aws.lambda.Function: use seperate folders for zipping so recursiong d…

…oes not happen on mac

sst.aws.Function: remove double copyFile

remove extra logs from npm installing packages

sst.aws.Function: fix not installing `nodejs.install` packages

Postgres: do not retain secret on remove

pulumi: update to 3.136.1

fix: readding folder paths (anomalyco#1248)

* fix: bundling with multiple dots in filename

* fix: readding folder paths

* fix: retain folder dots

aws.lambda.Function: fix Handelr not found issue when absolute paths …

…are passed in

ci: fix build

aws.sst.Function: make node builder threadsafe