Only use memory resources that haven't been freed - #7

This implements stacktrace and adds a stacktrace string into any exception thrown by cudf. By doing so, the exception carries information about where it originated, allowing the downstream application to trace back with much less effort.

Closes NVIDIA#12422.

### Example:
```
#0: cudf/cpp/build/libcudf.so : std::unique_ptr<cudf::column, std::default_delete<cudf::column> > cudf::detail::sorted_order<false>(cudf::table_view, std::vector<cudf::order, std::allocator<cudf::order> > const&, std::vector<cudf::null_order, std::allocator<cudf::null_order> > const&, rmm::cuda_stream_view, rmm::mr::device_memory_resource*)+0x446
#1: cudf/cpp/build/libcudf.so : cudf::detail::sorted_order(cudf::table_view const&, std::vector<cudf::order, std::allocator<cudf::order> > const&, std::vector<cudf::null_order, std::allocator<cudf::null_order> > const&, rmm::cuda_stream_view, rmm::mr::device_memory_resource*)+0x113
#2: cudf/cpp/build/libcudf.so : std::unique_ptr<cudf::column, std::default_delete<cudf::column> > cudf::detail::segmented_sorted_order_common<(cudf::detail::sort_method)1>(cudf::table_view const&, cudf::column_view const&, std::vector<cudf::order, std::allocator<cudf::order> > const&, std::vector<cudf::null_order, std::allocator<cudf::null_order> > const&, rmm::cuda_stream_view, rmm::mr::device_memory_resource*)+0x66e
#3: cudf/cpp/build/libcudf.so : cudf::detail::segmented_sort_by_key(cudf::table_view const&, cudf::table_view const&, cudf::column_view const&, std::vector<cudf::order, std::allocator<cudf::order> > const&, std::vector<cudf::null_order, std::allocator<cudf::null_order> > const&, rmm::cuda_stream_view, rmm::mr::device_memory_resource*)+0x88
#4: cudf/cpp/build/libcudf.so : cudf::segmented_sort_by_key(cudf::table_view const&, cudf::table_view const&, cudf::column_view const&, std::vector<cudf::order, std::allocator<cudf::order> > const&, std::vector<cudf::null_order, std::allocator<cudf::null_order> > const&, rmm::mr::device_memory_resource*)+0xb9
#5: cudf/cpp/build/gtests/SORT_TEST : ()+0xe3027
#6: cudf/cpp/build/lib/libgtest.so.1.13.0 : void testing::internal::HandleExceptionsInMethodIfSupported<testing::Test, void>(testing::Test*, void (testing::Test::*)(), char const*)+0x8f
#7: cudf/cpp/build/lib/libgtest.so.1.13.0 : testing::Test::Run()+0xd6
#8: cudf/cpp/build/lib/libgtest.so.1.13.0 : testing::TestInfo::Run()+0x195
#9: cudf/cpp/build/lib/libgtest.so.1.13.0 : testing::TestSuite::Run()+0x109
#10: cudf/cpp/build/lib/libgtest.so.1.13.0 : testing::internal::UnitTestImpl::RunAllTests()+0x44f
#11: cudf/cpp/build/lib/libgtest.so.1.13.0 : bool testing::internal::HandleExceptionsInMethodIfSupported<testing::internal::UnitTestImpl, bool>(testing::internal::UnitTestImpl*, bool (testing::internal::UnitTestImpl::*)(), char const*)+0x87
#12: cudf/cpp/build/lib/libgtest.so.1.13.0 : testing::UnitTest::Run()+0x95
#13: cudf/cpp/build/gtests/SORT_TEST : ()+0xdb08c
#14: /lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libc.so.6 : ()+0x29d90
#15: /lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libc.so.6 : __libc_start_main()+0x80
NVIDIA#16: cudf/cpp/build/gtests/SORT_TEST : ()+0xdf3d5
```

### Usage

In order to retrieve a stacktrace with fully human-readable symbols, some compiling options must be adjusted. To make such adjustment convenient and effortless, a new cmake option (`CUDF_BUILD_STACKTRACE_DEBUG`) has been added. Just set this option to `ON` before building cudf and it will be ready to use.

For downstream applications, whenever a cudf-type exception is thrown, it can retrieve the stored stacktrace and do whatever it wants with it. For example:
```
try {
  // cudf API calls
} catch (cudf::logic_error const& e) {
  std::cout << e.what() << std::endl;
  std::cout << e.stacktrace() << std::endl;
  throw e;
} 
// similar with catching other exception types
```

### Follow-up work

The next step would be patching `rmm` to attach stacktrace into `rmm::` exceptions. Doing so will allow debugging various memory exceptions thrown from libcudf using their stacktrace.


### Note:
 * This feature doesn't require libcudf to be built in Debug mode.
 * The flag `CUDF_BUILD_STACKTRACE_DEBUG` should not be turned on in production as it may affect code optimization. Instead, libcudf compiled with that flag turned on should be used only when needed, when debugging cudf throwing exceptions.
 * This flag removes the current optimization flag from compiling (such as `-O2` or `-O3`, if in Release mode) and replaces by `-Og` (optimize for debugging).
 * If this option is not set to `ON`, the stacktrace will not be available. This is to avoid expensive stracktrace retrieval if the throwing exception is expected.

Authors:
  - Nghia Truong (https://github.com/ttnghia)

Approvers:
  - AJ Schmidt (https://github.com/ajschmidt8)
  - Robert Maynard (https://github.com/robertmaynard)
  - Vyas Ramasubramani (https://github.com/vyasr)
  - Jason Lowe (https://github.com/jlowe)

URL: NVIDIA#13298

Add xdf to package

Fixes call to `data_type{}` ctor in `json_test.cpp`. The 2-parameter ctor is for fixed-point-types only and will assert in a debug build if used incorrectly: https://github.com/rapidsai/cudf/blob/2db58d58b4a986c2c6fad457f291afb1609fd458/cpp/include/cudf/types.hpp#L277-L280

Partial stack trace from a gdb run
```
#5  0x000077b1530bc71b in __assert_fail_base (fmt=0x77b153271130 "%s%s%s:%u: %s%sAssertion `%s' failed.\n%n",
    assertion=0x58c3e4baaa98 "id == type_id::DECIMAL32 || id == type_id::DECIMAL64 || id == type_id::DECIMAL128",
    file=0x58c3e4baaa70 "/cudf/cpp/include/cudf/types.hpp", line=279, function=<optimized out>) at ./assert/assert.c:92
#6  0x000077b1530cde96 in __GI___assert_fail (
    assertion=0x58c3e4baaa98 "id == type_id::DECIMAL32 || id == type_id::DECIMAL64 || id == type_id::DECIMAL128",
    file=0x58c3e4baaa70 "/cudf/cpp/include/cudf/types.hpp", line=279, function=0x58c3e4baaa38 "cudf::data_type::data_type(cudf::type_id, int32_t)")
    at ./assert/assert.c:101
#7  0x000058c3e48ba594 in cudf::data_type::data_type (this=0x7fffdd3f7530, id=cudf::type_id::STRING, scale=0) at /cudf/cpp/include/cudf/types.hpp:279
#8  0x000058c3e49215d9 in JsonReaderTest_MixedTypesWithSchema_Test::TestBody (this=0x58c3e5ea13a0) at /cudf/cpp/tests/io/json/json_test.cpp:2887

```

Authors:
  - David Wendt (https://github.com/davidwendt)

Approvers:
  - Karthikeyan (https://github.com/karthikeyann)
  - Muhammad Haseeb (https://github.com/mhaseeb123)

URL: NVIDIA#17273