Renisha McBride Needed Help But Was Shot In The Face Instead

A little before 1AM on November 2, Detroit police received a call about a no-injury accident in a local neighborhood. The 911 caller said a woman had been speeding down the street, struck a parked car, got out of the vehicle and then left; police initially considered the incident a low priority, so no officers were immediately dispatched.

About 40 minutes later, police received a second 911 call saying the woman had returned to her vehicle, but she was gone when police and EMS arrived. That woman was 19-year-old Renisha McBride; her family believes she was going door-to-door asking for help because her cellphone had died.

At about 4AM, just six blocks away from the accident, Renisha was shot in the face by a man who says he thought she was trying to break into his home; he also says his 12-gauge shotgun discharged accidentally. Now, no one knows what happened between the time of the accident and the time of the shooting, but McBride’s family believe she was shot because she as black.

Michigan prosecutors are now trying to decide whether to charge the homeowner, whose name has not been released. His lawyer says he acted properly, but there are many unanswered questions.

Such as: Renisha was shot in the face — with her wound going front to back, right to left — so the rifle had to be up in the man’s arms and aimed at her face. And while there is some dispute about how far away Renisha was from the homeowner — the autopsy report shows that she was shot in the face and there was "no evidence of close range discharge of a firearm" — it is clear that she was standing on the man’s front porch.

Which begs the question: you hear a noise outside your house at 4AM. You grab your shotgun and head to your front door; you open your front door — and the rifle has to be down while you do this — and then you see a young girl, a five-foot-four-inch tall girl, on your porch. Did the rifle come up? Did the gun go off accidentally? What, if anything did Renisha McBride say to the homeowner before the gun “accidentally” discharged?

McBride's death was ruled a homicide; the homeowner has not been charged.

Here we are again. It’s another Trayvon Martin; another Jonathan Ferrell — see that post HERE. This is the perfect example of why we need gun control in this country. This man has a right to own a gun, but apparently doesn’t have to know how to keep it from discharging. This man has a right to own a gun, but doesn’t Renisha McBride — and Trayvon and Jonathan and others — have the right to the benefit of the doubt before a rifle is raised to her face?

As I’ve said before, if you have a gun, you intend to use it. This man heard a sound, thought his home was being burglarized, grabbed a gun, opened a door and fired. Did he see Renisha before he fired? Did she say a word before being shot in the face? Was she, like Jonathan Ferrell, asking for help after a car accident? And were her pleas for help unanswered because someone chose to shoot first?

We’re rapidly becoming gun nuts in the country, and one day soon half of us will have guns and the other half will be afraid to leave our homes.

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Another One: Zachery Gray .... And Another One ....

Zachery Gray was 18-years-old when he tried to kill himself as a result of being bullied; well, as a result of being called "fag" and "Gay Zach" and "queer" on a daily basis, even though he was straight and had a girlfriend.

After enduring yet another day of constant bullying, Zach, who’d been suspended for pulling a prank on a teacher, headed home. That afternoon, he tried to hang himself with a dog chain in a shed behind his home, but neighbors, his mother and paramedics were able to save him.

Zach was set to graduate from Zephyrhills High School this year but now suffers from brain damage and requires 24-hour care at a local medical center. He can no longer walk or talk.

And now his family is speaking out, saying the school did not do enough to stop the incessant bullying of Zach. Under Florida law, school officials must report bullying incidents and "develop plans for ending harassing behavior," but now, citing privacy concerns, the school is refusing to comment. In fact, Zach’s father says school officials won’t even return their phone calls.

A young boy tried to kill himself and the officials cannot pick up a phone. But, oh, it gets worse.

It seems that Zachery Gray complained of the teasing and the taunts; students had been making fun—and we really shouldn’t call it ‘making fun’ anymore--of his weight and sexuality, by  calling him "heavy" and "Zach Gay" during a field trip. And Zach did what he was supposed to do; he complained to the teacher on that field trip, Brenda Carlson,

Carlson told investigators that she asked Zach: "If someone calls you a tree, are you a tree? And if someone calls you gay, does that make you gay?"

And that’s all she did. She didn’t report the incident and didn’t even bother to speak to the students who were taunting Zach. In fact, after Gray’s suicide attempt, she told investigators "she did not have any concerns that Zach was being bullied." 

Even.Though.He.Told.Her.

Brenda Carlson no longer works for the district. Which is a little convenient.

"Her job was to come to me, tell me, go to the principal, go to authorities," said Lynn Gray. "She did nothing."

And now a boy cannot walk or talk.

And then.....

In Detroit, a 14-year-old girl peered through the keyhole of a locked door and found her brother hanging from a bunk bed with a belt around his neck.

She screamed for her mother and called 911. Her mother and a neighbor broke through the door of the boy's room, took him down and called 911, but it was too late.

He was seven.

His mother said her son, whose name is not being released, had been depressed about being bullied by other kids at school and in his neighborhood, and about his parents' recent separation.

Detroit Police Chief Ralph Godbee Jr. said he was told the boy had expressed a desire to harm himself, and the mother told him that her son was being counseled by the family's pastor to help him cope.

The boy's family does not want to comment.

A seven-year-old is dead.

The two cases are as different as they are the same.

One young man told officials he was being bullied and they did nothing to stop it.

One young boy talked to his pastor and tried to work though his parent’s separation and the fact that he was bullied.

But the bullies were never confronted and so the bullying never stopped.

Until Zach Gray tried to kill himself and a young boy in Detroit tied a belt around his neck.

When are people, and by people, I mean the parents of the bullied, the parents of the bullies, teachers, school officials, politicians, going to realize that this is a problem and do something about it.

How many more kids have to die, or permanently scar themselves for life, before someone says ‘Enough.’

Zach’s school district needs to accept responsibility. Brenda Carlson needs to stop teaching and accept her role in this. I wonder, if she’d said anything to anyone might the bullying have stopped, and might Zach be graduating in June instead of lying in a hospital bed?

I wonder….

Zachery Gray

A Seven-Year-Old Boy