refactor: align move and sync progress and status reporting (#1218)

* refactor: align runner progress and sync status formatting

Signed-off-by: Morgan Tocker <mtocker@squareup.com>

* test: isolate progress polling from connection budget coverage

Signed-off-by: Morgan Tocker <mtocker@squareup.com>

* fix: report actual per-table row counts and pace progress polling

Signed-off-by: Morgan Tocker <mtocker@squareup.com>

* fix: exclude shadow tables from progress row estimates

Signed-off-by: Morgan Tocker <mtocker@squareup.com>

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Signed-off-by: Morgan Tocker <mtocker@squareup.com>

Merge pull request #1107 from morgo/bump-go-mysql-org

bump go-mysql-org dependency

Merge pull request #981 from morgo/improve-logging

Improve logging levels

Merge pull request #975 from morgo/allow-wildcard-grants

support wildcard grants in priv check

Merge pull request #878 from morgo/fix-checksum-recopy

fix: SingleTargetApplier.UpsertRows mis-aligns columns when source has STORED generated columns

Merge pull request #833 from Kiran01bm/kiran01bm-ci-skip-docs-only

Kiran01bm ci skip docs only

Merge pull request #678 from morgo/add-fmt-docs

Add docs for fmt subcommand

Merge pull request #667 from morgo/add-declarative-to-imperative

Add PlanChanges and DeclarativeToImperative to API

Merge pull request #662 from morgo/mtocker-allow-roles

revert role usage

Merge pull request #661 from morgo/fix-late-error

fix late error