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The Language of Flowers by Vanessa Diffenbaugh
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really liked it

I love flowers although my knowledge of them is fairly limited, and I really liked this story, where flowers played a central role.

The Language of Flowers is a story about Victoria, now a young woman, who was recently emancipated from the court system at 18. She struggles with feelings of abandonment and low self-esteem, as a result of a series of events from her past, stemming from growing up as an orphan. She lives in San Francisco and works in a flower shop. She has no friends, limited relationships, and initially, pretty limited human interaction. Without directly stating this, it becomes clear that she’s afraid of getting close to people, for fear of hurting them as she expects she will yet again, be a disappointment.

The book shifts between Victoria’s life in present day, described above, and her life as a child, predominately in one of her foster homes at age 9. The story easily transitions back and forth between the two time periods. In addition to the flowers themselves, Victoria’s foster mother, Elizabeth, and Elizabeth’s nephew, Grant, are also central characters in the story.

At times I thought Victoria was intentionally dislikable, and constantly engaging in self-destructive behavior. I realized though that her abandonment issues played a big role in why she chose to do some of the things she did. Despite my dislike of Victoria for a fair portion of the book, I really enjoyed the story, although a bit darker than I was expecting. I did like the ending of the story too.

The Language of Flowers has messages of family, forgiveness, and learning to know one’s self, in addition to the interpretation of flowers’ various meanings.
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Reading Progress

February 7, 2016 – Shelved
February 7, 2016 – Shelved as: to-read
May 2, 2018 – Started Reading
May 2, 2018 –
page 55
17.03%
May 2, 2018 –
page 91
28.17%
May 3, 2018 –
page 200
61.92%
May 5, 2018 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by Tania (last edited May 06, 2018 07:45AM) (new) - rated it 3 stars

Tania Great review, I also sometimes struggled to like Victoria.


Lisa Love this book!


Jaline Loved your review, Brandice! I read this a few years ago and your experience with it almost exactly paralleled mine!


Tammy Wonderful review, Brandice! I had trouble with Victoria, too


JanB Terrific review Brandice! I read this when it was first released and enjoyed it a lot - my book club had a great discussion. I agree she did some things that seemed unforgivable but knowing her history brought understanding and shed light on the foster care system.


Brandice Tammy wrote: "Wonderful review, Brandice! I had trouble with Victoria, too"

Tania wrote: "Great review, I also sometimes struggled to like Victoria."

Thanks Tania and Tammy! I’m glad I’m not the only one who felt that way about Victoria, but I did try to keep in mind where she was coming home/ her foster care experiences that had shaped her.


Brandice Jaline wrote: "Loved your review, Brandice! I read this a few years ago and your experience with it almost exactly paralleled mine!"

Thanks Jaline, it’s always nice to know your feelings about a particular book are shared by someone else!


Brandice JanB wrote: "Terrific review Brandice! I read this when it was first released and enjoyed it a lot - my book club had a great discussion. I agree she did some things that seemed unforgivable but knowing her his..."

I agree, Jan, it definitely shed some light for me. I can see how this book would make a great discussion for a book club!


message 9: by Rachel (new)

Rachel Excellent review!!! I’m adding it to my list.


message 10: by Megan (new) - added it

Megan Terrific review Brandice, this book sounds so interesting !!


Brandice Rachel wrote: "Excellent review!!! I’m adding it to my list."

Thanks Rachel, I look forward to your thoughts on it once you read it! :)


Brandice Megan wrote: "Terrific review Brandice, this book sounds so interesting !!"

Thanks Megan! :)


Jeannie Nice review, I loved this book!


Canadian Jen This was a terrific read. Glad you enjoyed it too :)


message 15: by Deanna (new)

Deanna Great review, Brandice!!


Susanne Wonderful review Brandice!


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