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Friday, June 29, 2012
More Good News Friday: Erwynn and Will Get Hitched .... On Base
Tech. Sgt. Erwynn
Umali and his partner, Will Behrens, were united in a civil union
ceremony last week. That's nice, eh?
But what makes it
different is that these two men had their civil union ceremony at the military
base where Umali is stationed. And dozens of friends and
family members attended the ceremony which was presided over by Kay Reeb, a
Navy chaplain with the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America, who also serves
at Joint Base McGuire-Dix-Lakehurst.
Erwynn Umali and Will
Behrens:
“We are so honored to be a part of this historic moment to be one of the first gay couples allowed to unite in a civil union on a military base,” the couple said in a statement after the ceremony. We hope to be an inspiration to others in the LGBT community that struggle with the challenge of marriage equality. And that this issue is not just about the military, but the equal sacrifice and shared burdens of our loved ones who are civilians.”
And Reeb, who has never
presided over a civil union ceremony before, was delighted to take part:
"I told them the same thing I tell every couple — love each other and trust in each other and in God, that’s what keeps us together.”
Also attending the
ceremony was former Marine Staff Sgt. Eric Alva, the first U.S. service member
seriously injured in the Iraq War. He later came out as gay and worked
diligently in the efforts to overturn DADT:
"It’s blessing for me to be here today. A historic event like this shows that progress is being made.”
Air Force Capt. Ryan
Quinn, another guest, said:
“I really do think this is an important event. And I was happy to be here with them and their families. The amount of support I’ve seen for them from the people (at the base) and the military community makes me proud to serve in the Air Force.”
Hopefully that same pride
that the military is showing toward the LGBT community since the end of DADT
will one day translate to the civilian community. Maybe one day they will
attend our weddings as we have often attended theirs.
Equality is a beautiful
thing.
via The Army Times
Monday, May 28, 2012
A Memorable Memorial Day: After DADT
| from left: gay midshipmen Caitlin Bryant, Kay Moore, Nick Bonsall, and Andrew Atwill |
Last year, Andrew Atwil's roommate at the Naval
Academy joked that Atwill was gay, and Atwill told him to cut it out; because
he is gay. And because, last year, Atwill could have jeopardized his military
career if anyone know.
This year, though, it's a
different story at Annapolis. Now, with DADT repealed Atwill says the
academy has changed, and that now, talking about his sexual orientation is no
longer a reason to be drummed out of the military. In fact, most in the academy
now come to the defense of its gay and lesbian cadets.
Andrew Atwill:
"Pretty much everybody in my company knows now, [and] they actually
stand up for me."
As it should be.
Eight months after the repeal,
midshipmen both gay and straight describe a quiet but significant
transformation at the Naval Academy. Gay midshipmen are seeking recognition for
a student club, and, just last month, for the first time, faculty members and
staff openly attended an off-campus dinner that had been organized secretly
every year by and for gay midshipmen.
And this year, Andrew Atwill
and his boyfriend, classmate Nick Bonsall, are going to Saturday’s Ring Dance,
a formal ball held each spring for third-year midshipmen.
"It's been really great, actually," says Nick
Bonsall. "Everyone
has been really accepting of us."
As it should be.
The experience at Annapolis this year mirrors
those across the country at the other service academies, but some future
officers worry about what might happen upon graduation. While their generation
might be accepting, the majority of military personnel is still made up of
people of all ages and backgrounds, and some senior officers say privately that
they won't come out for fear of jeopardizing their careers.
Even Andrew Atwill, while aware of this new level of
understanding and tolerance, wonders what life will be like after leaving Annapolis
and joining the fleet: "For me, personally, it's still a concern. When I become an officer, I'm kind of worried about whether
or not my sailors will take it the wrong way if I give them a pat on the back
or, you know, happen to be in the bathroom at the same time as them. I'm
afraid that if they know that I'm gay, that if I was even to look at them
wrong, they may end up somehow turning that against me."
But not everyone sees any problems arising. Caitlyn
Bryant, a second-year midshipman, says, "In the fleet, it will be
good, you don't have to worry about what they might think your orientation is.
You can just focus on being a leader….People have accepted it."
As it should be.
And Defense Secretary Leon Panetta, however, doesn’t
foresee a problem. He says the repeal of DADT is going very well: "It's
not impacting on morale. It's not impacting on unit cohesion. It's not
impacting on readiness."
As it should be.
And change is coming to all branches. Gay cadets at
the U.S. Military Academy and the Coast Guard Academy are forming
clubs, while gay alumni at the Air Force Academy hosted their first football
tailgate last fall, and Air Force Academy and West Point gay alumni held
their annual dinners on campus for the first time.
Kara Yingling, a fourth-year midshipman , who is not gay,
says the majority of the student body "didn't make a big deal" of the
policy change: "We have seen more openly gay people, and I think that's
good for them, because they no longer have to live their lives in fear that
something's going to happen just because of their sexuality."
This Memorial Day will be, if possible, more
memorable, because of this new openness and honesty and acceptance.
As it should be.
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