fix(cache): enhance unique key handling in AfterDelete and AfterUpdate

- Refactored AfterDelete and AfterUpdate functions to improve unique key extraction from the database statement.
- Added logic to handle cases where the schema is not directly available, ensuring all unique indexes are invalidated correctly.
- Improved cache invalidation logging for better traceability during delete and update operations.

update: update ignore file

fix: fix cache storage config invalid error

fix #15

fix: fix cache config CacheMaxItemCnt error

fix: fix pluck query panic issue

Merge branch 'main' of ssh://github.com/asjdf/gorm-cache

fix: move after_query position

Merge branch 'main' into dev

fix: fix key of singleflight not contains vars

update: fix hit count for query when hit notFound cache