Wednesday, December 31, 2008
I AM SO SORRY TARA!
Sunday, December 28, 2008
She's Walking!
Friday, December 26, 2008
Family Pictures
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
One of those sounds...
Monday, December 22, 2008
Eliza's New Favorite
Sunday, December 21, 2008
Saturday, December 20, 2008
Christmas Pageant
Saturday, December 13, 2008
Christmas at the Ranch
Thursday, December 11, 2008
I'm gonna miss this!
Saturday, December 6, 2008
Jingle Bell Hike to Santa
Thursday, December 4, 2008
Christmas Cookie Exchange
Monday, December 1, 2008
It's Christmas Time!
Friday, November 28, 2008
Thanksgiving 2008
What a whirlwind weekend! We drove to San Diego for Thanksgiving again this year--so fun! (Not the drive, but the being there) The best part about it was getting to see our newest little niece--Lainey Grace! She's such a sweet baby and did not mind being passed around too much! (Or grabbed by her overexcited cousins!!)
Thanksgiving itself was DELICIOUS! I made Webster rolls and was in charge of pie crust. The rolls and the crust turned out fantastic. Too bad that the person who made the pumpkin filling forgot the sugar!!! The day was not ruined though--once we figured it out, I scooped out all the pumpkin filling and stirred in some powdered sugar (someone suggested powdered because the granulated sugar would be too grainy) and a little honey...and it turned out ok. The pies were edible and disappeared shortly thereafter. We had a lot of fun with Kayley's in-laws, the Krages and their kids and dog, Wrinkles. And they were so gracious and let us stay at their house again!
A definite shining moment was when Uncle Jake arrived from Michigan (he was there with Tara for Thanksgiving). Xander was a little unsure why Uncle Jake wasn't with Nana & Grumpy but he flew in on Friday and when he woke Xander up from his nap (YEAH! He took a nap!!) it was quite the reunion. Through very groggy eyes Xander said, "It's...it's Uncle Jake! It's Uncle Jake!!" And flew into his arms and wouldn't let go for awhile. A very emotional mommy (ok, tired more like it since Eliza did not figure out how to switch time zones and we were up at 5 AM every day--or maybe it was because she was on the verge of the double ear infection she is now fighting??) got a little teary to see how excited her son was--I never realized that someone so young could actually miss people--but Xander sure does!!
Some other activities while there included: a trip to Balboa Park--what a beautiful place! We even got to go to the model train museum. Ben & I got away on a date and hung out with Nicci & Steve (Nicci and I are friends from High School) and we went to the BEST Italian restaurant. We knew it was going to be good when the waiters & everyone there spoke Italian. :) I also ran away and finally went and bought a new pair of pants!!! YEAH!! I also got to see another good friend, Sandy, for lunch on Saturday...we got back all the way to 6th grade!! Fun Times!!
Lainey was blessed on Saturday evening--a beautiful blessing given by her father and then we left Sunday morning. Xander summed it up best as we were leaving:
Xander: "Dad, I forgot something."
Ben: "What did you forget?"
Xander: "Something"
Ben: "Xander, do you want to turn around and stay with Aunt Kayley longer?"
Xander: "Yes, Dad. I don't want to go back to my small house."
All in good time buddy!!! :) Happy Thanksgiving to all & May you enjoy this holiday season!
Saturday, November 22, 2008
Phoenix Zoo--Daddy's First Trip!
Thursday, November 20, 2008
4 years ago today--It's Official
Ben & I drove to the temple holding hands (what a faux pas!!) while my parents drove. We got all settled in the temple and were joined by lots of our family & friends. We got married!! YEAH! We had a reception that night and then we left for the Thanksgiving break. (We were in our senior year at BYU--not much time to party!!)...our real Honeymoon has been on hold BUT will take place in May 2009 after graduation!! YAHOO!
4 years later, 2 kids, lots of moves and no settling yet we are happier and more in love than ever. Ben is my strength, my best friend, my lover, my studly defender and so much more. Even when I have hard days, he knows how to bring a smile to my face. He has a song for everything or makes one up if he can't think of one. He treats me better than I ever think I deserve. He's everything I've ever wanted & so much more. I love growing up & old with you Ben--I love always and in all ways!! XOXOX Happy Anniversary!!!
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
I've Been Tagged
8 Shows I like to watch (Ok, I watch TV once or twice a week but here's what I check up on)
1. Biggest Loser
2. Numbers
3. House
4. Price is Right
5. Law & Order: SVU
6. the News
7. CSI
8. 11th Hour
8 Favorite Restaurants
1. Balcony Bistro
2. Rice Express
3. Elephant Bar
4. La Bou
5. Lenny's Burgers
6. My Brother Vinny's
7. Visconti's
8. Costa Vida/ Cafe Rio, etc
8 Things I Did Yesterday
1. Swam at the gym
2. Made Sourdough French Toast
3. Cleaned kitchen & living room
4. Read the Ensign (Conference Edition)
5. Went to Enrichment (church) dinner for woman
6. Visited Becky & Colton
7. Read Stories
8. Took a walk w/ the kiddos
8 Things I'm Looking Forward To
1. My anniversary tomorrow
2. Thanksgiving w/ my sis & her new baby!!
3. Ben's finals to be over for the trimester
4. Finding out where Intel is sending us!
5. Christmas in Folsom
6. Graduation in May!!
7. Trip to the Canary Islands in May!!
8. Leaving our tiny apartment!!!!!!!
8 Things On My Wishlist
1. a sewing machine & lessons on how to use it
2. new clothes since I've lost all the weight I gained with Xander & Eliza--yes, I'm back to my pre-baby weight!! YAHOO!
3. A good book & time to read it!
4. Time with my hubbie
5. a yard for my kids to play in
6. a drive way or garage that I can park my car in
7. a better memory
8. time with some old friends!!
Saturday, November 15, 2008
HAPPY #3 XANDER!
Thursday, November 13, 2008
Clothes
Friday, November 7, 2008
Time Out for Couples
1. Express gratitude each day
2. Prayer is a window into your spouses heart--pray aloud with your spouse daily; The single most important thing you can do for your marriage is pray together morning & night.
3. Be willing to be humble
4. Make your spouses happiness more important that your own
5. Embrace your differences and use them to compliment and create the perfect package/team
6. Lower your expectations
7. Receive unconditionally
8. How you deal with your spouses imperfections will greatly affect your marriage
The speakers (Mark Mabry, Richard & Kathleen Walker, Douglas Brinley) were awesome and Peter Brinholt did several musical performances. The best part of the night (hands down) was when we won a $50 gift card to Deseret Book! YAHOO for us!!!
Also, for any of you Arizona people out there--why aren't there any creamery's or ice cream parlors around? (Like a Leatherby's?? Even Cold Stone??) We really wanted to go out to ice cream afterwards and could NOT find anything! It was really sad when we ended up at Jack in the Box for one of their "hand" scooped milkshakes....
Ahh, but THANK YOU Mom & Dad Webster for the gift...it was truly refreshing!
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
Holy Yum Batman!!
Eliza is such a good eater--she is still toothless but enjoys exactly what we are eating--she does NOT like too much baby food. She's devoured dishes such as: Sweet & Sour meatballs, Tuna Casserole, Chicken Pot Pie, Potato Soup, Pumpkin dinner, Oatmeal w/ apples & raisins--and of course her favorites: bread & cheese. :) I wish Xander were such a good eater!
Not everyone should vote...
Monday, November 3, 2008
Jack
Here's is our little "Jack". No, we didn't make him in time for Halloween (it's becoming a tradition!!). This time though I waited because 'J' week was the week after Halloween, so I just waited until then. :) Xander had lots of fun cutting up the pumpkin--and Ben and I, who have never used the cheat sheets before, were amazed at how easy pumpkin carving can be!
Friday, October 31, 2008
Halloween Activities
Tolmachoff Farms
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
My Political Musings....
In recent discussion with several people I have finally found my political voice so, since this is my blog, please excuse this digression from our regular family pictures and stories.
On the way home from his leadership retreat Ben was discussing politics with a fellow classmate. His (the students) question was, “When there is much more pressing issues at hand, why do we have to be fighting the marriage definition fight again?” Ben replied, “I agree. In these times, there are more pressing issues. Therefore, the status quo should continue. But since it is not, we must fight for what we believe in.”
Here are some of the many reasons why I am voting for Proposition 8:
-I believe marriage is ordained of God. (Hear me out). Marriage was a religious institution. I would rather government get out of the marrying business, stop the tax breaks for married people, and let marriage be a religious institution again than have it redefined to meet the needs of a minority.
-Proposition 8 is not about “RIGHTS” it is about “PRIVILEGES”. Marriage is not a RIGHT. It is a PRIVILEGE. Everyone has the opportunity to marry—Prop 8 will not take away that right. It will only uphold certain standards of WHO you can marry. It is a slippery slope once we start redefining words. (Anyone remember reading the book, 1984??)
-Proposition 8 is on the ballot AGAIN (remember 2000 and Prop 22 a proposition that passed 2 to 1?) because the CA Supreme Court found that the Constitution must allow homosexuals to marry. My friend Robert put it best: “The Court simply felt that their personal preferences were superior to the democratic process and ruled for a "right" that they made up out of whole cloth. Back away for a second from the specifics of this case. Try to forget that this question is and has been a hot button issue all over the country. This ultimately comes down to who makes the rules in this country. Do the people through their elected legislators (and in some areas like California the direct Proposition process) make the laws? Or do 9 people sitting behind closed doors (or really 5 since that is all that is needed for a majority) get to make up any rule that they feel is appropriate? If a majority of the Supreme Court ruled tomorrow that they found an emanation from a penumbra of the Constitution that required taxes to be 75%, would you still think that this was a good way to make laws? What if they decided that parents would not be permitted to raise their children, and that the State would be taking every child away form their parents? Sound ridiculous? Yes actually, it does look ridiculous form where we are today. No judge could possibly be that far divorced from reality. Did that emanation of a penumbra business a second ago sound silly to you? Unfortunately I am not totally making that up. Those were approximately the words used by the US Supreme Court 25 years ago to invalidate the will of the people and legalize abortion all across the country. Again, back away from the specifics of Roe v. Wade. It doesn't matter whether you support abortion or not. The important question is whether or not you think that judges can decide that their personal preferences should be the law. Maybe you think that abortions should be unlimited and that any two people should be allowed to marry and have their relationship approved of by everyone. I will never say that your political opinions are invalid, you are free to have them. But should your opinions be forced upon everyone, regardless of how laws are supposed to be made? If Roe v. Wade or the more recent California decision regarding gay marriage were never taken up by the courts, and the proper processes were followed to legalize abortion and gay marriage through the legislatures, I would not be so upset. I still wouldn't agree with them, as is my right to having my own opinion, but if they were the legitimate law of the land, I would see them exactly that way, as legitimate. But since, as happened, a few men and women in black robes came and said "We know that these positions would never be supported by the people, so we are going to make them into law anyway," I will fight them as long as there is breath in my body. We cannot have unelected judges dictate the law to us. Even if you agree with the ends, think about the precedent that is being set. The courts five, ten, or a hundred years from now may not agree with you, or the majority of the voters in our democracy. The merits or problems with abortion and homosexual marriage and every other important issue should be decided through the democratic process. The courts have a role that is very valuable. They prevent the democratic process from being abused. But if the judiciary continually abuses their authority and usurps the legislature, everyone loses. You may not feel like you have lost yet, especially if recent decisions have gone you way, but just wait until your rights are trampled upon by the courts. Who will be there to defend you then? Whether your support or oppose gay marriage, I hope you will join me in opposing judicial tyranny. The Courts need to be firmly told that, while they have a valuable place in our political process, abuse of their power will not be tolerated. This will not be the end of the fight but rather the beginning. We have a long way to go to fix our system, but I believe that it is one worth saving.”
Now, this Presidential election has also been very difficult for me as I (once again) feel like I have Tweedle-Dee and Tweedle-Dum to choose from. But as I understand that either a Democrat or a Republican will most likely win, I am forced to choose between what I feel is the “lesser of two evils” than who I really would want as President of this country that I love. Here are some of my thoughts:
-I cannot support a man who has come out against the Constitution. I believe the constitution was an inspired document. (see: The Divinely Inspired Constitution, by Dallin Oaks @ www.lds.org).
-I cannot support a man who believes in the redistribution of wealth. I believe that there are times when people need help getting back on their feet BUT our current system already allows for people to live off of this “help”. And I know why—who wouldn’t want $430 a month for groceries for a family of 4? That’s a lot of money and we can buy the best of the best foods.
-I cannot support a man who so fully supports abortion. I absolutely agree that there are times when abortion should be considered—abortion should be upheld as in Roe v. Wade, I am not calling for it to be overturned. However, with more than 40 million abortions performed per year (Maria Cheng, “Abortion Just as Common in Nations Where It’s Illegal”, Salt Lake Tribune, Oct 12, 2007) it is obvious that it is used for more than needs but instead as a form of birth control. Which I do not agree with.
-I cannot support those who believe in bigger government. I am tired of politicians—it is a career—it is their life. (ok, both candidates fall into this category of being career politicians but at least one wants a little less government)
-I would vote for the first person to say, “Enough with the campaigning…I’m going to take the MILLIONS of dollars I would have wasted on it and give it the poor or to help the current economy.”
-The Economy? Guess what, it’s part of the ebbs & flows of life. When Ben & I got married, everyone said, “BUY, BUY, BUY.” We didn’t have the money to buy a home but they told us to take out an interest only loan—we didn’t. A lot of people did. That was their choice. I, personally, am glad they did it because they messed the housing market up so bad that we will be able to afford a home when Ben starts work next year. So, thank you! Is there a plan to fix it? Absolutely, but I do not think it is in socializing medicine or adding more government fix-it programs.Personally, I’m in love with MBA’s—find someone who knows something about business and I bet they could fix it faster and more efficiently than almost any politician…oh wait, dare I say it, we should have had a Mitt Romney-type??
oKaY! I’m sorry but I felt the need to vent. I know we may all have differences of opinions…and that is what is so great about this country! So please know that I don’t care who you are voting for, I would love to hear why, and I wish the next President the best of luck, and I still love all of YOU!
Sunday, October 19, 2008
Dinner Guests!
We had so much fun with
Saturday, October 18, 2008
This came in the mail today...
Friday, October 17, 2008
opinions needed
UPDATE: We are making Chicken with Curry Sauce, Golden Fruit Chutney, Sauteed Veggies, Rolls and Homemade ice cream...here goes!