The Art of Seduction
The Art of Seduction
Don't skimp on talking, it's the most important thing for any seducer. Above all, and
At first, don't talk about deep or difficult things, unless you check that
the other person is a hopeless intellectual. Don't talk about yourself, or do it very
moderation and sense of humor.
3.- Self-confidence
Maintain an air of confidence and self-sufficiency, as if you control the world.
With all the great liars, a noteworthy fact occurs to which they owe their power. At the act
concrete of deception are seen possessed by a faith in themselves: this is what draws attention in a way
so miraculous and so powerful to the people around them."F. Nietzsche.
5.- Self-control
VERY IMPORTANT! Keep a cool head (even when everything else gets heated).
The situation we find ourselves in when joy and pleasure have not yet developed in our spirit,
anger or sadness is referred to as "center". As soon as such passions begin to develop without exceeding
certain limit, we find ourselves in a state called "harmonic" or "balanced". The straight path of the universe
It is the center, harmony is its universal and constant law.The Four Classic Books (Confucius)
8.- Suspense
At first, show some indifference, but make yourself noticed (nobody loves what
ignore).
"Become indispensable. More is gained from dependency than from courtesy; the satisfied"
turn your back to the source immediately. The first lesson of experience must be
entertain her, but not satisfy her; this is how the dependency that others have is maintained;
including that of the King.The Art of Prudence
Do not always act the same way. This confuses others, especially if they are competitors. One should not act
always at first intention, for they will capture the routine and anticipate and frustrate the actions. Neither
One must always act with ulterior motives, for they will understand the trick when it is repeated.The Art of the
Prudence (Baltasar Gracián)
11.- To be unpredictable
Confusing the opponents means acting in such a way that it prevents them from keeping a calm mind.
Attempt various maneuvers according to the moment's opportunity, making the opponent think that now you are going to
do this, then that, and next something different, until you see that he starts to get puzzled,
and thus win at will.The Book of Five Rings (Miyamoto Musashi)
12.- Mystery
Use a certain mystery (but don't act mysterious). We are all attracted to it.
mystery, it's good to use it.
Absence diminishes small passions and inflames great ones, just as the wind extinguishes a candle and
stoke a fire. M. de la Rochefoucauld.
14.- Patience
Be patient, learn to wait and gather the harvest in its time. Rush.
It can lead us to failure. We must follow the rhythms and timings of love.
15.- Don't put all your eggs in one basket
Work on at least two or three connections at the same time, just in case one fails you. This is not
very ethical, but it is very practical, what can we do.
16.- Certificate
Do not underestimate any opportunity, remember that all conquests are hours of flight
that go into your resume. With a good reputation as a seducer, the conquests are
easier.
One must come up with ways, above all, so that each of our actions provides us with fame.
of great men and excellent wit.The Prince (Machiavelli)
17.- Be realistic
Better a conquest in hand than a hundred projects... Maybe it is unattainable for us.
a person of our dreams, but another good-looking person is indeed possible.
to seduce her.
Apply the statistics: out of every hundred attempts, at least ten have to be a
Success. Over time, the results will improve.
20.- Boldness
Be bold: if you thought of it, do it. Don't ask her, 'Can I kiss you?' Just kiss her! Better!
to regret having tried than to have never dared!
I think it is better to be impetuous than cautious, because fortune is a woman, and if one wishes to dominate her, one can.
to see that one is more easily conquered by the bold than by those who act coldly.The Prince (Machiavelli)
Regarding women, I have to tell you that there is none of us who would not prefer a little bit of.
.
rough treatment to excessive consideration Ninon de Lenclos, courtesan.
22.- Withdrawal
When nothing works for you, learn to lose and to withdraw in time, replacing this
contact with any new project.
If you can win the battle, fight; if not, retreat.Mao Tse Tung (strategy and tactics)
23.- Find the weak point
Every person has a weakness, find it and exploit it. Most of them
they only seek recognition and affection as people. Exactly like you and
like me, dear reader.
Finding the weak point of each one: this is the art of moving wills. It is more of a skill than
determination. It is knowing how to approach each one. First, one must know the character, then
hit the weak point, insist on it, for it will infallibly be left without will.The Art of Prudence
(Baltasar Gracián)
If you are a married seducer, don't resort to the old trick of saying that you don't get along with her.
woman. The seducer declares that he is a complete success and his marriage is perfect, but that
She has something that none others have. It also works with married seductresses.
26.- Surprise
Ten unexpected details but don't overwhelm her with gifts.
27.- Be humble
IMPORTANT: Don't boast about being a conqueror. In time, you will understand why.
What about this statement?
28. Romanticism
It seems to be moderately romantic, but never stupidly romantic.
A reasonably in-love man can act like a madman, but he shouldn't nor can he act like a
idiot. "M. de la Rochefoucauld.
29.- Jealousy
Remember that practice makes the master and that the secret of love is the mystery.
How to seduce
First of all, I assume you already know that what women say has nothing
what to see with what they really want. They always speak in code, but you already
can you decipher it...
The woman really does not want a man who is like her, what she wants is a
someone who makes them feel like a woman, someone who makes them feel special.
Someone with mystery, or with allure, or attractive, in such a way that being with them is
different, fun, etc...
Of course, if you have millions, you are successful or you are very handsome, do not hesitate for a moment.
moment in ' amortizing it' and squeezing it to the max without being tacky. But it
What you must never do is become what others want.
Secondly, I assume you have already checked many times that she
now in very few cases will it call, no matter how much they wish. They are terrified of
seem too interested, and in case they call you for any
Circumstance, know that she is very interested in you.
What they believe is that men take seduction lightly and take it
the topic is lighter for them, since men are not governed by this topic in life.
of love, and yes, they do, no matter how much they deny it. They are thinking about it all day long.
what they are going to wear, what they are going to say, and all that.
Women desire more than anything in the world to be in love, and what they want most
they want to be seduced. They always look for someone from their surroundings to
falling in love, even if it doesn't mean much, but they must have something. Think about everything
use this to your advantage.
The Action
It's the topic of approaching a girl with your own style. If you're very shy, you can ...
resort to a trick that never fails. What to do if, for example, you are in a
bar, pub, nightclub, etc. and you see it but you don't dare to enter because you don't know what
saying and all that, the best thing is that you do NOT THINK absolutely about anything.
Before starting to talk to her, certain things need to be done with the language of
body. You will ensure success and avoid frustrations.
First, make sure to establish good eye contact. Lock eyes with her.
the second time you cross gazes, hold it for a few seconds longer than it
used to it and smiles. Your smile should be light, affectionate, and friendly. Observe their
reaction: if they return the smile, everything is fine. Otherwise, insist a couple of times.
or three times more. If all goes well, go ahead; otherwise, give up.
Clear your mind and approach it. You say hello and that's it. Once there, no
you have an escape and it's when you have to find something to say, but there you are and not
You don't have to think about anything because if you do, you won't get in the end. What can you tell her?
You know, dear reader, that you will not say: "What is your name? How old are you?"
Do you have? Where else do you usually go out? And you won't tell him because you've used it before.
sometimes it doesn't work.
Logically, ask her for her name but come up with something original that makes her...
to feel special even if one is not. It may seem like a stupid phrase but according to the
The tone you use and what you release afterward can be the key to success.
You may have realized that most women, on a weekend, they ...
they come in a lot of times and of course they end up fed up with the same thing and on top of that
They laugh at you for being so typical.
If you see that the girl starts telling you about "how interesting my friends are
why they do this or that
an undignified withdrawal. There are more women, the world doesn't end because of a failure.
Otherwise, you can grab their attention with fun things without becoming a...
clown. If you go with several friends, when you introduce them you can tell him quietly in his ear that
don't worry about one because he is gay and is not going to flirt with her, or that another one has a
wooden leg, or the other is going to get a vasectomy; original things,
fun and that at least provide an opportunity to have a good time and not a bad experience
thinking about what is going to happen to you.
In a group of women, the one who is interested in you will unconsciously point at you with the tip of her shoe.
shoe. Pay attention as much as you can. This also works in reverse, so you can control the 'competition'.
Discreetly imitate their gestures. For example, if they rest their head on their right hand, do the same.
If they slightly tilt their head, it is a sign that they are interested in you.
The Kiss
I suppose you have already spent three hours or more talking to her, and you already know if
Is she in a relationship or not, if she is engaged and her willingness to move forward.
You are a person who pays attention to details and you will have noticed that she performs
certain grooming signs: continuously fixing hair, stretching clothes,
his/her pupils dilate (a sign of pleasure)
The worst or the best moment of the night arrives. The longest moment.
expected. The kiss.
I imagine that you are not going to say: Do you want some fun? Because you are someone experienced in
these struggles, and you are not going to fall into this mistake. That is very seen and probably
It will tell you no.
Surely you will say something that doesn’t scare her, that doesn’t cut her off, and that sounds good, it is
Say: 'Can I give you a kiss?'. What might happen to you is trying to give a kiss.
Without asking you, but besides calling you bold, it's likely that I won't do anything else.
Even if later you know that I did want to...
If she gives you her phone number, don't call her when she tells you to, but more.
afternoon, to thwart his plans and make him believe that you are not very interested in what
make it more attractive to you. I'm talking about a day or two at most, it's not necessary.
wait ten years...
They want a man who makes them feel like women, not someone like
your best friend who will carry the reason and do everything she wants. I'm not referring to
if he tells you to go to the cinema, you say: 'Well no, let's go to the football', but rather
just don't do everything she says she wants, because she will end up getting fed up
and feeling overwhelmed.
Give her a gift. She has no idea that in two days she will have one but
The surprise will be impressive and he/she will love it. In case you gift something to him/her.
like some flowers, don't even think about giving her the biggest or most expensive bouquet
florist. Besides being tacky, they won't feel special. You can give them a small bouquet.
or even better, a single flower.
If you take her to the movies, don't take her to see Star Trek 18 or a 4-hour movie.
At least the first few days.
Regarding the conversations with her, be careful. Make sure you listen to her and memorize.
all his likes, but without letting him know. For example, ask him what food he
likes more and take her to dinner there the next day. But don't ask her what her
favorite food, if she tells you it's Chinese, don't ask her if it's sweet and sour pork.
Look at her when she speaks to you, and ask her things about herself.
Tell her some original compliment, but instead of 'What beautiful eyes', you can
Tell her 'What a beautiful look,' but make sure it's true that she has it, and if not, well...
What mouth, and if not then whatever, but let it be believable.
Never talk about yourself all the time. If you talk about yourself, laugh at yourself.
Introduction
Each one, in their journey through life, develops a perception of it, the things
they are not absolute, what is real for one may be absurd for another, each one
we have our own language with which we address the world and we
we drive in it. This is just my perspective, to understand it this way. Please, I wouldn’t want to
I don't look like a ghost or a Casanova; in fact, I've crashed so many times that
I have managed to come out of each one with a lesson. Here they are, I hope you enjoy them.
Well with the following, I have put effort and enthusiasm; what follows can be used.
to not stop making love, but it is nicer to use it to get to the
the woman of your life is more enriching, a good woman can make you happy
the rest of your life, if thanks to this "Reengineering of Seduction" you achieve it.
really happy... because I am working on it ;-)
What is flirting?
The universal meaning seems to be one that implies a certain seduction of sex.
the opposite, but let's give it a new meaning with which it will be easier for us
have a change of attitude. Flirting is meeting and being met, no more no less.
Let's go out with this concept in mind, things will be much easier, this way.
We will not adopt a false role of toxic masculinity, flirting is getting to know each other. Thus in
place to think 'let's see who I hook up with today' we will change the schemes and
we will think "let's see who I have the opportunity to meet today".
If by listening to her you manage to get her to tell you something intimate, you have "a thousand points" here.
Hello, you have to show understanding with what she tells you and tune in with her.
speak the same language, if you come across a talkative one!, congratulations! If you come across a
listener (who are usually the most intelligent because they scrutinize you and try
See what you're made of) you have a little more difficult, we will return to this topic later.
forward.
Clearly, the best place for this is at work, where else could you not have
a continuous contact of eight hours with a woman without her getting away from you?
Evidently in the workplace. Fortunate are those who work in a
mixed environment, they have more than half of the work done. A long time ago it was published
a statistic that placed work in first place as a place where they are formed
Couples. It's normal, if flirting is getting to know each other... what better place than the office?
I have a theory that in this country there is a lack of skilled labor and we are
the plumbers, electricians, and 'rolled-up sleeves' are the ones who work best for us. In line with what
previously when people decide which path to take, either vocational training or high school and university,
they choose this second path NOT for the professional opportunities it offers them
no, because of the 'mixed' atmosphere that exists, university parties, etc. It's little
seductive a class full of tough turners, without a skirt to show off.
The faculty is more connected, you have a continuous contact with it like at work.
opposite sex where you will meet and be met, and you only love what you know. This
The concept is important and we will develop it later. But let's not despair.
Guys, if we are not at the University or if we are working rolled up underneath
from a truck we also have our 'STORAGE'. From now on I
I will refer to nightclubs, bars, tents, etc. as the 'warehouse'. This definition
it has a connotation of buying and selling. I'm sorry, but that's what happens in
reality: as in a large area, non-commercial transactions take place
But personally, there are plenty of 'products' to choose from, each with
Its qualities: packaging, quality, prestige, and positioning, some are more difficult.
apparently wanting to get others, some that we covet and others that
we discard, for this we 'pay' with our 'SELF'... This is starting to get complicated
a little, right?
If you connect by talking, nightclubs are the worst places. Have you tried to
talking in the middle of a track? Even going outside is very expensive, when raising
the voice loses its sensual timbre and nuances, in addition to becoming hoarse. Or
Yes... we should look for places where the music is not too loud, like summer tents.
where the sound disperses. The tents are also ideal for those who do not
We smoke, when receiving more oxygen in the brain, it works better to seduce better.
the clothes may last you perhaps one more time, since they are not stinking of tobacco. Choose the
place that was full of guys the previous week. Have you noticed that some
sometimes the places are full of super hot girls and other times we all are
lumberjacks? This does not happen randomly, they usually alternate every few weekends.
a week when there are many girls and the other guys; the girls go looking for guys and when not
they find them change places disappearing by the next weekend, when
They find a place full of guys, tell their friends, and it gets filled with girls.
when the uncles, seeing that there are no girls, changed places, do you get it? For the
So, we must go where it was full of guys (handsome and stylish) last week.
previously because this week will be full of girls.
Not usual
Those who go out often know that there are places regularly visited by the same people.
a place where everyone knows each other and there are thousands of invisible ties that connect them
one another. If you return to these places, you will encounter a tangle
difficult to decipher: Maria doesn't want anyone to see her talking to you because Juan is there
In front and the previous weekend there was trouble with him, besides there is Marga who
I would tell José if I see him talking to Maria with you. They make sure that they are not seen getting involved.
with no one in public, since everything is known, the girls do not get out of line. To be specific
You would have to take the girl out of the place and meet somewhere else that is nearby.
there. Maria will feel free from the control she has and maybe something happens...
In these usual places, long-term relationships are formed, you have to go in and observe it.
but for that you have to go through the same place several times to know how
It's the environment, there's no time to waste. Where are the new people? In
new places: tents, vacation spots where people are from out of town, parties
populars from outside, etc.
Sense of time
In the warehouse, there are better hours than others for flirting, starting from the point of
maximum full account half an hour from this point onward. Until 3 is the best
Moment. Why does this happen? Very simple, let's put ourselves in the mind of a woman.
It's difficult, but let's put ourselves in their shoes. This rule must be applied to
It’s happening. The night begins. Maria enters at 12 into that tent that her friend gave her.
I was saying that there were some super hot guys last week, the night is young and
full of possibilities. She has been waiting for this moment for 5 days!
she is beautiful. It is exciting to know ALL NIGHT THAT IS LEFT FOR
FORWARD. The night is full of expectations. At first, the venue is almost
empty. It's half past twelve, the bar is still set very high, and a boy enters who
does not meet the standard. It rejects it. Thinks that "one that is good will come to me eventually." The
The night is young, and possibly later she will find another who is more handsome or more...
nice. "There are still people missing," is his thought. The place is starting to fill up.
There is less and less time to 'buy', but there is still a lot of product left.
The bar may have lowered a little, perhaps they no longer care if it's a super.
a model, who is good-looking and a nice guy, is enough already. Time goes by. "Wow
history, no boy I like comes into my life, I hope I don't end up like him
last weekend that I didn't eat a donut,
insecurity...
The venue is full. Here is all the product and 'something has to happen.'
Look for entry signals (this is in another chapter), but the muscular guy at
What he sees is a bit tipsy and doesn't perceive the signals (I'll deal with the drinking more later)
forward). María sees how in the venue the peak moment has passed. Nothing happens to her and
starts to lower the bar, at first it had to be a perfect guy, but erosion it
well, it doesn't really matter if he's handsome, that's not important.
NOW!!!
Guys, it's time, after half an hour of the place being packed, the girls
they start to lower the bar and are more open. Time is pressing them, and it won't do
You just need to be so bright to start a conversation with her. From here on out
At three, the quality of the product begins to decline, both the female and the
male, what I call SERIES REMAINS remain. The lost alcoholic ones and the females.
demoralized and tired ("another night without meeting anyone interesting"). Maybe
it may seem like the bar is on the floor, but I don't know why at the last hours
things cost more. In the chapter of when it can also be commented that
After exam periods, they are more relaxed and that invites a relationship.
Dress well
Attention, a new concept regarding clothing, we are a product and as such
We must know who our target audience is. Is she a 'hippie?' Is she 'posh'? Is she
of the 'rolled up'? Whatever it is, what defines being well-dressed is the watch and
the shoes. You can wear ripped jeans, if you go with sneakers you are a
indigent and if you go with some Sebago you are a spoiled rich kid. You can wear
a sweater full of balls and visibly poor quality that if you wear a nice watch (not
not necessarily big or oversized) you follow fashion and the sweater fits you
Well, if you bring a 'everything for 100', you'll only hook up with social welfare students.
Shoes are the last thing many guys pay attention to, but they are the most important.
clean and shiny and with black socks of course. No matter how well I speak
You can distinguish an 'imposter' salesperson by their shoes, but this is another one.
a topic that is not relevant. In addition to the above, it is necessary to consider the first,
if you dress too nicely, you might lose points with a 'hippie' and if you dress casually the
Don't pay attention to fools. So choose a goal, segment your target audience, and dress up.
As such. You have to speak the same language as her. I'm talking about the language of the body.
One of the items that aunts pay a lot of attention to is the car. If you have
one good please don't go flaunting the keychain all the time, don't say that
you have a BMW if they don't ask you, and if you take every opportunity to
Let go that you have one, she will realize and you will look bad. Think that the people who
they really have money do not give it importance, and it is the new rich who do
They incriminate themselves trying to demonstrate at all times the money they have.
However, the vehicle is a highly valued plus by the girls, it says about you
future capacity to be able to keep her at home without working loaded with children... (the
collective subconscious strikes again).
Your image
Boy, you have to sell yourself, you are in the warehouse as we said before. The
People have a first impression that marks and labels you as soon as they see you. There is
what to play with the attributes that position you in the quality sector.
These are universal: clean appearance, short and clean nails, black socks with
the shoes, tanned appearance, well-groomed haircut with some style, beard
careful (or carefully inattentive, in a rough manner), quality and clean clothing, the
watch, necklaces, bracelets, ring (it is advisable to avoid it as it may lead to)
confusion), some pin, athletic appearance, winning smile, poise, confidence, the
gesture, posture, gaze, attitude... you have to figure out what the archetype is
of what you want to appear as and simulate it, (now I hear background noises warning me
that each person must be exactly as they are and not pretend to be anything they are not
reality... I will come back to it later).
You will see the archetype on television and especially in advertisements, look at yourself
apart from the collective subconscious, they will form an idea in two seconds of
who you are by what they see. Work to make this first impression positive. And
If I'm just average, what do I do? Let's see, each of us is what we deserve to be. It's a
neoliberal concept but true. If you are fat, lose weight. Read books about
nutrition. If you want to improve your physical appearance, there are gyms and supplements.
nutritional. If you want to increase your self-confidence there are courses on
personal development and self-help books. You can be however you want to be.
Any part of your body or mind is susceptible to being changed.
bring it closer to the quality standard.
But I don't want to change, I want to be accepted just as I am. Well, nothing
against. You may lose points on the first impression but you can captivate them.
with your attractive personality. You are also your environment and your life. Your
personality is forged with everything you have lived. A person with many
vital experiences have an hyper-attractive cultural background in her eyes:
You will know how to talk about everything, you will have an opinion on everything, you will be able to teach him something... A
intense life is very seductive! So live! Do not deny yourself new experiences,
(avoid drugs) You will forge a character, try it!, see there! sign up! read it!
Get to know it! Experience it!
So, crucial idea: TAKE CARE OF YOUR ASS. And how do you do this? Well, a good ass
it's nothing more than some good muscles: the glutes. These are developed in the
gym, on a special machine that is frequented by many
aunts. Work on it there until it is perky, tight, and muscular, decrease the
waist and back lats to achieve a nice V-shaped back where a belt
wide and some jeans (they fit the best) will emphasize that which so much
The girls like: your butt.
Manipulation
But guys, they eager for a father will sleep with you without putting up much
problems, they won't waste time, they want to trap you through sex. As I say,
many are imprisoned by the 'plum tree', so show yourselves available and ready to
caramel, stable with a bright future ahead, responsible (very
parents), reliable, hardworking, healthy, looking at the small children of others with
affection in front of her, do the same with the animals since they
subconsciously 'extrapolate', mention the word family, being for their parents
the son-in-law they always wanted for their daughter, she does see you. This way it won't change
frantically to another relationship and will stop in yours since it has perspective,
There is a future with you. But if you only want sex and you are really not like this.
You will have to lie, I already say that they go to bed quickly at these ages and more.
with a 'good game'.
How good is that girl. She probably has a boyfriend and if I say something to her, she won't even look at me.
I don't understand how that ugly guy can be with such a hot girl, I don't understand.
nothing... "Girl, I don't understand anything. I got all dressed up and he didn't even pay attention, and the other day
who was wearing a really tacky unpainted t-shirt and had a bunch of guys around him
side
Don't these phrases sound familiar to you? They are universal, this has happened to all of us. Well,
Revealing phrase: 'The very attractive aunts are often very lonely.'
"because no one dares to approach them." It causes us respect to see a girl like that.
We see a lot for ourselves, we assume that he will already have a girlfriend and that he will be rich, super
handsome and muscular, in addition to being an exceptional lover. We are not like that and "we are
little for her.
In a conversation with Miss Hospitalet in her nineties, she told me that guys don't...
they dared to approach because they assumed she already had a boyfriend and the girl
It's true that she was desperate. There's a book called something like "beautiful".
smart and alone.” In life, something similar sometimes happens, but then the uncle arrives.
ugly but with charm and talk, and he gets by. Look at a hot girl in a
disco and follow the story from a distance, about how the night is going. Sometimes it
sits and while giving signals (this is another chapter) and no one comes in, and goes to
home alone and with her friends, she leaves frustrated and thinks (because they are also
insecure) that she is not pretty enough and that's why she doesn't date. She signs up for
he goes to the gym and diets, gets a tan, gets in great shape, and realizes he attracts less attention
still. "The better they look, the less they connect."
I have a colleague who said, 'Look, I only try with hot chicks.'
"Thus, if something comes out one day, it will be with a girl like these." And he is not wrong, the girls
very good but also full of insecurities, and they don't always find love
What do they want? They can be as eager for a sexual adventure as a girl.
normality. Perhaps they have a drawback, which is that they think they can choose, and
just as they want to find a good match, they discard many thinking
that the good one will arrive that they will be able to get. They are looking for the BMW and the tower.
Unfamiliar, they think that because they are attractive they can access this type of man.
What they don't know is that this type of man is in that position because he is
intelligent. And an intelligent man rarely gets involved with a beauty who
hollow head. In summary, the hot girls are not more difficult than the normal ones, and
less for you.
The theory of the flat iron can also be applied to physical contact, a person
who knows how to play just right at the right moment radiates warmth and affection
very pleasant for a woman. Take advantage of a moment in the conversation (because
it's about talking, let's not forget) to touch her on the arm, as if you were holding her. To the
Every time you touch her, look her in the eyes, it doesn't have to be for long since it can...
become very uncomfortable. Step back and study their reaction. Do you think they liked it?
Wait and continue with the same later. Do you notice rejection? Withdraw, you already know.
where is the 'border'. Stay in your area and avoid making more 'incursions' into it.
moment. Like in the iron, if we see that there is no danger and we are fine
accepted, you can increase the level of both physical contact and
conversation. In this last one, we can touch on more intimate topics.
Now that everything seems to be going well, kid, disappear for a while. I know this isn't
It comes to mind: "How am I going to disappear for a while if I am having a great conversation with...
"her?" The theory of the plate is a fractal element and just as it is in the small.
it's in the big one. Go to the bathroom, or see if your friends have arrived, focus on the
such a beautiful song that they have played now and continue it in silence (it may seem
disconcerting, I know, but it works) or to ask you for something at the bar, or stop
pay attention for a few moments. Observe her reaction and return to her if she
the situation becomes a little tense or too bewildering for her. But
step back, that gives you value and gives her time to think and reposition herself; besides,
gives me the chance to see your ass when you turn your back... If on the way back
He/She is waiting for you, you have 1000 points.
It works very well for me the following resource: "Hey call me one day and we'll arrange it"
to have a coffee". She is stunned for a few moments and tells you "But what if not
You gave me your phone!
situation) "Oh, sorry, it's this one: (Your name), 000000000, I'm available at night."
There are many possibilities that she will tell you "write mine down...". There is nothing
more grateful than bidding farewell to the night in the fresh air of dawn with a phone
written on a paper napkin in the pocket, from that aunt who was so hot,
believe me.
Never the next day or even the first week. Don't worry, if she wants you to
You call and you don't do it immediately, you are 'loading' it (which for me is a
a word with a special meaning that is difficult to translate), you are showing them that you do not
you are a pain, you are neither desperate nor are you going to chase her, (what you don't have you don't
desires, what we have surely despises). Make her wait, again in her fractal
corresponding to the theory of the board... If she calls you... You almost have glory at
the reach of your fingers, a billion points, you definitely liked her and she's a girl with
personality, and seeks what interests her. Be careful to see if she is going to be the
follower and the nuisance... She has taken the initiative and that is indicative of her
the moment will also make love to you (she will decide, don't worry). Try
Call her when she is home. It's a horrible situation for her mother to tell her.
that guy has called for the third time this week: You're getting
heavy without having started. If you see her cold, think that her parents might be there.
in front of her with the "antenna up" and she won't feel comfortable talking, you do
you will understand that they are ignoring you and the truth is that they are embarrassed. So
ask her if she is alone at that moment or with her parents, if she says that her parents are there
Parents in front or her sister etc., suggest a better time to talk. You stay.
like a king and enter his head, since he will have to tell you a time and a day and
She will be obliged to be at the appointment... The first call is a key moment.
telephone and you have to prepare. Write down everything you want on a piece of paper
say, make a list: how work or exams are going, if you got home late
that day when you met him, if he has sisters, etc... It is very violent to have in
the first conversations blank spaces where neither of them knows
What to say, and you end with "well then..." and she "well, that..." "And how about... what do you
accounts?
! BAD! You need to get something flowing, for her to talk. When a topic runs out
jump to the next one, she doesn't know it but "you can talk to him...". There is a scheme.
pleasant conversation not only for aunts but also to make friends and
what works is the following: Ask him something, then listen to him attentively
interested in what he says when it's your turn (don't interrupt him while he is saying it
(counting, let him finish). Comment on something about what he is telling you, your
experience in that field, something that contributes to the other person and that matters
something about you... Afterwards, if the vein of that comment is over, ask him about
another thing you have something to say about and comment on something related to the answer.
When you make a girl talk, you are undressing her, it's like with a salesperson.
a professional a client tells you their needs, it is showing you where it is
the path to his heart. Discover what he likes to talk about: About his sisters?
About work? About friendship? About love? About how much fun it is when traveling?
And talk to her about what she likes, not about what you like. She doesn't care.
that you put a winter tire on the motorcycle. Please be a little more
sensible... question, question, question.
!GOOD!, you are having a pleasant conversation, she talks and even has you
Having told something intimate, you've been with the phone to your ear for more than half an hour,
she is fine, you too, there is a little spark... Capture this moment because if things go
it stretches out and starts to break down, she doesn't know what to say and neither do you. When you detect a
moment of conversational ecstasy (as you can see in seduction, it is important
being sensitive to what is happening at every moment) let her go: "Hey... Merche,
Well, we can meet one day and have a drink.
send a missile with an atomic load. You are touching the iron with your whole hand.
Wait for the response, if she replies that she is very busy, that's a bad sign. It could be.
true or not. If she is interested in you, she will propose a date, "Now it's not a good time for me but the
next week we can meet..." He can't but is looking for alternatives, good. If
She tells you that she can't, that things are very complicated and she doesn't provide a solution, bad.
we are... But it's hard for me to say no if you have respected the previous scheme and
you launched the missile at the right moment. If you answer affirmatively, try
now finalize the date of the appointment and once you achieve that keep talking, if you
you say goodbye here as if you only wanted the "END" which is to leave and not
talk to her; she will subconsciously extrapolate it to when you go to bed.
with her and after you have had the "END" you will go to look for tobacco, keep talking for a while and
Before things go downhill, you have to leave because you are in a hurry.
It is said that no, don't worry, don't show yourself disappointed, let it not be noticeable, carry on
a little more and say goodbye with a 'we'll call each other'. Wait about 10 days to
make a second attempt, if by three it is not clear... it is necessary to have
dignity. He doesn't know what he's missing. Turn the page. If you like it, things are
incredibly smooth and easy, but if they don't like you, life is too short like
to be banging your head against the same wall for a long time. Remember that
One nail drives out another and the aunt that seems to you today the best in the world and 'that does not
I am not going to find anyone as good as her" you will forget her and with the new one you will think
How could I go so desperately after Mari, I don't know what I saw in her.
Real meetups
I had three dates, one with an insatiable chubby girl who claimed to be Venezuelan and
he was not wrong, and it sold itself as poetry in motion...
(I want to marry to become Spanish). Anyway, a shared coffee, a conversation.
light and "we'll see each other again"... (The tire marks are still in front of the
a nice girl (there are some, of course!) who was looking for love before
leaving for Ireland, a bit strange this too, friendship that was lost over time... And
the last a I want to marry you, I love you. Are you short on supplies?
"meacostareaversiteenamoras" that disappeared into the darkness after a night to
regret it. What doesn't work: "I'm Paco and I want to make love, call me."
We all already know this, and if you succeed with this, put on four condoms just in case.
Perhaps. I don’t think poetic calls full of lyricism work either.
overflowing. They give an idea of effeminacy and false female complicity
(sorry... sorry... I can hear the whistles. It's what I think, okay?). Neither the
Girls who look for sex in a forum and read you are innocent ladies of gentle nature.
satin, they know that an idiot can be hidden behind beautiful words
decoy mode! No one deceives the girls in this! By the way, about flirting by
the net: (let me be blunt please) if you are ugly, at least you can get in through
the heart, or you have that hope. You will try to make him believe how good and sensitive that
you are and beauty is not everything...! Watch out! If this works for you, you will come across a
She is good and sensitive and has a good heart... Happy for both of you!
Disadvantages: at least for me, you could have dedicated yourself to a person in
body and soul during the last two weeks with nights of coffee, chat, and
fever, and at the time of meeting you will realize that "My God, if I had known, I wouldn't have..."
spent 30 euros (18 US$) on a phone." That said... you will know its interior. After toying around
I've come up with a system that I hope will be effective: how can it be
eliminate the big problem, the one of not knowing who the hell the other is. Gentlemen my
contribution to the world: T-SHIRT MAIL.
Print your email on the back of a t-shirt, as a form of identification, and you
you walk through the usual places. The unsophisticated ones are excluded: they think it is
the new snowboard brand, (in the best case, in the worst they will see
a text in English...) The girls who have a certain level and know the network, if they
They notice in the email and identify it as such, they will pay attention to you. If they are shy, you give them the...
perfect way for you to be known, 'see before you buy'. If they don't like you
(let me be blunt again), not all of you have a great body, it's okay: You will return
the house and your mailbox will be empty. The attempt is made, maybe that nightclub of your
the dormitory city was not the right place... If you have the answer, you will have found it.
a good objective, already segmented and with all the points in your favor so that
buy. Disadvantages: you may feel ridiculous, observed, stupid... there are
to have a bit of nerve in this life, if in exchange for feeling embarrassed you have
an 'exploitable' email, because long live the shame. When you get it... make yourself of
beg, let him suffer a little.
I have already learned from one of my big mistakes with women: To go after
them. After all, it is honesty, you are merely showing what you feel,
you feel that you should be available for her and you find her proposal acceptable
where to go out, you want her, you present yourself that way, you adapt, you are the first to say
I love you, you feel it inside and let it go. Why pretend or play tough? Isn't it the
love sincerity? You empty yourself, you tell her how well you are with her, the future that you
I would like to share, you are never late to an appointment (do you think that is a bit unserious and
You want to show him that you are reliable, that he will always find you when he waits for you.
you are in love and you give yourself... If any problem arises, you come out determined, holding the
flag of the protective companion. You make her see that she is different from all others,
you intend to boost his self-esteem. You want to show him that you are much better than
his "ex" who was a scoundrel and led her to misfortune. In sex, you prioritize
his pleasure to yours (you have read too many things about selfish men and you not
you want to be this way). You want to show them that you are different, you give your all... you
You work hard in the gym to be a 10, you fear not being enough for her.
You see her so much for yourself that you fear if you don't make the effort, she won't either.
She avoids the discussion because she sees a danger in it, she really doesn't know you.
angry. You are afraid to get angry because you think it's better not to do it, you
you control and keep it to yourself. You plan together how to approach his work life so that it
It gets better, you are happy when she has quit smoking, you support her on her low days.
you listen, you care about their family... you do everything you think you should do
so that he falls deeply in love with you... because you are already in love with him...
of alert?
Never be 100% available, never give them total assurance that they have you.
Sure, always leave him a shadow of doubt, don't hesitate to change one of the
previous points towards its opposite. If you think you should shout at him, shout at him, if you are
Very "close" stay away, maintain a certain bewilderment, a "yes but no", that way it will be
alert all the time.
Do not give up on your life or your friendships, show them that you have a fulfilling life.
without her, how could you survive without her.
What is the most difficult? You think this is not true, that sincerity has to
to be above everything. How are you going to tell him that you don't feel like going out if you
Do you die to be with her? Isn't love sincerity and showing it at every...
Do you really feel that moment? Why do I have to lie?.... I don't know, friends,
the thing works like this don’t ask me why, we all lose interest in it
sure and we go crazy in front of the volatile.
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THE COUPLE
SENSUALITY
Love does not consist in looking at each other, but rather in looking together in the same direction.
same address. It is very easy to prioritize almost everything before sex. The
children, doing the laundry, making phone calls, paying the bills, etc. If you do not place at
sex in a high position within its value scale, the relationship with its
couples will quickly lose interest and quality. Reserving for sexual relations a
an important place in your couple's life helps keep the flame alive. If you really
If you want your sex life to retain all its appeal, you must give it the importance it deserves.
he deserves it, even if he stops doing other things for it. It is the unexpected that
keeps alive romanticism and sexual attraction. Thus, small gifts,
intimate weekends, romantic dinners, etc. when your partner doesn't expect it
they will be a blessing for this task. A word of praise spoken with
a tender and sweet voice can perform miracles. One must never lose the restlessness for
know your partner's sexual fantasies and fulfill them together. Don't forget
never the art of discovering, of communicating, of seducing, of pleasing, of penetrating and
to relax. Take care of your physical appearance and your way of dressing. Do not
abandon, for if he likes to be desired, he must strive to attract attention
of their partner.
Love and food have the same vital importance for our health and subsistence.
The sensuality that radiates comes from two different sources; one is found in
the interior and the second in the exterior. Its sensual interior power comes from its
thoughts, of your sexual energy, of your feelings and of your magnetism
personal, in one word, of their personality. The external sensual power comes from
his way of dressing, his attitudes, his way of speaking, his way of
look. Normally one or the other of those sensual powers is possessed but rarely
both. The person who knows how to develop both the external and internal aspects of
her sensuality will magnetize others. As we mentioned earlier
your inner sensual power is made up of your thoughts, feelings,
sexual energy and its personal magnetism. Let's now see how it can
transform each of these aspects to appear as sensual as possible.
HUMAN FEELINGS: The human being is not a logical being, it is an emotional being and
It is usually emotions that make him react and move forward. The person
sensual that will come to act on the emotions of those who confront it
your step. Since you will speak to someone acting on their emotions,
it will automatically be able to evoke emotions and feelings in her. Thus,
when I am in love, it will be sensual. Every gesture, every caress, every behavior that
will carry a load of sensuality so great that it will surrender your partner to
your feet. In conclusion, if you want to look very sensual and are not in love, do it.
as if I were and the results will be favorable.
YOUR SEXUAL ENERGY: People who have strong sexual energy are
generally more sensual than the rest. You may have noticed that when he is excited
sexually, feels a very intense energy, becoming a priority target
and exclusively satisfying your sexual desire. At that moment, if you have the possibility to
to seduce a woman, her sensuality will surely be much greater than in a
normal situation. We see then that sensuality is a very intense energy and that
it can be transmitted between people. Therefore, if we learn to enhance our
With sensual energy, we can increase our ability to seduce.
HIS WAY OF BEING: His way of being denotes who he really is and the environment.
from which it originates. Depending on this, it will provoke envy or pity. In general, what
we appear is a faithful reflection of our interior. It is usually very difficult to pretend.
What is not is, but it is also true that many people precisely like that.
Don't be fooled by appearances and remember that if you decide to build a
a personality to please others, this can crumble like a castle.
from playing cards to the first setback. I tried to find the person inside of
You. Learn to know yourself and gain self-confidence and self-esteem.
which will turn him into a person envied and loved by all.
HIS WAY OF DRESSING: They say that the habit does not make the monk, but the reality of
Our days clearly demonstrate the opposite: you are being judged.
constantly. Therefore, the way she dresses will be one of her business cards.
presentation that will classify you in the eyes of others. Take the test and you
will amaze. Normally people dress according to the way in which
they develop. It is very difficult to advise on this matter, but there are some
how many general advice that will surely be useful to you: Try to dress
dressing in fashion according to each situation, but without giving up their own style
It helps a lot to make a good impression, the bright and light colors.
they tend to favor more than the muted and dark ones, and I always try to wear garments
that are comfortable for them and in line with their personal style. Do not force yourself, as you will be
uncomfortable and others will notice it.
YOUR WAY OF SPEAKING: "The fish dies by the mouth." We are sure that it does not
he would like to do the same. He should always try to speak slowly and clearly.
If you speak too quickly and slur your words, you will create tension in others.
and they will avoid him. A good system to shape his voice and make it more
sensual, is rehearsing with a recorder. I tried to record a romantic text or a
declaration of love and listen to it several times; you will see how each time you find
defects and details to change.
HIS WAY OF LOOKING: The eyes are the reflection of the soul. His eyes show his
sadness, joy, happiness, desire, etc. Is there anything else?
Is there anything more sensual than the gaze of a man and a woman in love?
Is there anything more sensual than an intense gaze of desire? It is worth having such a look.
intense and that reflects our desire and sensuality. For this, practice in front of a
mirror and try to show love, tenderness, passion, and desire. Just a little bit of time
it will be enough to see surprising results.
HIS WAY OF MOVING: If he walks like a poor unfortunate whose wife has
abandoned by another, it will surely inspire pity or sorrow. If its gestures are
rough and dry, surely inspire more fear than love. These simple
examples are enough to demonstrate the importance of the way of walking and of
Move. It matters little what is said and how it is said if the gesturing or the gesture
the employee is not the right one. Don't forget that their external image is the first thing that
and it is very important that others take an interest, that they feel curiosity about
you. Therefore, avoid extremes, make yourself noticed but without the need to call attention.
attention; let others be curious to get to know you.
THE HEARING: There are many sounds that have an extremely erotic character. Thus
the moans, the gasps, the words, the friction of the bodies, the noise of the bed frame,
certain blows, etc. These noises are a source of sensual enrichment and
they will help to increase the excitement and pleasure of the couple. During intercourse the
Man is very sensitive to reactions, sounds, moans, screams, words, etc.
that your partner emits.
THE TOUCH: A caress or brush at the right moment and place (face, hand...)
can awaken the interest in the other person.
THE TASTE: A poorly cared for mouth, or unbearable breath can ruin everything
Every process of approximation. You must maintain your oral hygiene.
THE CAresses
Caressing is an art. It is very important to learn to caress and to allow oneself to be caressed.
to caress. One should not focus solely on common erogenous zones, as
that her skin is composed of an infinity of sensitive points that must
discover day after day. Gently caress each other with their lips and tongue the lobes
from the ears, continuing down the neck, around his mouth, the nose and his
cheeks. Continue down your chest, slowly following its curves. Stop at the
nipples, sucking on them and licking them sweetly. Continue to slide your lips down the
back, the sides, the abdomen, the anal area, the inner area, the thighs, the part
back of the knees, the navel, the feet, etc... It is also important to bite
once in a while all the areas described above but always with a lot of
delicacy and observing their partner's reaction. Many people enjoy
these bites even during sexual intercourse. The stimulation from pinches is very
gratifying and should be done through brief and simple gestures, throughout the
body of the couple. Normally, the thumb and index fingers of the hand are used,
although it is also possible to do them with the lips. In both cases, one must be
extremely delicate in its execution in order to achieve the effect of excitement
desired.
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THE BATHROOM
For a couple, taking a bath together can bring a new dimension to their
relationship. It can even help to better discover each other's body and
explore it differently. I'm sure that once you've tried it, you won't be able to pass on it.
without it. If you have sexual problems, that is to say, impotence, frigidity, ejaculation
Surely, bathing together will stimulate your sexuality and lead to
countless types of caresses that he has not yet discovered and will make him see that
everything is possible inside a bathtub. To begin with, you must create an intimate atmosphere in
your bathroom. Dim lights, pleasant temperature, music, candles, scents, etc.
The best bath essences with aphrodisiac properties are: Jasmine, the
orange blossom, the rose, sandalwood, cardamom, Ylang-Ylang. The tonic essences and
Stimulating are: Rosemary, hyssop, juniper, basil.
ORAL SEX
TheTaoismit teaches us that mutual oral sex creates a special energy circuit
that contributes to harmonizing the vital elements of the body. 'The 69' is one of the
most pleasurable positions within oral sex practices; it takes place
inverting their body with that of their partner, so that while one suctions the
clitoris, the other is sucking the penis and caressing the testicles.
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ANAL SEX
The couple can be kneeling or standing and bent forward, and additionally
he must be in a state of excitement very close to orgasm. The man should
lubricate your fingers and your partner's anus abundantly, inserting
delicately first a finger and then progressively the second until the
Yes. This will ensure that the area is well lubricated. From that moment on the
man will be able to begin penetration of the anus with his penis. As he goes
gently penetrating the anus, you should caress the clitoral area and then insert
the fingers of the other hand in the vagina feeling how his penis goes
penetrating through the adjacent hole. Next, a series of will begin.
alternating movements of the hand and the penis that will lead to a
deep orgasm of the woman.
PENETRATION
The man must alternate in a varied and discontinuous way the different forms of
penetration, that is, both superficial and deep. To begin with
nine superficial penetrations and one deep will allow the woman to start
feel a certain degree of pleasure. Slowly the man will adapt based on his
couple and based on their own pleasure changing the angle of penetration and the
rhythm of the same.
According to the Kama-Sutra, there are eighteen types of penetration that a man must
consume a woman
Friction. The penis held by the hand swings inside the vagina.
accentuating the friction in the area of the vaginal lips.
The horadation. The vagina is down and the penis hits and rubs strongly.
the upper part of this.
FRICTION. In the same situation, the penis rubs against the bottom of the
vagina.
PRESSURE. The penis presses against the vagina for a long period of time.
SLAP. The penis exits the vagina and enters abruptly, hitting hard the
The bottom provides more vigor to the penis and delays spasms in the man.
while the woman speeds up.
THE BOAR'S STRIKE. The penis only hits one part of the vagina.
THE BULL'S STRIKE. The penis, in its penetration, strikes both sides at once.
vagina.
THE SPARROW MOVEMENT. The penis goes in and out of the vagina, without
to exit, in the form of very rapid contractions.
To strike right and left within the vagina like the warrior trying
to disperse the swords of their enemies.
OTHERS:
Move the jade post up and down like a wild horse that makes the jump of
the goat to cross a brook.
Rhythmic penetrating movement similar to that of seagulls playing with the waves.
Slowly pull out the penis and then penetrate the vagina like an eagle catching.
a prey in full flight.
Penetrate the vagina aiming to brush the upper part with the foreskin like a
sailboat cutting through the wind.
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POSTURES
There are four fundamental positions and countless variations. These four
fundamental postures constitute the starting point and each one must leave to
let your imagination do the rest.
The woman grabs the man's buttocks with her hands and crosses her legs behind.
from his back.
The man lifts the woman's legs with one of his hands, placing them on the
height of her breasts and with the other hand, he inserts his phallus into the vagina.
The man stretches over the woman, who is lying face down, and opens her
buttocks as she raises her waist to facilitate penetration.
The woman is lying on her back with her legs open and the man is
he grabs her by the waist, lifting her to insert his penis.
The man is standing in front of the bed and lifts the woman's legs to
to penetrate it.
The woman is lying on her back, bringing her breasts together with her hands forming a
tunnel and lubricates the inside of the tunnel. The man, kneeling on top of her,
he penetrates his erect penis into the tunnel while the woman caresses herself
breasts.
The woman is lying on her back and raising her legs, holding her feet.
with the hands.
The man places the woman's legs at the height of his arms and, taking her by
the waist, penetrates it.
The woman's feet are on the man's back, who can thus
penetrate her deeply.
The woman is lying on her back and the man is kneeling between her.
legs holding her buttocks with one hand and her feet with the other.
The woman is lying on her back and puts one of her feet on her back.
of the man while the other remains suspended freely.
In this position, the man is usually lying on his back, allowing for
the woman plays a much more active role in the sexual relationship. In this way she
it can change the angle of penetration and its intensity, and
it will perfectly regulate your level of arousal and pleasure. This position is conducive
it also allows the man to better control his ejaculation. It is even
possible for the woman to stretch her legs and stay seated on the man to
print rotation movements without losing contact with the penis. In short, it is
This position can be defined as one of the most rewarding for the couple.
The same previous position, but the woman is looking at the man's face.
The man leans against a wall and picks up the woman sitting between his
arms with hands together. She takes the man by the waist against her legs
and leaning against them on the same wall that his partner makes movements
of back and forth.
The woman takes the penis with her hand and makes it penetrate into her vagina as if it were a
aspiration will be addressed. Once inside it will oppress them with the vaginal muscles and it
it will remain so for a while. During penetration, the woman moves in a way
circular about man.
The man leaning on his back lifts half of his body and the woman applies.
in the middle of yours, with the penis inside the vagina and without pulling out, movements
oscillatory. When the woman is exhausted, she rests with the penis inside her
vagina and they switch positions with the man starting again the
action.
The man is sitting and the woman sits on top of him facing him and hugging him.
The man with one hand grabs the woman's buttocks and with the other supports himself on the
bed.
The man is lying on his back with his legs open and the woman is
she is on top of him, between his legs, inserting the penis into her vagina.
The man and the woman are standing side by side facing each other and the man introduces
the penis in the vagina, with the woman having the man between her legs.
The man and the woman are lying opposite each other and the legs of the
woman is above the man's shoulders, who introduces his penis into the
vagina.
The man and the woman are standing, the man supporting with his
penis and its arms the weight of her.
The woman is reclining on her side and with her back to the man who is also reclining.
she penetrates from behind.
The woman is lying face down and the man stretches on top of her
penetrating her.
The woman hangs with her feet and hands forward and the man behind her.
he grabs her by the waist and penetrates her.
The woman kneels on the bed and the man penetrates her as if she were a horse.
will try.
The woman kneels with her head touching the bed and the man behind her.
Kneeling on the bed, he also grabs her by the waist and penetrates her.
The woman lying on her stomach with her legs open is penetrated by the
man who is holding her by the shoulders.
The man sits on a chair and the woman sits on top of him giving him the
back while he grabs her by the waist and penetrates her.
The man and the woman are sitting face to face in a chair.
The woman is lying on her side with one of her legs raised while
that the man penetrates her from behind.
The woman takes a point of support (furniture, tree, wall, etc.), and the man the
penetrates from behind the foot.
The inverted sexual positions help to channel sexual energy towards the
brain and also stimulate the glands, circulation, and the nervous system.
WHERE TO SIN
But whatever you do, never take the other person to the
marital home and above all never engage in the sport of
infidelity in the car or on the beach. Please, can we be unfaithful?
but we still have dignity.
WHY SIN
Because it feels good and fires up the adrenaline. Simply put. What a...
nonsense of section, as if excuses were needed for something like that...
HOW TO SIN
What they should do: wear expensive perfume (the most expensive one)
store), dress elegantly, cut nails, get a haircut,
to trim the hairs in the nose and ears, to reserve a table
discreetly in an expensive restaurant, wash the car, change
underwear, brushing teeth, quoting Antonio Gala, telling her
she is gorgeous (even if it's a big lie)
enormous), pay the restaurant bill discreetly and of the
hotel, take her by the hand and show interest in her feelings, tell her
that you will call her again (even if it's a lie).
What they must not do: Smoke like a truck driver, laugh like
a teen idiot, wearing pants, talking about kids,
talk about Cristina Almeida, paint your nails black, talk about your
family or ask about the other person's family, grab them by the
dude, wearing grandma's underwear, talking about the boyfriends that
you had, to say that your head hurts, to have your period, to ask him if he has
read something by Luis Antonio de Villena, talk about the gossip press,
mention what he earns in a year (which will be much more than him).
What they must do: Shave, wear black stockings and a dress
of straps (not at the same time), to be interested in the power of
his car, stroke his neck, offer him a massage, tell him how great
What does the member have, take tanning bed sessions before the
meeting, wear red and black underwear, put on heels,
Tell her that he is the first man she has been unfaithful to her husband with.
It is 'in'.
You can tell your friends, and it's not frowned upon (if not
the complete opposite).
If you are of a somewhat advanced age, being unfaithful with someone younger
it can help you feel younger and boost your ego.
Arguments against
Undoubtedly, the desirable thing in a couple's relationship is that you neither are nor will be.
unfaithful. Of course, it's easy to say, but do you know how to achieve it?
The golden rule is: avoid jealousy. The first mistake is to show jealousy.
excessive. The only thing you will achieve is for your better half to confirm that it is
capable of going through life breaking hearts.
Do not underestimate your partner's friends, you will only push her to...
I tried to deepen that relationship that bothers you so much to prove to you that
that person you disdain is better than you think and... who says that
By delving so deeply into friendship, I ended up in something dangerously intimate.
Don't expose in front of your partner that someone really appeals to you.
attractive. You will only get your other half to do the same and finally
Focus your eyes on a person who is truly worth getting to know.
Don't torture your partner by telling them what you would do if you 'caught' them being
unfaithful. Without noticing, you will be taking for granted that the slip can happen.
Never forget that saying which assures: 'an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth.'
"tooth". Keep in mind that if you decide to be unfaithful, your partner may take the bull.
by the horns and the retaliation will come.
If your partner repeatedly praises the virtues of another, analyze if you are
capable of matching that person. Keep in mind that in this type of
comment generally "reminds you" of what I would like to find in you.
If you notice that your partner looks more handsome/beautiful than usual, don't make
the mistake of asking for whom it is being fixed. It assumes it is for you
and spare him the guilt that your inappropriate comment would generate.
Don't stop telling your partner that you feel very happy about what you have done.
achieved together.
Listen to your partner, dialogue is usually the best way to save it.
differences and improve the relationship.
Confess an infidelity
Without a doubt, confessing infidelity cannot be easy, and doing so means, afterwards
of everything, a personal decision. Of course, when it comes to evaluating the pros and the
against deciding whether or not to take this step, it is inevitable that fear will appear.
punishment, to be abandoned and not to be forgiven.
These are, precisely, the three reasons why the majority prefer
to treasure the secret and live, in most cases, with guilt for
to have deceived the person who loves them.
But without a doubt, those who have reached this situation and are facing it.
the problematic one is far from being a victim, as the one who has decided to be unfaithful
has had the opportunity to choose and, therefore, is responsible for their
acts.
Each one will know what the mitigating factors to consider in their case are.
in particular, and probably, these will be decisive when it comes to deciding or
not to open a mature dialogue with your partner to talk about what happened.
The truth is that choosing silence more than once proves to be more harmful than
to run the risks that come with the truth, for holding on to a lie
It requires a lot of energy and not everyone is prepared to live with it.
this heavy load.
Over 65 years: 53% said they could not forgive infidelity, while
that 40% of those surveyed claimed to be capable of forgiving.