems rude or arrogant in her replies:

“Minus 1 for being a little too full of yourself.”

At the end of the day, remember that you should be enjoying this game as

much as she is.

Keep it fun and lighthearted, and you’ll ind that girls will be chasing after

you in no time.

Do it PLAYFULLY. Keep it fun and lighthearted, nothing about this is ever

serious ;-)

At the end of the day, remember that you should be enjoying this game as

much as she is.

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Reversing The Innuendo

Girls love it when you tease them like this...

“If you’re trying to turn me on it’s totally working”

Make it all her fault instead of yours.

Assume that she’s trying to hit on you, turn you on and seduce you... and let

her assume that she's the one who is seducing like a naughty girl, while

you’re just the “innocent man being seduced by a horny girl.”

For example:

Girl - “This homework assignment is so hard! I’m tired of doing it...”

You - “Doing it? So hard? Tired? Wow. If you’re trying to turn me on, it’s almost

working.”

For example:

Girl: "What are you up to? I’m just relaxing up in bed in my pyjamas."

You: "Stop trying to make me think about you in bed, I’m onto you..."

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For example:

Girl - "You’re so funny!"

You - "Okay slow down, don’t think you can just seduce me with compliments
like that... ;-)"

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Giving The Permission To

Make Her Do Naughty Things
Now this is a fun one.

Girls love it when you give them the green light to do some playful, naughty

things - and then tease them for it afterwards.

It makes them feel as if you are in control, while they get to be the naughty

ones that they secretly want to be.

I always like to keep it simple by using these 3 words...  and for some reason it

drives women crazy and they never see it coming.

 “Are you trying to turn me on? Ok ine, I’ll allow it.”

 “Are you projecting your emotions onto me? Ok I guess I’ll allow it.”
 “Wait a minute, you don’t watch IPL? No. I do not allow this.”

Tell her that you’re “allowing” her to do things... even ridiculous things you

just made up.

The game is - “I’m in charge. I say what is and is not allowed.”

It’s dominant, kinky and playful.

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Become The Unforgettable Guy

In Her Phone
Admit it or not, she probably has at least 10 di erent guys with whom she's

chatting to on daily basis.. So it’s very important to ind ways to make

yourself stand out in her phone.

And what better way to do that than by giving her nicknames?

It’s a little something extra that will make her think of you whenever she sees

your name pop up in her text messages.

Not only will it make you stand out, but it will also help cement your place in

her memory.

So how do you go about giving someone a nickname?

Well, it can be as simple as calling her something cute like "cutie pie" or

"sugar lips."

But if you really want to make an impression, try coming up with something

more unique and memorable.

Something that is completely di erent from anything she’s ever heard

before.

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Like, “Sunshine", “Smarty Pants", or "Lolipop."

The point is to get creative and ind a playful, a ectionate nickname that its

her personality perfectly.

And make sure to get her call you something cute as well, so that you always

stand out in her mind!

One little tip that you can use is, when you meet her in person and  exchange

phone numbers, save your name as "Aadesh Best Boyfriend" or "Sagar Hot

Friend" or something quirky and memorable like that.

This is an easy shortcut to make sure she remembers you over everyone

else.

And every time you text her, that nickname is gonna pop up and constantly

reinforce how di erent and fun you are.

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Make Her Beg To Come Out

Of The Friend-Zone
Literally, with this strategy we'll make her beg you to take things to the next

level and come out of the friend zone.

Put her in your “Friend Zone” and watch her beg to get out.

For example, you can say something like this:

“I can’t believe you just said that... totally friend-zoning you.”

“I can already tell we’re gonna be best friends... just promise you won’t fall in
love with me, deal?”

“That’s it... you’re in the friend zone with me now, Ms. Agarwal. No sex for
you.”

Girls might not admit this, but they secretly LOVE it when you have the

upper hand like this...

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The “Bad Influence” Text

This is a great way to irt with a girl by bringing out her “bad” side. It’s easy

and fun - just accuse her of being a bad in uence on you.

It works best when you exaggerate the hell out of it, so she knows you’re

kidding... and she gets the idea that the truth is, you’re the bad in uence on

HER (a very good thing for most girls).

Some examples to say:

“You’re such a bad in uence... stop trying to corrupt me, you evil naughty
woman.”

“Stop trying to make me think about kissing you, you’re such a bad in uence.”

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Tell Her, Don't Ask Her

When it comes to texting and dating, most guys are making a huge mistake

that makes girls think they are total losers...

For example, most guys "ask" girls for a date...

“When are you free to meet? What do you like to do for fun? Where do you
want to go for our date?”

Instead, establish your command and take charge by saying this:

“Tell me when you’re free. I’m going to take you to the best place ever, you’ll
love it. Meet me there at 7.”

If you want to be successful with girls, you need to start thinking and acting

like an alpha guy.

An alpha guy is someone who is in control of his life and his relationships.

He is the one who makes the decisions, not someone who simply follows

what others tell him to do.

Here are a few more examples...

Don’t say - “do you want to go out with me sometime?”

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Say - “let's meet, I have a fun idea.”

Don’t say - “Are you free on Saturday?”

Say - “We should totally meet over co ee the next time we’re both free, let me

know what your week is looking like.”

Make sense?

Don’t ask her. Tell her. Trust me, it’s what she wants.

Women love alpha guys because they know that they can rely on them.

This is exactly the type of man that women are drawn to. They want a man

who is con ident and in control, and who can handle anything that comes his

way.

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How To Compliment Women

The Right Way
“Hey cutie.”

“You’re so beautiful.”

“You look amazing.”

Women HATE it when guys text them these things.

You may think that calling a women "beautiful" is charming, but it actually

comes o as cheesy and insecure. The same goes for any other platitude -

she’s heard it all before from 100 men, and it just makes you seem like a

desperate guy who doesn’t know any better.

So, what should you do instead?

The ONLY way you should ever compliment a woman over text is on

something other than her physical appearance...

For example, you could compliment her on how smart, funny or interesting

she is. Or something she did that impressed you.

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These compliments show that you actually pay attention to her, instead of

just crushing on her looks. And girls are always attered when a guy notices

and appreciates their qualities beyond just their looks.

Even if she’s the hottest girl you’ve ever seen... don't compliment her on how

hot she is. It’s a boring, played-out thing to say, and you’ll just come o as a

typical, lame guy who just wants to get in her pants.

So go beyond her looks and show her that you actually see the real her. She’ll

thank you for it, I promise.

She will wonder why you're not like other guys, and she'll be attered by

your genuine interest in getting to know her.

For instance, instead of “I think you’re hot”... 

say “I’m kinda curious about you.”

More examples:

“I have a good feeling about you.”

“I have a sneaking suspicion you might be a fun date”

“I’m getting a really interesting vibe from you.”

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“I love how you said XYZ in your pro ile, that’s so refreshingly honest of you.”

“I love how you speak your mind and don’t ilter yourself, that’s impressive.”

See the di erence? See how a girl would feel if you said this to her? She'd be

attered, but also insanely curious and eager to talk to you more.

This will make her to chase you harder and make her more interested in you.

One more thing to keep in mind is that, never compliment a girl for no

reason... if you do that, then you’re obviously doing it for the “obvious” reason

every guy compliments her (you wanna fuck her).

Hot girls know they’re hot, and they know guys wanna fuck them...

Girls enjoy the attention, but they also know it’s meaningless...

Because what she really wants to feel is SPECIAL and UNIQUE... like you see

something in her that no one else sees.

So, make sure there’s actually a reason to compliment her. Don't do it just

because she looks hot or beautiful.

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The "Bollywood Crush" Trick

Every girl has at least one actor that she has a major crush on.

Imagine a hot, super popular actor... like Hritik Roshan, or Salman Khan, or

Ranbir Kapoor.

Do you think that a girl would ever say NO to anything these bollywood stars

asked her?

Of course not.

She will be more than willing to do anything that they say, without question,

because she is lucky to be even talking to him.

So, how can you use that to your advantage?

The "Bollywood Crush" trick is simple:

You want her to feel like she is so unbelievably lucky to be talking to you, and

she better not blow her chance or she will never get it again.

How?

Use these in three di erent ways...

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1 - Hint that lots of girls text you all the time.

Don't say it directly, or you'll sound like an arrogant jerk.

You have to be subtle about it.

For example, whenever I get a match on Tinder, I ask the girl how is Tinder

dating going for them.

Why? Because I know that every single girl online gets lots of messages and

most of them are creepy.

But also, because it gives me a chance to mention that I’m getting a lot of

messages too:

“Yeah, I’ve been getting a lot of messages too, but I’m only responding to a
few.”

Did you see how I subtly hinted that lots of girls are texting me?

Girls will get the idea, and they will also think that they're someone special

coz you CHOSE to talk to her.

Here's another way to use the "Bollywood Crush" trick...

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2 - Your time and availability is limited

Make sure she knows that you are not available anytime she feels like seeing

you - your time is in high demand.

Finally...

3 - Make her come to you for the date.

Invite her to a place near you, that you know well. Tell her when to be there.

Send her the address, or even a screenshot of the place on google maps. Tell

her it’s amazing and she’ll love it.

The point is, get her following your lead, and make her come to you.

Get her doing all the things she would do for a male Celebrity...

Make her feel lucky that you chose her out of hundreds of girls...

Make her work around your schedule...

Make her come to you for the date...

... and she’ll feel THRILLED to even be talking to you.

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How To Make Sure She Wants To Hook Up

With You... Even Before Going For The
Date...
What if I told you there was a way to make sure the girl you’re interested in

actually wants to hook up with you before going for the date?

It's not only possible, but it's simple and a super easy text message...

Just plant the idea in her mind of what's going to happen on your date.

How? Send her this:

“Fair warning... I may attempt to sneak a kiss or two.”

If you’ve already been texting, irting, and she’s agreed to the date, then she
obviously likes you.

So now it’s time to start teasing her and building anticipation.

And what’s the one thing people always anticipate about a irst date? The irst

kiss!

When you text her this, you’re letting her know that you’re a con ident guy

who’s not afraid to make a move, which is sexy.

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And you’re even sexy enough to tease her about it beforehand.

Important - don’t get any more sexual than “sneak a kiss” - otherwise you

may sound too forward and creep her out.

You’re not even saying you de initely WILL kiss her. You’re saying you “may

attempt” to “sneak” a kiss. It’s very boyish and charming... like the kind of

thing lovesick teenagers do at the county fair.

It's sexual but innocent -  the best of both worlds.

So how does this almost always lead to sex on the irst date?

Because now you’ve planted a seed that’s going to grow in her mind. She’s

going to be anticipating the moment you irst kiss her...

She’ll be thrilled that you’re con ident enough to say this to her (women

LOVE to be teased like this).

You don’t have to say anything else, and the sexual tension will build up more

and more, until it becomes about SO much more than just a kiss.

She’ll invest so much time thinking about it and anticipating it, she won’t be

satis ied with just one kiss. She’s gonna need another kiss... then she’s gonna

need to drag you o to a dark corner to make out with you...

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And that’s still not gonna be enough... she's gonna need to book an OYO to

cool o her burning desire for you.

But still... you’re not gonna give in and let her have what she wants right away.

You’re gonna make her wait for it... until she’s literally begging ;-)

This is how you can make sure that she wants to sleep with you even before

you go on a date...

Have fun with this. It’s a powerful and seductive game.

Learn the art of the tease. Tempt her mind while making her body wait.

It all starts with just this one tiny little text...

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How To Approach A Girl Who Has

"Not Here For Hook" Up In Her Bio
You will ind a lot of girls who have this in their dating pro ile: "I'm not here

for hook up" or something along these lines.

And that is understandable... they write this because for a few reasons...

. Many creepy guys annoy them with unsolicited messages and requests

for sex. So she's really saying, "do not bother messaging me if you are

one of those creepy guys..."

. She doesn't want to be viewed as "slutty" or "easy", that's why she writes

"not here for hook ups".

But the funny thing is, Tinder was built exactly for that - to help guys and girls

meet up for dates, casual fun, and no strings attached hookups.

Why do you think such girls post half-naked sel ies on Tinder? Because they

want you to message them and ask them out on a date!

From my experience, let me tell you this...

I have slept with many girls who had that in their bio, and such girls are

actually the easiest to get into bed.

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Remember, she's still a girl, she likes sex as much as anyone else. She’s just

not gonna say it out loud, and especially not in her freakin bio!

She's just rejecting the creepy guys, and not you who's reading this, because

you're di erent from them. You see her for who she really is - a sexy and

desirable woman who just wants to have some fun with men like you!

The strategy to get such girls is simple - avoid saying things that sound like

you want to hook up with her, period. Instead, use the techniques in the other

chapters of this book to get her chasing YOU, instead of you chasing HER.

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How To Get Her To Send

You Her Pictures
Girls love taking sel ies, and I love getting them.

Plus, if I haven’t met the girl in person yet, I would like to know that she’s real,

her pictures online are current and she hasn’t gotten fat or anything like that.

And I’m happy to send her a current photo of myself too, it’s only fair.

But there’s an even better reason to get her sending you sel ies as soon as

possible:

It’s one of the best ways to get her CHASING you over text...

Think about it - when you ask her to send you a cute pic, she has to go into
her photo album and choose a picture that she thinks will impress you.

Or, she has to take a sel ie right then and there, and make sure the angle and

the lighting is just right, etc...

She has to “jump through your hoops” and work for your approval.

This is a good thing.

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But the trick is, do NOT ask for a “sexy” picture right away. It’s too much, too

soon, and she’ll feel awkward and say no. That’s what creepy guys do...

You need to build up to the sexy stu . Here’s how:

Start by asking for a “cute” picture, and give her an innocent reason why you

need it.

** Psychologists have proven over and over again that adding a “why” to a
request makes people twice as likely to say “yes” **

So you would start by texting her something like...

“Hey, send me a cute picture so I can use it for your contact photo in my
phone.”

It’s an innocent, easy request, and she will say yes (go ahead and send her a

pic of you as well, it’s only fair). Also, you’re not being sexual or coming onto

her, which is what most creepy, clueless guys do.

Once she does send, make sure to reward her like we discussed previously in

the book. Don't ignore her, don't ask for more pics right away... instead, tell

her something like...

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"Damn, could you be any cuter? Man now I can’t even focus on work, thanks a
lot ;-)”

It’s really important that you make her glad she sent you a pic.

Make her feel desired... appreciated... teased... maybe even a little hot and

bothered...

Because now, she’s gonna want to send you MORE pics later on...

You see where we’re going with this, right?

Turn the page and we’ll keep heating things up....

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How TO Get Her In The Mood To

Send You Nudes
Once you know this technique, you will feel like using this on every single

girl you text. It’s that powerful and e ective!

This technique is called -  The Reward Loop

First, you asked for something small - a cute pic for her contact photo. Then

you rewarded her for complying - you told her she looked super cute.

From then on, you keep asking for more - a little bit at a time...

Now, she’s gonna love sending you pics, and she’ll want to do it more and

more...

Especially later on in the evening, or when she’s bored at work... and she’s

getting kinda horny thinking about you...  sending you some hot pics is a

perfect way to release that tension!

You always want to keep her chasing you - that’s when everything happens

nice and smooth.

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All you have to do is keep teasing her, irting with her, and rewarding her for

chasing you (all while you’re moving things towards a date or a hook-up, of

course).

So learn the Reward Loop, and start getting more nudes from her today -

you’ll be glad you did. :)

You: "I wouldn't be mad if you sent me a pic of you right meow"

She: "Right meow?"

(I hope you know what 'meow' refers to)

No matter what, ALWAYS make sure you compliment her and make her feel

sexy and appreciated for sending you a pic:

"Omg..."

"Babyyy..."

"Damn...."

She is sending you pictured because she wants a reaction from you. It turns

her on to know that she is turning you on. She wants to feel DESIRABLE.

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Do this right, and by the time she meets up with you... she’s already decided

that she wants to sleep with you.

So you don’t have to do much, or “try” very hard to get her into bed... just show

up and be your charming self.

Pretty cool, right? Instead of stressing out over a date, or worrying about

rejection... just send her the right texts and 90% of the work is already done-

for-you.

Yep, hooking up with hot girls just got a whole lot easier for you, and a LOT

more fun. Especially when you know this next text that almost always gets

nudes in response...

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How 9/10 Girls Will Send You

Nudes With This Message
Here's the deal...

A girl isn’t just gonna send you nudes for no reason. You gotta get her turned

on irst. So before you use the text I’m about to teach you, read the chapters

before this one.

But once she’s in the mood (to send you nudes) this works almost every time.

This is called the “False Choice” text because you’re giving her a choice

between 2 di erent things, and both of them are sexy and fun.

Plus, it doesn’t matter because every girl responds the exact same way... not

with “choice 1” or “choice 2”...

They all say “both” - just look at the examples below, then try it yourself and

you’ll see.

Here’s the “False Choice” text, for when things are heating up:

“Right now, I want you to either - send me a really sexy pic - or tell me a
secret”

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That’s the choice - a pic or a secret.

Here's an example:

You: "I have a challenge for you"

She: "Go for it"

You: "Right now, either... send me a sexy pic. Or... tell me a secret"

She: "How about both"

She: (sends me a picture of her deep cleavage)

She: "Just so you know, I'm wearing my sexiest lingerie right now"

You: "mmm... could you be any sexier?"

You: "Good job! :*"

The reason we are doing this on messaging is because it’s also making her

more and more comfortable with the idea of sleeping with you.

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Sending you sexy pics is the kind of thing she’d be doing with a guy she was

already sleeping with - so even if you haven’t met yet, she’s still gonna be

comfortable sleeping with you really quickly, because...

She’s already been fucking you for hours inside her imagination.

Wouldn’t that be a power you’d love to have? I thought so.

She isn’t just sending you any old pic... she is going into her phone and

choosing a pic that she really wants you to like... she’s trying as hard as

possible to impress you and turn you on.

Just imagine how hard she’ll try once she’s actually there, getting naked in

front of you for real. See how that works?

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A Tip On Ending Conversations First

One of the biggest way to make a women go crazy about you is making them

feel that your time and attention is scarce and limited.

Meaning...

When she knows that your time and availability is limited, she will work hard

for getting that limited attention.

But when you give your time away too freely, she’ll take it for granted.

How do you apply this over text messages?

Simple - always be the one to end every text conversation FIRST.

Just say something like:

"Dinner is ready and my dad is waiting for me. Talk again soon"

"Got to go, try not to miss me too much"

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How To Get Her To Come To Your Home

Right Away
This tip works if you know you're going to be home alone or you have some

private space you can use.

This does not always work with every type of girl, but it's worth giving a try.

And even if it doesn't work, we do it in a playful way so there are no hard

feelings.

First, you want to plant the idea in her mind and get HER to suggest coming

over... without risking a rejection or looking creepy by saying “come to my

home” right away.

When you’re just getting to know a girl, the last thing you want is a at out

“no” - it derails all the momentum you’ve got built up and it’s never good for

either one of you.

Instead, you want to suggest that she comes over... in a way that makes it not

your idea.

To do this, simply phrase it in the “negative” - as in, something you *would*

do, but you’re not gonna do. For example:

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“If I knew you better I would invite you over for a drink.”

“I would totally have you over to watch movies right now, if I didn’t just meet
you.”

“It’s too bad I don’t know you better or I’d just have you over for dinner
tonight.”

“I would totally invite you over for popcorn and Net ix... but we still haven’t
made sure you’re not a crazy serial killer.”

You get the idea - you totally *would* do it, but you’re not gonna do it. Then,

you wanna see how she takes it.

Some girls will say “well you should get to know me better and we’ll see.”

And some girls will say “it’s okay, I’d love to come over.”

Then, when (and if) she suggests coming over - or you sense that SHE wants

to suggest it... then use the following text:

"I'll be waiting for you :D Come over ASAP"

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The key? You have to make sure she's chasing you irst.

Plant the idea in her mind and let HER be the one to suggest that it’s okay.

One little tip if you want to increase your chances of using this strategy:

Invite her into a group setting rather than a private meet.

The reason? Meeting you alone could be dangerous for her, coz she doesn't

know you yet. But if she knows it's a group setting, she won't be nearly as

nervous.

And it doesn't even have to be a big group - it could be a small party or even

hanging out with a roommate. Tell her to join you and let her know that she

can bring a friend if she wants.

It's no longer an unsafe meeting with a stranger, and this will take some of

the *pressure* o .

If things do go well, the bedroom won't be far away and you both could easily

end up naked.

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What To Do If She Stops

Replying To Your Messages
Ever had a girl suddenly stop replying to your messages?

Everything was going good, she was showing genuine interest in you, and

then suddenly - she stops replying.

It can be super frustrating, especially if you’re trying to set up a date or make

something happen with her.

So how do you get around this? How do you keep things moving forward

even when she stops replying?

Simple, you want to use the "curiousity gap" technique.

Here's how it works:

Send her something that triggers an extreme curiosity to reply back to you...

and then follow it up immediately with a plan to meet in person.

For example...

"Text me when you see this, I have something crazy to show you"

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Send this message, and when she replies with "what's going on?" or

something similar... you simply describe something exciting and tell her to

meet you in person, like this:

"Come over ASAP and I'll show you ;) "

Here's something even more powerful that you can use to create that

"curiosity gap"...

“OMG I just realized something about you...”

Or:

“Know what I like about you...?”

And here’s my favorite:

“I’m so mad at you...”

Can you start to see how these texts trigger an emotion and practically force

her to reply to you?

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She’s gonna have to ind out WHAT you realized about her, or WHY you’re

mad at her... there’s an urgency to those texts that cannot be ignored.

You’re making her CURIOUS, you’re teasing her EGO, and maybe even

making her a little bit nervous...

But that’s okay, because once she replies, you are going to PAY IT OFF with

something playful and fun that makes her feel great and guides the

conversation forward really fast.

Literally no girl can resist the Curiosity Bomb... I guarantee she will text you

back, her mind simply can't handle it.

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Turn Her On With

Cute+Kinky Combo
This is a great way to turn a girl on over text, without being overtly sexual and

cringey.

Most guys make the mistake of being too sexual, too fast. It’s creepy as fuck

and girls hate it.

But when you add just s tiny bit of innocence to your kinky, seductive text

messages - it will instantly turn her on and make her crave intimacy with you

- without making her uncomfortable or coming on too strong, too fast.

Here’s the thing - women don’t get turned on like men do.

In order for her to get turned on, she can’t just feel sexual, she also has to feel

SAFE and COMFORTABLE.

That’s where the Cute+Kinky combo comes into play. You combine

something sexual with something innocent.

The sexuality makes her heart start uttering... and the innocence makes it

safe and not creepy.

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So when you’re thinking of what to text her, combine something like kissing,

spanking or getting it on... with something childish, cute or sweet.

Here are some examples:

“You’re trouble. Don’t make me spank you... and then make you pancakes."

“Ok, I’ll let you come over tonight... we’ll make a pillow fort and  stay up late
watching movies. Just don’t tell your parents, ok? ;)”

See how we strike a perfect balance of kinkyness and innocence?

That's how you wanna start o your texts to girls - with an enticing

invitation that hints at a playful, sexy encounter. The key here is to be

irtatious, while still keeping it cute and sweet.

When done right, these texts will spike her arousal level without creeping

her out. Try them out and see for yourself!

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The Chase Charm

This entire book is designed to make girls chase you over text.

This is the entire philosophy - making the GIRL CHASE YOU instead of you

chasing the girl.

When I say “chase you” I mean doing something to show interest in you... like

pursue you for a date... send you a picture... try to impress you... try to make

you laugh... try to turn you on... etc.

Anything like that = her chasing you.

You can literally TELL her to do those things, and she’ll do it.

How can you be so sure? Because you’re not just gonna tell her what to do...

You’re also gonna give her a reason WHY she needs to do it.

Psychologists have shown it’s impossible to resist a command that’s also

paired with a strong emotional reason.

That way, not only can she not resist your request - but she’ll actually WANT

TO DO IT!

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Isn't that crazy?

So that’s how you’re gonna get a girl chasing you over text.

Tell her to chase you and give her a reason why.

Here's a “Chase Charm” example:

When you're talking on Instagram, say this to her:

"Text me, +91 xxxx-xxx-xxx - I am available there"

The demand = Text me (here's my number)

The reason = I ama available there (not much active on IG)

More examples:

“Send me a cute pic so I can use it for your contact photo.”

“Text me your favorite food so I can pick the perfect place for our epic irst
date”

“Send me a cheesy joke to make my day a little better”

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“Tell me something awesome about yourself so I can totally fall in love with
you.”

“Send me a cool photo so I can show my mom her future daughter-in-law.”

“Text me something naughty later so I can get all hot and bothered thinking
about you.”

See how easy it is to get girls chasing you over text?

Make it easy, make it innocent, and make it fun... and watch the magic

happen. ;)

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What To Do If You Want To Meet A Girl

You Haven't Talked To Since A Long Time
If you're trying to set up a date with a girl you brie y spoke a long time back,

here's how you can revive the conversation and make it happen.

“Hey, just scrolling through my phone, I can’t believe we never met up! Text
me when you get this, I have a fun idea...”

This text does a few things at once:

 You are not blaming her for not following up. You are subtly reminding
her of the past conversation (it's a classy move).
 You’re tempting her to reply by using curiosity - “I have a fun idea”...
 You’re not being desperate or needy because you’re giving her a reason
why you’re texting her - you haven’t been thinking about her for days,
you were just spontaneously scrolling through your phone and you
remembered her

Try this next time you want to meet up with someone after a long time. It’s

e ective and classy. Doesn't work on all the girls but your chances are good.

:)

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How To Make A Girl Feel Special And

Compliment Her In A Way No Guy Would
Have Ever Done Before
Girls love it when guys take the time to make them feel special and valued. If

you appreciate a girl for her uniqueness and feminine qualities, she'll go out

of her way to make you feel special as well.

This is very simple to do - just tell her you like something about her
personality and say that it’s a big turn-on for you.

Sometimes it's a good idea to make the conversation about her... She will feel

special, like she’s winning you over just on the basis of who she is as a

person - and not just her looks and hotness.

Here are some examples:

“Something tells me you would be a great mother someday.”

“I like how you speak your mind and don’t ilter yourself, that’s a huge turn on
for me.”

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“You seem like such a caring and kind person... it’s so refreshing to be around
you.”

“You have this really feminine, sensual side that I think is so attractive, I
really appreciate that about you.

“I love how you smile when you’re around your friends, I can see why they all
look up to you.”

“So I’ve noticed something about you... you’re really open and not afraid to be
yourself. I think that’s so sexy.”

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How To Open Up A Shy Girl And Make Her

Comfortable With You
Not all girls you meet online or o ine would be ready to sleep with you

right away, or even meet you for a date immediately.

Some girls just need to open up their heart to someone and share every last

one of their feelings... they want to feel listened to, and understood...

Not every girl needs this, but the really sensitive, shy, nerdy, submissive

girls will de initely get turned on when you do this...

You will become the only guy in the world who truly “gets” her.

Here’s what you do...

Start by telling her how open and emotional she is, and how much you like

that about her (traits you want her to display).

“Can I tell you something honest? I really like how sensitive you are... it’s like
you feel things on a deeper level than most people... that’s so attractive.”

“There’s something about you that makes me feel really comfortable... like I
could tell you anything... would you say that’s true?”

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Then, you want to encourage her to open up and tell you how she feels...

about herself... about men... about you... about everything.

Say things like...

“What really turns you on about a guy?”

“What happened with your last relationship? How did it end?”

“What scares you the most?”

“Do you like being alone, or around people?”

“Have you ever been in love?”

“How do you feel about relationships? Getting married? Having kids?”

If she gets nervous, remind her that she totally doesn’t have to talk about

anything if she doesn’t want to, you’re just really curious about her:

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“Feel free to say no, that’s totally ine... I’m just so curious about you.”

Ask her all the personal, emotional things you want, and really pay attention

and listen to how she replies. From there, just be patient and let her share

her heart with you.

The best part is, because it’s over text, she’ll feel much safer and less

awkward, when she might feel self-conscious and judged if she were sitting

in front of you....

Plus, she’ll have time to think about her responses and not feel rushed or

pressured.

Use this with sensitive girls you genuinely care about. It takes time, but it’s

totally worth it and you’ll learn a ton about women and about yourself.

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Make Her Dream About

You All Night
This one is short and sweet, and you're probably going to use it with every

girl you chat to late night ;-)

Thext her this before you say good night:

“You’re allowed to dream about me, just try to keep it PG-13 okay?”

This little text will set the tone for her to start thinking about you, and this is a

subtle way of asking her to think R-rated thoughts about you.

Do this and she will start chasing you and get excited for your next

conversation.

And best of all, it works on every single girl that you chat with late night - this

is one hack that’s so easy, but insanely e ective.

So use it tonight, and start making her dream about you all night long. ;)

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The Sensual Meme Technique

Send her funny shit that’s all about you and her together... or something

kinky or sexy that you know she might like because she mentioned it to you

before...

Or, send her a funny meme and add “I saw this and it made me think of you, I

knew you’d appreciate it”

Make it personalized somehow.

Here are a some of images/memes you can send to trigger her erotic

imagination:

https://imageproxy.ifunny.co/crop:x-

20,resize:640x,quality:90x75/images/bb953e91a55f5a9d11811a5513d7021e3797d6d9371594b798

24c019912fe644_1.jpg

https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&url=https%3A%2F%2Finspirationfeed.com%2F irty-

memes%2F&psig=AOvVaw3lp-

-5Ovt4h719V5l4mc0c&ust=1670145552063000&source=images&cd=vfe&ved=0CA0 jRxqFwoT

CLimzpiP3fsCFQAAAAAdAAAAABAD

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Send any from the above or Google "Flirty Memes" and say this along with

the memes:

"Ps... Saw something naughty and thought of you"

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Prime Her For The First

Kiss On The Date
Send this one playful message and she will start daydreaming about kissing

you... even if you haven’t kissed before. It’s crazy no other guy even knows

about this:

“I can already tell our irst kiss is going to be amazing.”

More examples:

When she has to go study - “Just try not to imagine kissing me in the library

behind the bookshelves...”

When she’s coming to meet you at a co ee shop - “Come ind me and you

might just get the best kiss ever... or maybe just a co ee lol”

When she’s meeting you for a second date - “Just so you know, you’re getting

the best kiss ever when you see me.”

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When she’s at work in the middle of the day - “Hey! Stop daydreaming about

kissing me and get back to work, silly.”

The best time to send her a text like this is after she’s already shown interest

in you... don’t lead o with something like this or you’ll sound creepy.

But once she’s interested, irting with you, etc... this is how you take it to the

next level.

You’re probably gonna feel a little nervous to send this to her, but trust me,

you gotta be willing to put your intentions out there like this.

Girls LOVE a guy who is shameless... who tells her exactly what he’s gonna do,

and then does it, with no apology.

And even if she doesn’t love it, you shouldn’t let it get you down too much.

Don’t regret being shameless and putting yourself out there like this.

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How To Spice Up Boring Conversations

Often times the conversation never goes beyond...

“Where are you from?”

“What do you do?”

“How about this weather?”

These texts are boring and they never lead to anywhere. And every girl is

used to having such conversations with 100s of guys.

Rule - never waste a text on something boring. Instead, use it to build

attraction and create sexual tension.

For example, when she texts something boring - and you know she will,

because everyone is trained to say this stu - don’t just answer it right away.

First, give her an unexpected and irtatious answer:

Girl: "What are you doing?"

You - “You mean aside from daydreaming about you? Not much, just

chilling.”

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Girl: "How is your day going?"

You: "Well, just came back from the gym... plus I’m texting this cute nerdy girl

right now so I’d say my day’s going perfect so far, you?”

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Blame The Autocorrect

You can insert funny blooper typing mistakes and can have a laugh and be

playful about it.

“Let me know when you’re free, I’m sure we’ll inger it out...
"FIGURE it out... damn this autocorrect lol..."

Here's one more:

"Sure, just give me one sex"

"SEC. Meant to say SECOND lol. Can't wait to see you ;)"

If she laughs and irts with you, now you know it’s cool to be a little more

sexual in your texts with her, she’s not gonna be freaked out.

Girls love it when you're playful and can laugh at yourself - so don't be afraid

to blame autocorrect or have a little fun with whatever text blunders happen

along the way. Just make sure your tone of voice is light, irty, and easy-

going - and not overly serious or self-deprecating. In the end, it's all about

having fun together and keeping things exciting!

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Conclusion
I hope this book has helped you learn how to con idently and successfully

text beautiful girls, without getting stuck in the friend-zone or left on read.

Whether you're struggling with boring conversations or simply want to

learn how to irt and create sexual tension through your texts, the tips and

strategies in this book can help you turn things around and get better results

with the girls you're texting. So don't wait - start applying these techniques

today, and enjoy more success with the girls you've always dreamed about :)

Cheers,

Aadesh.

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