Colman Domingo, actor, accepting the President’s Award at the 57th
NAACP Image Awards and praising his stepfather:
“I had about four different speeches written and I let go of
all of them this morning. ‘Cause I wanted to speak from the heart, and talk
about service, and what gets you to this stage. You don’t get here alone. You
get here by having a stepfather, Clarence Bowles, who came along when I was
about eight years old and married my mom. He was a blue-collar worker, sanded
hardwood floors. He fired me from my summer job with them. He said, ‘Son, come
here. This is your last summer doing this.’ I said, ‘Why? I thought I was doing
a good job.’ He says, ‘I don’t want you doing this backbreaking work. I want
you to work with your mind.’ He held out his hands that had callouses on them,
and he said, ‘Let me tell you something. I don’t want that for you. I want you
to have soft hands. And I want you, when you go far, I want you to have
something you believe in, and do good things in the world.’ And I carry that
message with me, with every man that I portray. I want to make sure that I give
them their full humanity, to make sure they look just like us in every single
way, in all of our complexity. I want to make sure that there’s love, love,
love, and more love.”
Sounds like Clarance Bowels was a wonder father who wanted
more for his stepson than maybe he had as a child.
We could all use a parent, or parents, who lift us up.
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