Ateneo de Zamboanga University
The Jesuit University in Western Mindanao since 1912
Bengil, Adrian Paul N. 07/3/2024
BSAc-2 B – BUSMAN101 B
Insults are hurtful comments or actions that show disrespect towards
others. They have an immense effect on an individual's emotional health and
sense of self. It is never enjoyable to be the target of an insult, and it might cause
depression, angry, or even sad sentiments. Insults have the power to ruin
relationships, make individuals feel unwanted or undervalued, and create a bad
environment. Insults can cause bullying, social isolation, a decline in productivity,
or poor academic performance in the workplace, school, or other social contexts.
Comprehending the motivations behind others' insults and being equipped with
appropriate responses helps lessen the damaging effects of these unpleasant
exchanges, creating an environment that is more courteous and encouraging for
all parties.
The speaker introduces to us reasons as to why people insult others for
various reasons. One important component is insecurity; people who are insecure
about themselves frequently attempt to manipulate others by making them feel
inferior. For instance, a jealous sibling may make fun of you in an attempt to
boost their self-esteem. Another motivation for insults is jealousy. Someone who
is jealous of your accomplishments or positive traits may make negative
comments about you in an effort to make you feel superior. A jealous coworker
may make fun of your appearance or profession because they believe you receive
more recognition. Additionally, a lack of understanding can lead to insults. People
may not comprehend the significance of their comments, particularly if they are
unaware of the difficulties others face. For example, peers who are unaware of
the true struggles may make fun of someone young who struggles with speech.
Finally, some insults originate from humorous jokes. People who are fond of you
may tease you since they don't realize it can occasionally be hurtful.
When faced with an insult, it’s essential to respond rather than react. The
first step is to remain composed. Those who insult frequently aim to get a
response, so you can't satisfy them if you keep your composure. Before
answering, take a few deep breaths and gather your thoughts. It's crucial to
communicate your feelings. You can make the offender aware of the impact of
their statements by gently letting them know how they make you feel. Sometimes
the best course of action is to ignore the insult. This demonstrates to the offender
that you are unaffected by their remarks. Ignoring an insult might be as simple as
changing the topic or getting up and leaving. Humor is another way to relieve
tension. Jokingly reacting to the insulter can demonstrate your indifference and
possibly even get them to rethink their remarks. Lastly, in order to guarantee that
such behavior is addressed, it is important that you report serious insults
pertaining to gender, sexual orientation, religion, or handicap to the relevant
authorities.
As someone who enjoys joking around with close friends and family, I
sometimes don't realize that my jokes can actually hurt them. I often miss reading
the situation to see if my jokes are appropriate or if they might upset someone. I
admit there are times when I joke about serious things or make fun of others'
feelings, which can lead to arguments when I brush it off as just a joke. Over time,
I've learned it's important to consider how my jokes might affect others and what
they might be going through.
We all face challenges in life, and joking around can be a way to lighten the
mood and feel better. However, it's crucial to be careful with jokes because
people can be sensitive, especially about certain topics or when they're going
through tough times. Before making jokes about someone, it's important to think
about their situation and how they might feel about it. Being considerate helps us
maintain good relationships and avoid unintentionally hurting others.
Remembering to apologize if a joke goes wrong shows respect and helps repair
any hurt feelings, ensuring that our relationships stay strong and positive.
