That's right... September 21st is my day!
I asked The Mister recently to take a picture of me.
"You?" he asked in a sarcastic tone. Well, yes...me!
He is not into photos, selfies, social media or any kind
of sentiments. If I didn't take photos of our kids the last
25 years, there wouldn't be any photos at all! haha.
If I didn't take selfies, there wouldn't be any photographic
documentation of my existence in decades.
And no, he didn't take the above picture. :)
Some day when my great granddaughters inherit my
finer jewelry, I want them to be able to see who I was
and laugh at the styles of clothes and hair "back then".
I hope they will hear something about who I was, too.
Good things, I hope. And as I get older, the legacy I leave
behind becomes more than a passing thought.
There are quite a few things I enjoy about getting older.
Hopefully, we become wiser. :) We aren't as shy.
We are more sure of ourselves. We know when to stand
up for ourselves. We know what we believe and why.
Our faith is stronger. We seem to be able to keep
perspective when bad things happen.
We've learned how strong we really are. We've learned from
our mistakes and we've learned from others' mistakes.
We've learned what toxic relationships look like.
We've learned to say no. We've learned that quality is
better than quantity and that goes for everything from
friends to possessions. We can laugh at ourselves.
We've learned that happiness is a choice.
We've learned that our story is just a thread in the tapestry
of history and it's up to us to make our little thread
as beautiful as we can. Since I love gray, maybe mine
will be gray? haha. Or maybe it will look silver. :)
And just as importantly, our little thread of a life isn't
running through that tapestry loose and independently.
It is connected to those threads around us...every other life
we've touched. They are all sewn together and influenced
by each other. The length of the thread isn't as important
as the color, strength and beauty of it.
Didn't I read somewhere recently that the 50's were the new 30's?
Yes, I like that thought. You're only as old as you feel, right?
♥