Night Owl Cards

I'm not very good at dealing with painful or difficult incidents that are beyond my control. If it's something that affects me directly I'm on it. I'll wrestle that hardship into submission. But I just can't handle the constant drumbeat of misery and affliction when all of it contains a caption at the bottom that reads YOU CAN'T DO ANYTHING ABOUT THIS. The recent hurricanes are one example, although there is definitely a course of action I can take. Still I just can't look at pictures of destruction over and over. I'm sure some of you know certain Facebook friends who wallow in distant misfortune. They dredge up some poor family 2,000 miles away, who they don't know, whose kid died in a tragic accident and proclaim isn't that so sad? Yes, it's sad. It's sad every time it happens. What is your point? I don't mean to come off as unfeeling, I just don't see the value in wallowing in stuff that is beyond your control. Foc...