I have a few photos to share this July 23rd Friday! And a story to tell...
My Thursday was already full before the phone rang at 6:25 a.m. Helen's nurse called to tell me she was found on the floor of her room with both arms bleeding and was very confused. They called the EMTs and she was taken to the ER. I had just gotten up to get ready for work so continued my routine. I tried calling the hospital and was given the extensions for her nurse and the nurse's supervisor. Neither answered so I left messages telling them I was her POA and health care surrogate and would they please call me. I went ahead to work and let my boss know what was going on. I had already told him about Helen and my responsibilities for her. I tried calling the nurses two more times with no news, so my boss gave me permission to leave and I can make up the time today (doing six hours instead of four). Bless him. I don't have vacation or sick leave time and don't get paid if I'm not there.
When I got to the hospital, they had no information about her. I gave them the extensions I had been given and they were definitely ER numbers but there was no Helen in the computer. I stepped outside and called Brookdale. The ambulance had just brought her back 20 minutes before I called. Would have been so nice if someone (one place or the other) had let me know what was going on. The nurse at Brookdale was happy to learn I was at the hospital because there was a prescription at the hospital pharmacy and could I pick it up and bring it by. Sure. Turns out Helen has a touch of pneumonia, as well as her abrased elbows (no stitches).
I picked up the prescription and proceeded to Brookdale. Helen's nurse let me in (the memory wing is kept locked) and I gave her the pills. I walked into the dining area with the nurse and Helen was sitting at a table having lunch with three other ladies. She was animated and eating. I watched for a while and conversed with the nurse. I decided to not interrupt Helen and her companions. I could see that she was doing okay. The nurse and I talked about Hospice and she told me the Hospice nurse would be there later in the afternoon. I had already agreed to hospice care a week or so ago. I did get a call from the Hospice rep and will meet with them at Brookdale this afternoon. Hospice will be able to get a hospital bed for Helen and a wheelchair. Just those two things will be a big help for Helen and the caregivers.
Since I had some spare time, I went to Lowe's and got a new toilet seat for Helen's house. She had one of those extensions on hers and the seat had disappeared months ago. Cleaners are coming to the house on Monday and the carpet cleaner on Wednesday. The Realtor will come by on Wednesday to take photos and we will get a FOR SALE sign in the yard soon after.
I had the rest of Helen's clothing in the back of my car and had time to go by the Children's Home to drop them off at the donation site. Done. Filled my gas tank and then...
... back to my already full calendar. I had my mammogram appointment at 2:30 and got that done! (Update: I already got negative results in my patient portal!!) My small group from church was to meet at 6:00 but was canceled because most folks couldn't attend. I was sorry but not sorry. Whew!
Look closely... that is an Amazon jet flying into the Lakeland airport. I am sure there are probably packages on there destined for my house! We have a distribution center here in Lakeland and there are six or eight jets flying in and out of the hub at the airport every day.
This is where Helen lives. The memory care unit at Brookdale.
And this is Brookdale Assisted Living, where she lived before going to memory care.
Not sure who the car belongs to, but this is where I get my annual mammograms.
In the building, not in the car!! LOL
It is right across the street from our hospital and where Helen was (briefly) yesterday.
On my way home, This is a view of Lake Morton.
There were a lot of wood storks in one spot but I couldn't
get a good picture with a car behind me on my bumper.
Almost home, this is Lake Hunter. So much beauty in Lakeland.
Thanks for getting this far and reading about my woes. Helen can use your prayers. Thank goodness it is Friday and I have nothing on my Saturday calendar! Looking forward to getting away next weekend! Trading Lakeland for Ocala and Miconopy for a few days!
Peace & hugs!!
And Jesus does love you and me!!