| Oh-so-hot Canadian actor François Arnaud, who played Cesare Borgia on Showtime’s The Borgias, has come out as bisexual via Instagram”
“I’m sure many bisexual guys feel the same and end up doing as I did: letting other people’s assumptions of straightness stand uncorrected, perhaps out of fear of oversharing. Under the guise of privacy, maybe. Probably because ‘masculinity’ is a most fragile currency … and because it’s really f**king scary to give up your privilege. … But here’s the thing, silence has the perverse effect of perpetuating those stereotypes, making bi guys invisible, and leading people to doubt that we even exist. … labels are frustrating and words, imperfect. But I’ve always considered myself bisexual. Not confused or trying to look edgy. Not disloyal. Not ashamed. [No longer] invisible.” Welcome out, Francois. I know a lot of people don’t understand bisexuality, but we don’t need to understand it, we just need to accept it as your truth. But, you know, shallow me, when your bisexuality swings toward the male side, I’m here to lend a ‘helping’ hand. Just sayin’. |