Tuesday, April 20, 2021

420, 4/20, April 20

 Today is an auspicious one. No matter which way you read it or celebrate it, or smoke it, today has been one helluva day!

Waking up and after watching a bit of the news, wondering if the jury in the Chauvin case would have a verdict or if their deliberations would take longer. Then the MITM came in and asked if I'd read the NYT yet. When he found I hadn't, he told me that Idriss Deby, the president of Chad, was dead after a "clash with rebels" near the Libyan border. This is the country that the MITM used to work in (remember deepestdarkestafrica?)  Deby was a dictator and, to my mind, a destroyer, not a savior or a just leader, of his country, so while his death will be immortalized and he will be lauded, the movement to supplant his son, the new ruler, will be quick. 

But, here, in America, the first steps towards healing, justice, and accountability for all came around 5PM Eastern daylight time. This country was prepared for the worst, a not guilty verdict because, sadly, that is what we've come to expect. Today, that changed. It changed so much that even Chauvin was surprised to hear he wasn't acquitted! You could see the expression on his face. I have to admit, but I was among those who expected him to be found not guilty but hoped I was wrong. It is a sad reality for POC to expect, as we say, the short end of the stick when it comes to justice, especially when it comes to criminal justice. So, you know I was pleasantly surprised, as was everyone watching TV or following live feeds on a computer. This verdict will not bring George Floyd back to his family, nor will it erase the trauma experienced by those who stood on the sidewalk and watched, while they pleaded for the police to stop, George Floyd's life end.

I don't know why all of this happened today, but it did. Will Chad have a more equitable future for all its citizens?  If history is any guide, the odds are against it. Will America be better for this verdict? Perhaps, but it is a start and we can not and will not go backwards from it.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      

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A little levity:

There's a site on Instagram called "Overheard in L.A." and I have one:

Guy: Idriss Deby died.

Gal:  Oh no! That's horrible!

Gal: Wait, wait, I thought you said Idriss Elba died!  Dude, I work in Hollywood, don't scare me like that!                                                                     

Thursday, April 8, 2021

Happy Birthday to The Dancing Lady!!

 Today is "The 30th Anniversary of The Dancing Lady's Quinces"  so she has elected on that other social media site to share the following photos with a few sartorial additions this year!





Thirty years ago, well I'll let her tell it:


This time I'm wearing the tiara and nails my Mami wouldn't let me wear the first time around. That's the benefit of being 45!*


I hope you'll join us in wishing The Dancing Lady the happiest of happy days!

Oh yeah, her birthday request, now that we're all vaccinated, is for the entire krewe to gather and share the MITM's famous gumbo this Saturday! There will be pictures!!

xoxo



*To be perfectly clear, I don't think The Dancing Lady has EVER worn nails this long!


Tuesday, April 6, 2021

06 April 2021

 Checking in with all y'all because I ain't got much to share today which is why this is being posted at 21:55!

Yeah, I've been MIA, I know, but there's a reason (it's weak, I know) that I've been absent. You see, I've been scrolling through that other social media site and ignoring the news, except for what pops up in my email, and I can't seem to organize my thoughts to blog! 

Weird, right? 

Anyway, this too shall pass. 

The MITM is finally getting a new phone and mine has been repaired, so we're all iPhone people now. (Don't judge or try to dissuade us, we've paid the money and that's the end of it.) I don't know why any or all of this is relevant, but that's the way it is around here! 

SweetMarySunshine, I will try and get myself in gear this week, I pinkie promise!